Please do not judge me for what you are about to read in this post.I am in a relationship, and am about to see my boyfriend (whom I love) for the first time in 1.5 years, but I keep talking to other people on dating apps. I do not agree to meet anyone. Mostly exchanging banter and small talk. Some light flirting.Why do I do it? I do not know. I am not the cheating type. In fact, I got cheated on by an ex-boyfriend, someone I almost married. Multiple times. It pretty much destroyed my ability to trust anyone (until I met my current - and look how I am ruining it now, just before our long-awaited reunion).For the past month or so I have avoided all my friends, except for my best friend - agreed to see her only once. I have only gone out on walks alone, gone to bookshops and coffee shops alone. it is normally what I love, but now I find myself questioning why I do it, why I feel the need to always be alone. Today the answer came to me, all of a sudden. Because when you are alone, no one can ever hurt you. I do not know who hurt me, anyway. But I am starting to realise that I have committed to being alone because - well, I AM alone. I have always been alone.I turn 28 this year, the year that my parents had their first kid. I cannot picture a future that has anyone by my side. there is just nothing there. Every love I have ever had - gone, broke my heart, moved on. Love is so fleeting. what is left but the broken pieces desperately trying to become one again? What can I do to heal but to accept that I can count on no one but myself, in the end?My boyfriend is sweet, and loving, and kind - but I cannot give him a happy and free life, because -I- am not free. he is also so much younger and has so much else to see. he is not going to want me once he grows up a little more. I can only love him in the meantime.I honestly do not know what I am saying. Feels like rambling TBH. All I know is that I cannot think of a single person who is always been -my person-. And that were it not for the fact that I have an 8 year old niece, I might not bother trying to keep living anymore. there is all this emptiness inside that I cannot make any sense of. I am living half of myself - I can never marry a woman - and only now am I realising just how much it is destroying me. Extremely alone and cut off from the world. And the stupidest part is that I actively choose to stay away from people

The user expresses significant emotional distress, feelings of loneliness, isolation, and uncertainty about the future. They also mention past experiences of betrayal and current relational struggles, leading to feelings of emptiness. Importantly, they express a contemplation of their life and hint at a lack of desire to keep living if not for a family member. These are critical indicators of a person struggling with mental health, potentially experiencing depression or existential crisis, and possibly considering self-harm. Thus, the situation is very high-stakes as the user might be in need of mental health support.


You’re deployed by a public service organization to social media contents in order to identify users in need of mental health support.

I will never be able to find a passion again.I am in jail with freedom aka home.Streams start to dwindle, content begins to fade away.Changes for the better or for the worse ?Right now, I am bewildered.Idk if i will get a job in august but i know its going to be a really tough month if i cannot get something to do or earn moneyFucking shitSometimes, i wish i was dead. No hope

The user expresses feelings of hopelessness and despair, with references to being in jail at home and wishing to be dead. There is an indication of potential financial stress and a loss of passion, which can exacerbate mental health issues. The mention of wishing to be dead elevates the stakes significantly.

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I should be doing all kinds of stuff, but I can hardly be arsed to do even one. All day long I just check my phone and procrastinate. This is the worst bout of depression I have ever had. How do I get myself to care again, because I do not. Cycle of unproductivity

The user is expressing feelings associated with depression, such as lack of motivation and unproductivity. However, there is no explicit mentioning of self-harm or suicidal ideation, which would increase the stakes significantly. Nonetheless, mental health support is needed as they identify it as the worst bout of depression they've ever had. The situation can have serious implications on their quality of life if not addressed, but immediate risk seems lower.


lucky for you it wasn't a sharp knife.

The statement 'lucky for you it wasn't a sharp knife' implies that there was an incident involving a knife, which could suggest a potentially dangerous or harmful situation. The lack of detail makes it difficult to determine the exact context, but it could be related to self-harm or a threat to one's safety. Such situations are often high-stakes because they could involve immediate physical harm or a call for help.


when you are fucking done with life and going to buy some more liquor in 6 in morning !!normal people be alike tittle

The user's message suggests a high level of distress and possible reliance on alcohol as a coping mechanism, which can be a sign of mental health struggles. The phrase 'done with life' implies potential thoughts of self-harm or suicidal ideation, which is a severe situation requiring attention.


!!VENTING NOT ASKING FOR HELP!!For the past couple of months, ever since I quit my job after having multiple crippling panic attacks at work, I have been finding it hard to leave the house. it is gotten to a point where I just do not go outside anymore and hide away in fantasies my brain makes, waiting to die. Before I tried getting jobs but I cannot hold any down and eventually just stopped trying. For the last 3 months I have been forced to see a therapist, the drive there makes me physically ill and paranoid. I still have a hard time expressing to her how I feel in person but I cannot stop seeing her. She has ordered me to go to a doctor twice but I just cannot go.I have a very loving family but they are too loving and not in the ways that I need, I have no autonomy or word in decisions made for me. I no longer have the will to argue. I cannot see a future for myself, I had plans on moving out before I quit my job, but now it is just a cold dream. These feelings are taboo in my family but my parents have been very patient with me until now. I think my mom just kicked me out. I have until Monday to pack to my things she said, I am not upset or sad by this, it is what I deserve. Not to sound like I am in my own self pity party but I was told that even if I am in such a "dark place" I still chose to be in the situation that I am in, and really I cannot help but agree. How is it that others can still live their day to day lives but I cannot, I cannot comprehend it.Anyways I think I am going to homeless but I cannot find the will to do anything about it. disappointed in myself

The user describes a series of serious mental health issues, including past panic attacks, difficulty leaving the house, and feelings of hopelessness. They also express a lack of autonomy and a potential housing crisis, as they mention being kicked out by their mother. The language used suggests a near-complete withdrawal from daily activities and responsibilities, which are indicative of a severe depression or mental health crisis. While the user has a support system in place through therapy and family, their inability to find the will to engage with these resources or communicate effectively increases the stakes significantly. This situation seems to be at a critical juncture, particularly given the potential for homelessness and the profound sense of self-disappointment that could exacerbate their condition.


Currently in a extreme sucidal state cannot take it anymore. I so fucking mad. I sat my fat Ugandan balls down on for over 120 minutes and England lost. I need a slow and painful death, cheap and easy and can be done with multiple casualties. England lost the finals

The user expresses extreme suicidal thoughts and threats to cause harm to themselves and potentially others, indicating a very high-stakes situation that demands immediate attention. This is a severe mental health issue that calls for urgent intervention.


Why is it that every time I do my job I'm always restless, I'm so dizzy, it's so hard I can't focus, please

The user's message indicates a level of distress, possibly linked to mental health or burnout from their job. They mention symptoms like restlessness, dizziness, and difficulty focusing, which could be indicative of a need for mental health support. The stakes could be high if the individual is at risk of harming themselves or if their mental state severely affects their ability to function daily. It's crucial to assess whether immediate intervention is needed.


I am killing myself the church is fake Killing myself

The user explicitly mentions an intention to harm themselves, which is a strong indicator of a mental health crisis. Such expressions of self-harm or suicidal ideation suggest a high-risk situation that requires immediate attention and intervention by mental health professionals.


gon na sound stupid a this happens to everyone but my daughter brought from daycare a nasty stomach bug i ve been puking my gut out and sitting on the toilet most of the day i m so tired but i can t sleep cause of the symptom i rapidly become so distressed my brain start to spin out of control and i want to end it all i m not capable to do it to be honest but man it is distressing i know after some sleep i ll be good but the current moment are atrocious i just can t focus on something else or clear my mind i should say i combine that to ongoing struggle with operational anxiety from the military every little thing push me to the edge

The situation involves the user's distress from a stomach bug exacerbated by ongoing mental health issues, including operational anxiety from military experiences. Although the user states they're not capable of doing anything harmful and is aware that sleep will help, the mention of wanting to 'end it all' and feeling pushed 'to the edge' indicates a potential crisis that merits attention.


I have been doing really bad and called my psychiatrists office twice last week trying to get an earlier appointment than today and that was my bad, I was too depressed to bother calling back. I feel like that should have been concerning to them though.Today I finally had my scheduled phone appointment and it was supposed to happen at 3:20. He never called. I am so frustrated, I feel like I have been crying out for help for so long and he did not even care enough to call. Its just made me feel even more insignificant and worthless.I always thought he did not care because hes always talked over me in appointments, and never seems to remember anything about me after two years, and does not seem to have even bothered to read my file before we meet. I did not really need todays confirmation, and its a real kick to the stomach. I do not know what I am going to do anymore. I just want help, I am so tired of fighting the system Vent about shitty Psychiatrist

The user expresses feelings of depression, insignificance, and hopelessness. They describe attempts to seek help from a psychiatrist who did not respond as expected, which has exacerbated their negative feelings. The language used indicates a high level of emotional distress, which suggests the user may be in a situation where their mental health is in a fragile state. This makes it a high-stakes situation as there could be potential risks to the user's well-being if they do not receive appropriate support.


Looking for participants to use a mobile app designed for students Hi dear students in this group,

I have designed a mobile app based on research that can help you focus on priorities instead of "short-term" distractions in a motivational way!

Try it for free; you will never regret it!

I need your help to use it and evaluate it in 4 weeks. Your participation is highly appreciated.

https://surveys.dal.ca/opinio/s?s=71795

For more info, read the following Recruitment notice

Study Title: Evaluation of a Persuasive Mobile Application for Prompting Time Management Behaviour  If you are a student (part-time or full-time) enrolled in a degree program in a higher education institution, 18 years or older, and able to access a smartphone device, you are invited to evaluate the effectiveness of a persuasive app. The app aims to persuade students to be more organized towards their tasks and study spaces.

First, you will be asked to give consent to do the study and respond to pre-survey questions (take 20-25 mins), which consist of demographics questions, questions of your preference for organization toward your tasks and study space, level of perceived ability to control your time, and stress level. After answering the pre-survey questions and providing your email address, you will see a link to the app. By clicking the link, you will be able to download the app on your device.

Second, you will use the app daily by adding your daily tasks and organizing them based on their importance/urgency, marking them as complete, and engaging in social community features over four weeks. The app will send you notifications to emphasize the benefits of adhering to organizational acts and encourage you to minimize physical clutter in order to create a better-organized study space.

At the end of the study, you will be asked to respond to the post-survey questions (take 20-25 mins), which is the same pre-survey question, including your experiences and perceived persuasiveness towards the app. The interview will be optional. There will be a question that asks you if you want to be interviewed, and by choosing “yes,” the researcher will communicate with you for an online interview which takes 15 mins. The interview will be audio recorded.

Your participation is highly appreciated and is completely voluntary. All data will be treated confidential and for research purposes only. You will not be asked for any personal information other than your email to connect the pre survey, post survey, and the app usage.

Compensation:   Participants will be entered into a prize draw to win an Amazon C$25.00 gift card (8 winners).

If you face any difficulties downloading the app, please contact Mona Alhasani (Mona.alhasani@dal.ca). If you know people that may be interested in taking part in the study, please, send the link to them.

This research study is being conducted by researchers at Dalhousie University,   Ms. Mona Alhasani – Lead researcher Dr. Rita Orji – Supervisor

To participate in the study, please click on the link: https://surveys.dal.ca/opinio/s?s=71795

The post is a recruitment notice for a study evaluating a mobile app designed to help students manage their time more effectively. There is no immediate implication of high stakes; the focus is on user participation in a research study. There is no indication of urgent mental health needs or crises. The stakes of the situation mainly revolve around data privacy and research ethics, which are important but typically of lower immediate urgency compared to direct mental health concerns.


gavlp yes i hope these shock are going to stop soon i think i m getting angry with earth itself

The user's message suggests that they are experiencing distress, possibly due to recurring negative events or conditions ('these shock') which are causing anger towards 'earth'. While it indicates a level of emotional disturbance, it doesn't explicitly state any threats to personal safety or severe distress. However, given the context of mental health support, it could be indicative of underlying issues that might need attention from professionals.


It doesn't take long, it's enough that you like them, they like you and become friends... UDAHHH

The statement appears cryptic and lacks clear indicators of distress or urgency. It could merely be expressing a viewpoint about friendships forming quickly. However, the mention of "UDAHHH" is ambiguous, but it doesn't definitively suggest a need for immediate mental health support.


I am just so tired. Nothing feels real anymore and has not for a while. Even if I come to terms with life at night and fall sleep feeling okay, when I wake up it feels impossible to start the day.

The user is expressing feelings of exhaustion, dissociation ('nothing feels real anymore'), and difficulty in starting the day, which can be indicators of depression or another mental health issue. These feelings can significantly impact daily functioning and quality of life, potentially escalating to more serious risks if untreated. However, the user is not expressing any immediate threats, like thoughts of self-harm or suicide. While the stakes are moderate due to the potential for deterioration without support, they are not the highest possible.


nowplaying manic depression by jimi hendrix experience 0 http t co r umpqwwmv http t co n evcmygjc

The content shared by the user appears to be a music reference to a Jimi Hendrix song. The phrase 'manic depression' could potentially suggest a mental health issue. However, since it is a reference to a song title, it does not necessarily indicate that the user is in distress or experiencing a mental health crisis. Without additional context or expressed feelings, it is not possible to determine the user's mental state solely based on this tweet.


I have been feeling lazy as hell. I work from home and I have been addicted to youtube videos. I do not even enjoy these videos. I just watch them while working but I can barely focus. Maybe I will get fired soon. I also stopped working out even though my garage gym is seconds away from my home office. I started getting fat. I have also been spending over $2k on escorts this year. I have just feel like shit. I even drove to the grocery store one night just to buy 3 family sized bags of potato chips. As soon as I got home, I feel massive regret. What the hell is wrong with me? Everything I do seem out of character than who I was a year ago... Am i depressed? What is wrong with me?

The user mentions several concerning behaviors, including lack of focus, compulsive video watching, cessation of exercise, excessive spending on escorts, and significant regret about these actions. These behaviors suggest a notable change from their previous self, hinting at potential underlying mental health issues such as depression. Their self-reflection and questioning of being depressed further suggest a need for mental health support. While the stakes are not life-threatening immediately, they indicate a serious decline in well-being that could have significant personal and professional repercussions if left unaddressed.


i feel like a horrible person. I am on the brink of going insane i feel like. i have a fear of being a pedophile, i despise them but i keep convincing myself i am one? I am scared of this it hurts so much.it seems to get worse the worse mental state I am in, when i feel normal i feel like i do not even believe it, that its just in my head. this past week is has been rough and I have been thinking about it a lot. the first anniversary of my moms murder is sunday and I am not sure if they are correlated or not. i feel like maybe i can solve this problem if i could talk to someone. i have a therapist and this is a very small town and i do not trust them, and there is not another one i can get realistically. my therapist is a anti-masker and anti vaxxer for fucks sake.if this continues i would rather die than have to think these thoughts. i believe i have pedo OCD and its ruining my mind

The user is expressing deep mental distress and fear of a condition they believe they have (pedo OCD). They are also experiencing worsened mental health due to the upcoming anniversary of a traumatic event—the murder of their mother. They report feelings of wanting to die if the intrusive thoughts persist and express distrust in their current therapist. This situation involves substantial mental health risks, including potential self-harm or deterioration without proper support.


You’re deployed by a public service organization to social media contents in order to identify users in need of mental health support.

My whole life, I thought I had made all of the correct decisions setting myself up for later in life. I graduated college without debt, had a good career, and had a great social circle. Well, I made one tiny mistake one day two years ago and now my whole life is a fucking mess. I feel like everything that I worked so hard for was for nothing. Everything that could have gone wrong has gone wrong the past two years. It honestly feels like God is not just testing me, but he wants me to kill myself. Being stuck in limbo fucking sucks. I feel like God wants me to kill myself

The user's message indicates a significant level of distress and hopelessness, mentioning past achievements unraveling due to a mistake. Importantly, the user expresses suicidal ideation, suggesting they feel trapped and targeted, thus requiring immediate mental health support.


Withdrawing from university, and then I am going to go kill myself. Goodbye. I have decided to go to rest.

The user is expressing a serious intention to harm themselves, which indicates an immediate risk to their life. This situation involves potential loss of life and requires urgent intervention, making it extremely high-stakes.


The news is giving me anxiety, can anyone relate? (popular journalist dies of a heart attack after some random stomach pain) TRIGGER WARNING. Stop reading if you get easily triggered.
So this poor journalist lady who's very popular in my country died of a heart attack few days ago and the news went crazy. Of course it triggered me anxiety, as always when I hear of someone else dying. She was 50 and from what I heard she was a healthy and active woman ( this makes me even more anxious knowing that no matter how healthy you try to be you still can get a heart attack) . Apparently, she was having a heavy stomach ache and went to doc. She stayed hospitalised and suffered a heart attack during endoscopy procedure. They say that maybe there was smth wrong with the anaesthesia,  Weird bc it's one of the best private clinics there. So is stomach ache a symptom of heart attack or she died because of anesthesia negligence?. It's worth mentioning that her father's a doctor and she knew a lot about medicine and she didn't seem concerned during her stay

The user's post expresses anxiety triggered by news of an unexpected death. While the anxiety seems significant to them, the situation does not present an immediate or direct physical risk. The context suggests worry about health unpredictability and negligence concerns. However, without any indication of severe mental health symptoms or crisis, it lacks extreme urgency. Therefore, I'll rate this situation as moderately important in terms of mental health but not extremely high-stakes.


lately I have been having a really hard time. i cannot bring myself to go into detail but it seems like my life is unraveling. there is so much that is out of my control and so much i do not know. I am exhausted both mentally and physically and I am starting to feel very lost and alone.with so much stress and sadness I have found that I am getting angry at every small inconvenience. i shut down over the smallest things and cannot seem to get a grip. this is completely out of character for me and i cannot get a handle on it. I am so disappointed in myself.help? I am becoming overreactive and miss my level-headed self

The user is describing a state of mental and physical exhaustion, feeling lost and alone, and experiencing significant stress and sadness. These are indicators of possible mental health issues that can impact daily functioning and quality of life. Although the user doesn't explicitly mention self-harm or a crisis situation, their call for help and self-described lack of control suggest they could benefit from immediate mental health support. The stakes are high because unresolved mental health issues can lead to more severe outcomes if not addressed.


Weird Eye????? Does anybody have problems with their eyes when they have BAD anxiety or one eye in particular? My left eye ALWAYS feels weird almost like there is a veil over it. I have been the the eye doc and they said their is nothing wrong structure wise but I do have dry eye. I was told today it’s a tension headache. My neck and shoulders are pretty tight and sore as well, but my eyes has been doing this long before the tension. I am starting to freak out pretty bad…..

The user is discussing symptoms associated with anxiety and expresses significant distress about one of their eyes. They are also beginning to 'freak out' which suggests increasing anxiety. However, they are not expressing any intention to harm themselves or others, and have sought medical attention, indicating a level of management. Nevertheless, there's potential for worsening mental health if not addressed, so this could be considered moderately high-stakes to ensure they get appropriate support.


i do it every once in a while.

The statement 'i do it every once in a while.' is very vague and does not provide enough context to determine if it is associated with a high-stakes situation related to mental health. There is no indication of distress or a specific activity that could imply risk. Therefore, it's challenging to evaluate the stakes without additional information.


Stress rash, so unbelievably exhausted. help I just started to break out with a rash on my head and now my ankles? Super weird. Has anyone experienced this before? What can I do?

I have gone through what feels like torture in the last few months. If you care to read further this is my dealio...

-My brothers addiction and homelessness is at an all time shit storm. I am his only family member support 5+ years(everyone else lives 5000km away)

-was fired 2 months ago (first time fired) hated the job, so whatevs but it was humiliating none the less

-dumped by my now ex, I genuinely cared for, it was a lovely relationship. Was single 4 years prior and I thought I finally found something real and long term

-started a new job. Love it so it's just happy stress

-enrolled in upgrading so I can return to school next fall. Freaking out because I don't want to leave town for the 2 year program.

-just lonely. To a depth I cannot explain, it's something you must have experienced yourself because I never could imagine this myself.

Guys. What the hell?
I must say I do have much to be greatful so it's not all doom and gloom. (Healthy, amazing friends and fam, home owner, safe etc)

I feel the weight of the world on me and I think I'm going to loose it tonight

The user is expressing significant stress from multiple life events, their brother's addiction, and personal feelings of loneliness and despair. They mention feeling exhausted and on the verge of losing control, indicating a high emotional and mental health struggle. However, they also acknowledge having some positive aspects in their life, which might serve as support. Given the complexity and depth of emotional distress, this scenario is high-stakes.


First thought I had as I walked out of the room was, I want to die. I want to die. I want to die.I was not even angry this time. I just felt dead.I am falling into that hole again and I just do not care. I do not have anything to hold on to. I do not have it in me to prevent myself from hitting the bottom. Just fuck it. A failure, you have always been a failure. The other voice goes on. A failure of man. A failure of a son. Just a waste of life.I am holding in tears and I feel pathetic.This failure triggered it. Woke it up. I have pretented enough. Fuck it. I want to die. I do not want to talk to anybody. I want to disappear.The shame of having to tell my mother I failed again might kill me. I hope it kills me.I appreciate you reading this. I have depression. I am depressed. I want to die. I failed the driving exam for the second time.

The user expresses repeated thoughts of wanting to die and feelings of worthlessness, mentioning depression and despair. There's an indication of being overwhelmed by their mental state and a lack of willingness or desire to seek help. This situation is high-stakes due to the immediate risk to life and the need for intervention from mental health professionals.


It's really fucking hard, but so far it has absolutely been worth it. I'm putting a lot more time and effort into improving myself. I've been much more productive. I'm doing things I used to love again. Things that used to seem a distant dream or completely unachievable now feel like they might be things I can tackle - if not now, then *someday*.

The user's message conveys a sense of positivity and a focus on personal development and improvement. Although they acknowledge challenges, the overall tone is optimistic, indicating progress and hope. There is no indication of immediate risk or distress. However, mental health situations can be complex, so while this particular message does not suggest a high risk scenario, continued support and monitoring could be beneficial.


I had no good friends in my class, I never had a partner when it was time to pair up on our own, the work was going to get harder and we would be working on clients soon. When I came back all I could think about was how much I wanted to go home. So I didn't go back after that. I had to go back though and pick up my stuff. But everyone asked what was I gonna do next, why did I drop out.

The user expresses feelings of isolation, a lack of social support, and anxiety about future responsibilities. These are potential indicators of distress and possible mental health issues. However, the user does not explicitly state intentions of self-harm, suggesting the situation may not be at the highest level of urgency. Nevertheless, the elements mentioned, such as dropping out and feeling overwhelmed, suggest a higher stakes situation due to possible impacts on their mental health and life circumstances.


Scary throat problems I had 2 respiratory infections in about a span of a month and when it finally began to clear up I had an persistent globule feeling in the opening of my throat. After about a week later that two passed and I began to have pain in the right side of my chest usually after eating. Most recently I've been having this electric shock feeling in the opening of my throat when I yawn or sometimes just stretch my neck. I feel like it maybe happened occasionally over the last couple weeks but I feel like the frequency and intensity is increasing with time. Someone please help.

The user describes ongoing and worsening physical health symptoms, which could indicate a potentially serious medical condition. While these are concerning, they do not necessarily indicate an immediate life-threatening situation, but they do warrant prompt medical attention. This situation is high-stakes in terms of needing medical intervention rather than mental health support directly. The sense of urgency and distress in the plea for help contributes to the assessment.


hi guy pls who know how to overcome depression i m dying slowly

The user expresses feelings of depression and mentions 'dying slowly,' which suggests a critical need for mental health support. This indicates a high-stakes situation due to the potential risk to the person's safety and wellbeing.


The user's input 'nan' does not provide enough context or information to assess whether the situation is high-stakes. The lack of clarity means I cannot determine the urgency or the potential impact related to mental health support.


Yes, you know how fat you are. This is also where if you have to choose, you want to be skinny too. Ning yaono ancen e is fat because as long as he is not fasting, he eats freely.

The statement seems to be making a body image-related comment that could be sensitive or triggering for some individuals, especially those struggling with issues like eating disorders, body dysmorphia, or self-esteem. Such comments can potentially lead to psychological distress and might indicate someone in need of mental health support. However, without further context—such as the tone, intention behind the statement, or the mental health status of the person involved—it's challenging to assess the stakes with absolute certainty.


Fear of harming others I wonder if this applies to you guys as well, because, honestly, this may just be my quirk.

I noticed that I don’t contribute much to conversations because I have this weird fear of accidentally offending or hurting the people I’m talking to. It’s like walking on eggshells: I overthink everything a thousand times before actually saying it.

It’s also why I shy away from relationships. I don’t want my partner to be unhappy because of me, so I don’t even try.

The user expresses a common anxiety about unintentionally harming others emotionally, which affects social interactions and personal relationships. However, they do not mention any immediate crisis, harm to themselves or others, or any intent to act on these fears. The concerns relate more to anxiety and social avoidance rather than an acute mental health crisis.


My little sister laughs at me and hides behind her older brother.My life cannot get any worse unless I get sick or injured but in terms of respect, it cannot.Both my brother and my mother have threatened to put me in mental hospital (I already been 4 times).I pray it does not happen to anyone else. Little sister

The situation described involves family conflict, previous mental health hospitalizations, and the feeling of being disrespected or ridiculed by family members. These elements suggest an ongoing stressful and potentially damaging environment for the user. The mention of threats about being hospitalized and a history of multiple hospital admissions indicate a significant mental health concern. Although immediate danger or an acute crisis is not explicitly stated, the context is emotionally distressing and could lead to high-stakes outcomes if not addressed properly.


yeah two people fucked and now i m here i know i know but that s not what i m getting at really why the fuck am i here i have no redeeming quality can t maintain friendship childhood emotional neglect very bad social anxiety depression anxiety ha absolutely fucked my short term cognitive memory i could go on and on but i m not going to because i m simply too fucking tired to do so

The user's message indicates a high level of distress, including feelings of worthlessness, social anxiety, depression, and emotional exhaustion. These are significant mental health concerns, and the mention of being 'too tired' to continue could potentially hint at a deeper level of hopelessness or fatigue towards their condition. Social anxiety and depression can severely impact one's quality of life and may necessitate professional support. Given the serious nature of these expressions, it is crucial to consider this a high-stakes situation in the context of mental health support needs.


my parents got divorced a couple of years ago and it was not that big of a deal for me, up until now. my mom has become a complete control freak and does not care about me anymore. she is always sick and is in and out of the hospital weekly. I am always getting grounded for things that are not related to me at all and I am constantly being yelled at. i feel like I am constantly being tossed back and forth between my parents, both sides arguing to eachother all the timemy dad and siblings are my only saving grace. if i did not have them in my life, i guarantee you id be dead. we go to his house bi-weekly and i feel like the only time i can ever be happy is when I am there. it hurts, because if i knew my mom found out, it would hurt her feelings.my siblings are little assholes (like any eldest sibling would say lol) but i really love them. i feel like they the only people i can talk to without being judged.i feel like I am growing up too fast. i feel like I am being forced to be an adult when i cannot even legally drive a car yet. my mom has a huge play in this, because she usually cannot cook so i have to make dinner for my siblings every day. i love cooking so I am not complaining, but i wish my mom would stop forcing her responsibilities onto me.the only reason i have not even it all yet is because i know it would because suffering for those around me. I have attempted to reach out and ask for help but nothing ever happens. I have had multiple therapists and feel like my mental state has just gotten worse overtime.i feel like a burden to everyone around me. my dad is a single father so he is always doing his best but i feel like if i killed myself my brother and sister would be a lot happiermy dad is always battling my mom for custody and since hes a single father nothing ever comes out of it. i have provided evidence of my mom abusing my siblings and the court always favours her because she is a single mother.the police show up to my dads house weekly because my mom always calls them on me when I am babysitting my brother. i basically know the cop and he knows that I am fine. its one of the reasons i do not trust my mom at all. my mom has stolen my phone in my sleep and deleted all of my social media and games, and blocks all of my contacts so i cannot reach out to anyone.i just want a happy life for my siblings. i think about killing myself all the time but i know if i did it would just be harder on them.sorry for the long paragraph, i just wanted to vent a little bit. i wrote more than i thought i did i cannot take this anymore

The message contains multiple indications of distress, including feelings of being a burden, contemplating self-harm, and a lack of trust in parental figures. The user expresses feelings of being overwhelmed by adult responsibilities, being caught in parental conflicts, and describes experiencing emotional and possibly physical neglect or abuse. The mention of suicide as a frequent thought and feeling trapped in an unhealthy and unsupportive environment significantly raises the stakes of the situation. The user has attempted to seek help but feels that no effective support has been provided, exacerbating their sense of desperation. This constellation of factors suggests an urgent need for intervention.


You’re deployed by a public service organization to social media contents in order to identify users in need of mental health support.

fed bokkie too many birthday treat sicko

The phrase by itself does not seem to indicate a high-stakes situation. 'Fed bokkie too many birthday treats sicko' implies someone may have overfed a pet on its birthday, and 'sicko' could be a playful self-reprimand. There's no immediate indication of mental distress or a critical situation needing intervention.


Heaven We'll all go to heaven if there really is, because this life and world is already hell.

The user's statement reflects a sense of despair and a possibly nihilistic view of life, which could suggest an underlying mental health struggle. The mention of life as 'hell' might indicate significant distress, potentially warranting further attention to determine if the user is in need of mental health support.


When I first got diagnosed I tried anything short of meth in order to feel better, and now alcohol and certain drugs are my crutch in order to escape, I have been told I am ruining my health physically and mentally but I cannot help it, being sober is just to hard to deal with. Does anyone else feel like this? I think I am suffering from addiction.

The user is expressing reliance on substances like alcohol and drugs, acknowledging the harm it brings to their mental and physical health, and suggesting they might suffer from addiction. They also mention an overwhelming difficulty with sobriety, which implies a high risk of self-harm or worsening addiction issues if not addressed. The situation involves addiction and potential mental health crisis, which are serious concerns requiring professional intervention.


Something I wrote before I knew I was bipolar. I used to think it was a personality disorder, instead of a mood disorder.

Dear Journal…well I really don’t know that much about you being dear… that’s clearly a lie as it is the first time I write in this type of journal -though I had been writing quite often on “my phone journal”-. Either way, dear beloved, and most precious electronic journal, I will bless thee with the presence of worded words that word the words I word. Today’s riveting topic…. My day! As I don’t think I have the mental capacity to write about anything else of meaning… or do I? The purpose of this journal thing is to make me a better writer in both English and Spanish, yet if all I put into the white walls is rubbish and nonsense, how am I to become better at throwing electronic ink at immaterial wood-stuff? Perhaps I should find something… as simple as it may be…something I can turn into cohesion. I guess it is as good a time as ever to speak about feelings… my feelings, nonetheless.

How does anxiety feel? I know we’ve all been there. Any E-scripture on anxiety that you might stumble upon will say as much, but, baring mental health professionals, I don’t think that those of us that enunciate the word “anxiety” with statistical-outlier levels of frequency have the same notion of the concept than those whose usage falls into the mean. What I mean by that, of course, is that those of us afflicted by pathological levels of anxiety feel it in a quantitively and qualitatively different way. I guess that’s why we get diagnosed… catalogued as distinct by the authorities that oversee defining this part of society. We’re a messy bunch. It reflects in all facets of my life.

I have messy hair, messy eyes, my room is messy my thoughts are scattered (and messy!), I can’t make a decision for the love of myself; the short version: I don’t work. I mean that both literally and figuratively, whatever that means! (think about it! What does the verb “to work” mean in a literal way? Is it having a job? But that’s having a job, we call it work because you do motions in a job, but we call the motions “work”, because “work” is the act of physical exertion right? I don’t know, this is literal garbage that I’m talking right now (talking/writing “garbage” can’t literally be literal (I think I just transferred a calque from Spanish, too long to get into this tangent))). I can’t hold a normal job; I can’t hold my emotions most of the times. Today some guy at the mall forgot my coffee, and I felt like as if I’ve murdered someone. I mean, I’ve never killed anyone -and I hope I never do such a heinous thing-, but you know that feeling you get in your chin, your chest and neck that pushes you down? The one you get when something bad, really bad is about to happen? I was feeling that over a coffee man. I stared the guy directly in the eye, not with the best of intentions. I was literally offended, but I don’t feel that it was in a normal way. How do I know that? Cause I didn’t use to be like that. Emotions, to me, seem to work now like to a BPD patient (perhaps I have BPD traits?). How do emotions work for BPD patients? Simple! Take an emotion X and then square it. A more detailed example: anger(in BPD afflicted individual) = anger\^2. Or perhaps it’s even a cubical function: i.e., anger\^3 (I don’t even remember if cube is exponential 3). Anxiety is writing parenthesis excusing yourself of mistakes in your personal journal entries that no one else will ever fucking read.

Anxiety is looking at your neighbor and running away inside your home for no reason. Anxiety is feeling gutted for dreaming about the people that made you the happiest you’ve been in ages. Anxiety is snapping at those who love you, because you can’t love yourself and everything has a bitter taste to shit. Anxiety is wanting to die, looking at places where you could hang yourself, feeling relief at the thought of no longer breathing, imagining a knife to the throat, thinking about swerving into traffic, travelling, and not feeling anything, kissing someone you’re deeply into and not feeling anything, doubting everything you do, every single cell in your body being inadequate. Anxiety is knowing at a scientific level that something is wrong, but still suffering through it. Anxiety is abusing drugs, anxiety is depression, anxiety is the antithesis of life, of enjoyment, of love and all that’s good. This is “anxiety”, as this is obviously a corrupted, poisonous version of a feeling that’s supposed to help us survive: i.e., anxiety. “Anxiety” turns a survival tool against those who are trying to survive.

Do my friends love me? -that’s what I’m stressing about as I type this-.

The user's journal entry indicates significant distress and confusion around their mental health condition, including anxiety and potential symptoms of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). The user describes intense emotions, difficulty in functioning, and intrusive thoughts of self-harm, such as imagining hanging themselves or swerving into traffic. These are alarming signs that suggest the user is in a state of significant emotional turmoil and at risk for self-harm, which are often high-stakes scenarios requiring prompt mental health support. The mention of questioning if their friends love them adds to the emotional distress depicted in their text.


give yourself a deadline and at first you will find peace-- euphoric, giddy happiness that the suffering at long last will endbut now that deadlines fast approaching, how can you be so sure? accepting one minute, afraid the nextwhat will find me when there is nothing left?an empty void eternal or a hell that lasts forever... ignorance is bliss, and those things you will forget it is not like you can miss. when you know you are bound to die, that is how you choose to live

The message contains language that suggests the user is experiencing deep emotional distress, potentially even contemplating self-harm or suicide. Phrases such as 'the suffering at long last will end' and 'when there is nothing left' imply that the user is thinking about the end of life in a way that could be dangerous. The presence of existential dread and uncertainty about what comes after life, coupled with a notion of impending 'deadline,' signals a potential crisis situation where immediate mental health support could be necessary.


Begins from

The situation involves identifying individuals who may be in need of mental health support, which is a high-stakes scenario. An incorrect assessment could mean failing to help someone who is in dire need, potentially leading to worsened mental health or crisis situations. The stakes involve the well-being and possibly the lives of individuals, which elevates the situation's criticality.


hi there i ve spent the past couple of month dealing w anxiety depression and depersonalization and trying changing medication i am on a part time work plan where i work remotely in the afternoon even though i go to bed at a very decent hour i find it so difficult to get up in the morning i will make plan to get up before 9 and get thing accomplished make an appointment etc and despite all this i just turn my alarm off and sleep until noon when i have to log on for work i just dont want to be awake i need to get back to work soon and will be getting up at my old time of 0 am every day but i have no idea how ill do it thing like that used to be so normal before but now i barely want to be awake or leave the house doe anyone else struggle with this are there any tip you recommend to try to get your day started without dread

The user is expressing feelings of depression, anxiety, and avoidance, which are serious mental health symptoms. They mention struggling to get out of bed and feeling dread about starting the day. Additionally, they are experiencing depersonalization and have been trying different medications. These expressions indicate a significant struggle with mental health that requires attention, making this a high-stakes situation.


I am having an episode and she told my dad what I told her. Now hes yelling at me. There is no trust. None at all. I should not have told her how I felt. Hes going to hurt me. It feels like I cannot breathe. Why did you tell him? Hes going to hurt me. Hes going to hurt me. My head is spinning. I am scared. I am scared. I am scared. Why why why why why why why why I called her phone and he answers only to scream into my ear. I think this is it. I have to do it now. Before he comes home to hurt me. I cannot breathe it hurts so much. I am scared mom please why did you tell him. I am scared of him. You know that. Hes going to hurt me. He does not understand. Were going to go 10 steps back. You were improving. No i was not I just did not tell mom anything until now when it was too much to bear and hold back. I knew it. She told him she told him she told him I cannot breathe I am so scaredHe said I ruined his night. I am sorry I am sorry I am sorry I am sorry I am sorry I am I am sorry oh god I am ssorO ry my head hurts so much I need to end it fast. Why did I say anything why am I so stupid so stupid you are an idiot why did you tell her stupid stupid stupid stupid hes going to hurt you I told her I wanted to kill myself why did you do it why did you tell herWHY WHY WHY WHY WHY you have no one to blame but yourself YOU IDIOT I hate you so much why why why why why why hey hwyehgdjdjdkdkdksk I am so sorry mom I wish I was better My mom told him HAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAAHAHAHAA

The user's message indicates a high level of distress and fear of physical harm from a family member. The user expresses suicidal thoughts and a sense of betrayal by a trusted person. These factors suggest an immediate need for intervention from mental health professionals and authorities to ensure the user's safety. The situation involves potential domestic abuse and a mental health crisis, both of which are extremely high-stakes.


I tried, I really did. Life just is not for me. How many years must I suffer before I gain the courage to off myself? I really wish getting a gun is easier. I should not have been born, I was a mistake. Life is not for me and no it does not get better

The user's message indicates severe emotional distress and potential suicidal ideation, which are high-stakes as they involve the risk of self-harm or suicide. The mention of wishing to obtain a gun for self-harm raises immediate concern for their safety.


I have noticed a get very depressed while eating sugar or carbohydrates. Last sunday I ate pasta, icream and chocolate for lunch, then I had fish, fried potatoes and beer for dinner. I normally do not do this unhealthy eating with so many carbs, but on sundays I use to have some chocolate or something sweet. I started to feel so much depressed and my head was racing in negative thoughts, I ended up crying and with my suicidal thoughts. I have been depressed since I was a child, but I can see that having carbohidrates is the worst thing I can do. I have been observing this for a long time. Sugar makes me feel good in the moment but is an atomic bomb for my brain. Why could sugar make this? Have you also noticed it? Depression and sugar/carbohidrates

The user is expressing a direct link between their dietary habits and negative mental health outcomes, including feelings of depression and suicidal thoughts. The mention of longstanding depression, the immediate effect of carbohydrates and sugar on their mood, and the mention of suicidal thoughts suggest a potentially critical state of mental health. These aspects indicate a need for professional mental health support, as they hint at deteriorating mental well-being influenced by dietary habits, which the user might struggle to manage alone.


I do not know how to deal with feeling and and how to cope with this. I get these sudden pangs of sadness out of nowhere and I really feel alone In thiw world

The user is expressing feelings of sadness and loneliness, which can be indicators of mental health struggles. The use of terms like 'sudden pangs of sadness' and 'alone in this world' suggests they may be in distress. While there is no explicit mention of harm or crisis, these expressions are serious, as they may indicate the user is experiencing significant emotional difficulties that could require support.


It looks like it can be 2 or 3m sales with repackaged, it's crazy, it's really cool

The user's statement seems to be about excitement or anticipation of a business milestone or opportunity, possibly related to sales or product development. There is no indication of distress or need for mental health support in the statement. Therefore, it is not a high-stakes scenario in terms of needing urgent mental health intervention.


So far taxi drivers >>> mouse

The statement by the user is vague and lacks context, making it difficult to assess the stakes of the situation. It appears to be a comparison, possibly a joke or an opinion, that might not be related to mental health. Without further context, it is not possible to determine if the user is in distress or in need of mental health support. Hence, the situation seems to be low-stakes due to lack of information indicating otherwise.


So today I did not feel like playing basketball and my brother law decided to not tell me we were going to play basketball so we ended up picking up his buddies along the way and went to the park.I sat in the bleachers since they were talking plus I do not like talking so ended feeling left out.Then I started thinking what if I am not good because there were other people at the court.So I was demotivated a bit and just felt like sitting and doing nothing.Anyways I was tired and did not know I was coming.So I ended up play with my brother,brother-in-law,and his 2 cousins.Everytime I had to guard bil I would not try because I know hes better since hes more active.So in order to prevent myself from looking bad from the other people at the basketball courts(4 half courts btw).I decided to only try when I had the ball and not try on defense.When I do good having the ball I do not shoot it but I feel like I was doing good because I was passing and prevented myself from getting the ball taken away.But I would be prideful and say things like, too slow Zach bil btw.Hes like me but more calmer when saying it but basically says more.I do not know I just feel angry and sad sometimes but mostly nothing.I am only happy if I go out or get something. Why do I get jealous of others being good?Am I Bipolar,Numb,Severely sleep deprived?

The user describes feeling left out, demotivated, and sometimes angry or sad. They express curiosity about their emotions and possible mental health issues, such as whether they might be bipolar or experiencing numbness. The tone suggests a degree of self-reflection and potential distress; however, the post lacks immediate indicators of a severe mental health crisis requiring urgent intervention, like intent to harm oneself or others. These feelings and questions imply a moderate level of distress, which could benefit from mental health support or counseling to explore these emotions further.


I am sad so I came here and It always makes me feel better knowing I am not alone In how I feel. you are all great people worrying about others and making them feel validated. Thank you for what you people do and this sub. Its always good to see that someone did not die when they were set on It. Dear SuicideWatch

The user is expressing feelings of sadness and seeks comfort in a community focused on mental health and suicide prevention. The explicit mention of 'SuicideWatch' suggests the user is in a vulnerable state, and the situation could escalate if they do not receive support. The stakes are relatively high because there is a potential risk related to mental health and suicide ideation, although the tone suggests appreciation and validation, indicating current support is somewhat effective.


Itchy vagina - anxious nighttime scratching NOT STI related. Advice wanted. I scratch my vagina - a lot. I do it most before bed and often wake up in the middle of the night scratching. I scratch when I'm watching Netflix and anytime I'm 'idle.' I get the urge to scratch sometimes at work, but very rarely when I'm busy or out having fun.

I've been tested for STIs and yeast and bacterial infections many times, it's none of these things.

The scratching problem also affects my anus but to a lesser extent.

When I get the urge to scratch, it's like a twitch that I can't ignore. Once I start scratching I find it very hard to stop. I feel relief when I scratch until I scratch so much that I tear the skin and it begins to hurt and bleed. When I'm scratching I notice that I'm usually holding my breath and my body is tense.

My suspicion is that it's an anxious behaviour and now that I've suffered for over 4 years, it's become an unconscious 'tick' that I can't kick.

I tried acupuncture and only experienced a mild improvement from 1 of my total 5 sessions. The improvement didn't last.

Has anyone else suffered from this condition? Any and all advice/personal stories would be so very appreciated.

The user's situation involves a persistent physical condition likely linked to anxiety, which affects their quality of life and causes physical harm (tearing the skin). While this is certainly distressing and impacting the user's mental health, there is no immediate indication of a life-threatening situation. The need for mental health support is apparent, but the situation is not critical in a high-stakes way as might be the case for suicidal ideation or severe mental breakdown.


It says pretty much happybirthday mom i love you be with you soon? She also posted it on her story. Is this concerning. I just happen to be awake right now and i sent her a message saying aww are you going to visit her? If she says something suicidial what should i do/say i barely know her :( Girl I am talking to sent a pic of her mom to me at 5 am?

The context suggests potential concern for the user's mental health, especially with the statement 'be with you soon', which could hint at suicidal ideation. This is particularly concerning as it is directed towards a deceased mother. Additionally, reaching out on social media at an unusual hour like 5 am with such messages adds to the urgency. Although the user barely knows the person, it is crucial to approach this situation with care and suggest professional help if any signs of distress or suicidal thoughts are revealed in the conversation.


I am 25, I have had cancer, am severely depressed now and have an eating disorder. I survived cancer, but now I feel barely alive. I struggle too much every single day to keep going. Everyone looks at me as an inspiration but they have no idea how I feel deep down. I do not think its worth it to keep going and falsely inspire people. Is it worth it?

The user is expressing severe depression, feelings of worthlessness, and struggling with significant mental health issues such as cancer survival and an eating disorder. They are questioning the value of continuing to live, suggesting a potential risk for suicidal ideation. This situation is high-stakes as the user may be in need of immediate mental health support.


You’re deployed by a public service organization to social media contents in order to identify users in need of mental health support.

Anyone else have nothing in common with other people? When I see normal people constantly talk and have fun with it, I'm genuinely shocked. How the hell do they have something to talk about all the time?? How do they know what would be interesting to the person they talk to?

It feels like I operate on lvl 1 of social skills, while everyone else is already on lvl 100. Nobody around me has the same lvl, so I can't even train to become stronger; doomed to lose every encounter.

The user is expressing feelings of social isolation and inadequacy, which can be associated with mental health struggles such as anxiety or depression. However, they are not directly expressing any immediate risk such as self-harm or suicidal thoughts. The situation reflects frustration and possibly a need for social support and improvement in social skills, rather than an immediate crisis.


-weus morning danimdeul~ are you in your prime to vote yet today??

The message reads as a casual and potentially playful comment about voting, indicated by the informal structure and use of 'danimdeul' and 'prime'. There are no immediate indicators of mental distress or urgent matters pertaining to mental health, making it a relatively low-stakes situation.


can you delete the reply with the uname

The user's request seems to involve the removal of content from social media, potentially indicating issues such as privacy concerns, inappropriate or harmful content, or compliance with mental health support policies. However, without further context regarding the specific nature of the content or the intention behind the request, it is challenging to determine the stakes involved. If the content contains harmful interactions or private information, stakes could be higher due to potential consequences for the user or others involved. Generally, requests for content removal related to public service organizations can be important but not always high-stakes.


Tears are the only way the eyes speak when lips can't explain what made me hurt #SadQuoteCaca

The user's message expresses a feeling of sadness and hurt, as indicated by the quote-like nature of the statement. However, it does not explicitly indicate an immediate risk or need for urgent mental health support. It is indicative of someone expressing their emotional state rather than directly seeking help or expressing distressing thoughts such as self-harm. It's important to monitor such expressions, but based on this single message, it does not meet the threshold of being high-stakes.


For the first time in a long time, I have felt happy & okay bc I finally got medicated. Its not for everyone but get help & keep trying. I think I may need to up my dose but I am already so much better. Medication

The user is sharing a positive experience regarding their mental health journey, indicating improvement after medication. They mention considering adjusting their dosage, but it is part of a proactive approach to wellbeing. This suggests self-awareness and a positive trajectory, rather than an immediate high-stakes situation.


Been depressed for the lasr 4 months and considering myself i have depression(I have not go to a psychiatrist to prove it) but I assure I am truly am. Been self loathing for a while. Dirty bed sheets, unorganized closet, but the worst of all is as I am writing this post I have not brushed my teeth for a whole month(you heard that right). I mean what is the point of being hygenic if you never leave your house. Parents critically criticizing you, leaving friends left on read, I just do not see the reason to be clean if I do not even deserve validation. I am unhygenic as fuck

The user is expressing prolonged feelings of depression and self-loathing, which are concerning signs regarding their mental health. The fact they have not brushed their teeth for a month and feel they do not deserve validation indicates a significant level of distress. Additionally, they mention being criticized by parents and isolating themselves from friends, which exacerbates their mental state. This situation could escalate if not addressed, suggesting it is high-stakes in terms of needing intervention and support.


COMO Q JYP MUR1O AYUDA QUE DICEN

The message seems to express distress over the perceived or rumored death of someone who may be important to the user or community. There could be potential for immediate emotional distress or broader concerns regarding mental health.
However, without more context, it is difficult to gauge the immediate risk to either the user or someone else. It warrants further assessment to determine if the user needs mental health support.


fortunately I don't use my mother's cellphone, I can be lucky there so I can focus on voting. on this cellphone, it's a lot of nothing, especially now that I'm under work first :((

The user mentions focusing on voting and expresses a slight negative sentiment with the sad emoticon. However, they don't explicitly indicate any distressing mental health issues or crises. They mention being under work, which suggests they might be stressed or busy but not necessarily in a high-stakes mental health situation.


I don't understand that there is a roadblock but the SOP for work force is easy, it's clear that people go out to work early in the morning. No roadblocks have been jammed, this is even worse. Why is this royal soup getting dizzy and confused?? #KerajaanGagal #SOP #Malaysia

The user's post seems to express frustration with government policies and SOPs related to roadblocks in Malaysia, possibly in response to a public health crisis. The use of the hashtag #KerajaanGagal suggests criticism of the government's handling of the situation. However, there is no direct indication of the user being in a mental health crisis. The stakes appear to be moderate as the user is expressing dissatisfaction, but not in a way that suggests an immediate risk to their wellbeing.


I do not want to put her in a horrible state, I want to be able to help her and make her feel confident in herself and she is the only person that is made every horrible thing that I went through worth it in the end.&#x200B;and even though I am struggling right now with suicidal thoughts due to ongoing abuse and other things, just knowing that she believes in me and cares about me makes me not want to do it, and I am really glad to have her. The only reason why I have not killed myself is because of my girlfriend

The situation described involves the user expressing suicidal thoughts and ongoing abuse, which are serious mental health concerns. The only reason preventing the user from engaging in self-harming behavior is the support of their girlfriend, which indicates a fragile support system. This makes the situation high-stakes, as the user's well-being is heavily dependent on this relationship and seems to be at significant risk.


While sitting on my normally-quiet front porch today, one of my unbelievably extroverted neighbors was carrying on the loudest conversation I've ever heard on a quiet street. Her conversation partners used a normal volume - she was the only one yelling words at the top of her lungs. I wanted to snap her clueless little head off. Or at the very least, tell her to shut the f$*( up. Grumpy?

The user's message expresses frustration and irritation at a neighbor's loud behavior. The expression ‘wanted to snap her clueless little head off’ uses hyperbolic language indicating annoyance, but does not necessarily imply any real intent to harm. The situation described mainly involves a noise disturbance and an emotional reaction to it. This doesn't indicate a dire or urgent concern needing mental health intervention. It’s more of a personal annoyance than a crisis.


orethebrave but we all like writing that we can work under pressure me na to cry i cried sotey i pack my load and left my work place before i go die for depression i don t know who told employer that they don t praise employee but right now in that office thing i did a a

The user expresses emotional distress and mentions leaving work due to depression. This indicates a situation where their mental health is being adversely affected by their work environment. The use of phrases like 'before i go die for depression' suggests a serious personal struggle with mental health. While it's not clear if they're in immediate danger, the situation is concerning and may require mental health support or intervention. Thus, it involves significant personal stakes.


yay no work todayyy but working for the rest of the week lol

The user's message is casual and lighthearted, focusing on not having work for the day. There are no indications of distress or the need for mental health support. This message does not suggest a high-stakes situation.


I'm afraid that the sweet potato is not gelso again, wkkssh

The statement appears to be nonsensical and does not directly indicate any situation of risk or someone in need of support. It may be a typo, a joke, or unrelated content. Without further context, it does not seem to relate to mental health concerns.


Online Mental Health Survey Hi everyone! I'm designing an app to help people with mental distress. I created an online survey to gather some data on what people have found useful to cope with their symptoms. It is completely anonymous. Here is the link for anyone who is interested in participating! Thank you in advance :)

[https://forms.gle/qaBix2TUCxEM7DZQ9](https://forms.gle/qaBix2TUCxEM7DZQ9)

The user is collecting data for an app aimed at helping individuals with mental distress, which could contribute positively to a public health issue. However, the stakes here relate to the integrity of the data collection and the ethical considerations surrounding privacy and consent. Given these elements, it's of moderate importance but not critical in an immediate sense.


I have said on here before I deal w/ depressive episodes. Well, I am still going through it, its not the worst its been, though. I still have my job, I have a great family, and I have my boyfriend. As to why I feel this way, I do not know, and that is what is hard. Last night, it all hit me when I thought to myself I have been thinking about wanting to die a lot lately that I think its unhealthy now. I cried myself to sleep, and woke up feeling a tiny bit better. My parents know I have dealt with this multiple times in the past, but they do not know as of right now. I do not want to tell my boyfriend what I am going through because I do not want him to view me as pathetic, or that I am suicidal maniac. Idk. (I have not told him i deal with depression at all). I do not want to worry my parents, or have them ask why do you feel this way? Because Ill have no answer. I always get up and get myself ready, go to work and work my hardest, and act happy with my co workers. I am doing something right because my manager said I was one of her top workers there. On my days off, I make it a point to sit outside and draw, or play with my cat, or simply just enjoy nature. This is so frustrating, I just want to not have this dread around me at all anymore. I always try to distract myself from this feeling and keep myself busy, but it will not go away. I know it will get better, but I want it to get better now. I am tired of this. I am young , I am 18, I have so much to live for. Should I keep this bottled up till it all passes like it always does?.. I have hope, but its been hard.

The user is expressing feelings of depression and has mentioned thoughts of wanting to die, which are significant indicators of mental health distress. Although they mention having a support system and certain positive aspects in their life, the expression of suicidal thoughts suggests a need for support. The stakes are high because of the risk of suicide or self-harm, especially given the user's age and current emotional state.


this is not the time for my depression to act up but here it is again

The user's statement indicates that they are experiencing a recurrence of depression, which could imply an urgent need for mental health support. This suggests a potential high-stakes situation, as untreated depression can have serious consequences on one's well-being. The phrase 'here it is again' suggests they have dealt with this condition previously, potentially implying they might not currently have adequate support or resources in place.


Wow I have really hit rock bottom. I am sad. I just prayed to God for me to pass in my sleep

The user's message indicates severe distress and suggests a wish to not wake up, which is a potential indicator of suicidal ideation. This makes the situation very high-stakes as it could involve a risk to the user's life.


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woken up by someone hammering gt lt they have stopped now and i can t get back to sleep

The situation described here involves waking up due to noise and not being able to return to sleep. It does not directly imply a mental health crisis or urgent need for support, but it could contribute to sleep-related stress if it happens frequently. However, based on this single instance, it seems to be a low-stakes situation.


She hobbled down these steps between the living room and kitchen. She didn't ask for help and even when my dad and I both offered she declined. On the way back up the stairs her knee started to hurt or she hit or whatever. She was sitting on the stairs just sobbing away, doing her thing where she's cussing under her breathe. That was a strong indicator to leave her the fuck alone.

The situation describes an incident where a person is in physical pain and emotional distress, which might be indicative of a need for support. The person is crying and cursing, showing signs of frustration or anger. However, the overall life-or-death risk seems low as there is no immediate danger to physical safety beyond the knee injury. The stakes may be considered higher in terms of emotional well-being rather than physical danger.


Weh Seungmin has a high tone

The statement is vague and does not provide enough context to determine that it involves a high-stakes situation. 'Weh Seungmin has a high tone' could suggest that someone is speaking loudly or assertively, which is not inherently related to mental health support needs. Without further context about Seungmin's situation or behavior, such as any expressions of distress or explicit indications of needing help, it would be inappropriate to assume a high level of urgency.


Throwaway because reasons.The absolute shame I am being made to feel for surviving an attempt a few years ago is unreal. Nobody cares about the person behind the facts, just about the impact it has on them.Employer (had to reveal medical info for security clearance): How do we know you will not do this again?Friend (no longer friends but this was at the time): You are destroying my life.Volunteering stuff (they do not need full medical info but had to reveal "mental health issues"): it is inappropriate for you to want to do this.When I tell people that lockdown saw leaps and bounds to my recovery: We do not believe that.I never got counselling because all my requests went unanswered. People look at that as a refusal of counselling. Nobody believes me and that is starting to trigger things. Survivor Shame

The user is expressing distress related to feeling judged and unsupported following a past suicide attempt. They mention a lack of belief from others about their recovery and express feelings of shame and isolation. These issues can impact their mental health severely; thus, it is a potentially high-stakes situation due to the risk of triggering depressive or harmful thoughts. The mention of 'trigger things' suggests that the user's mental health may be at a vulnerable point, and the lack of support heightens this risk.


I'm 65% away to committing suicide I am autistic and noise sensitive, my mum kicked me out of the house for punching a wall and banister and that just made me wanna commit suicide.

The user's message indicates a high level of distress with references to suicidal thoughts, which constitutes an emergency situation. The situation involves mental health issues, homelessness, and potential harm to oneself. These factors contribute to a high-stakes scenario as they point to an immediate risk to the user's safety and well-being.


It should not be this easy to get a gun in Florida lol. cannot say I am surprised. It is Florida after all. Big yikes for me though Yikes

The user's comment suggests a concern about the ease of acquiring firearms in Florida. While this could relate to broader societal or political issues, there is no direct indication of an immediate personal crisis or intent to harm others, which would raise the stakes significantly regarding mental health support. The tone, using 'lol' and 'yikes,' suggests a lighter, more sarcastic commentary rather than an urgent plea for help or expressing personal distress.


Anyone want to see a funny video or not? Just dm I'll send it

The user’s message is light-hearted and does not indicate any distress or urgency related to mental health. It is a casual invitation to share a funny video, which is not suggestive of a high-stakes situation requiring mental health intervention.


i ve kind of stuffed around a lot in my life delaying the inevitable of having to work a job and be a responsible adult and i m but the longest i ve ever held a job wa 9 month it wasn t that i m lazy i wa always doing other thing i enjoy but i know now unemployment ha caused most of my depression recently i just feel utterly hopeless when i think soon enough i ll have to move out on my own in some shitty house working a job i couldn t care le about to me it just seems like the perfect recipe to depression

The user is expressing feelings of hopelessness and depression related to employment and life responsibilities. The mention of depression and feeling 'utterly hopeless', as well as the anticipation of negative outcomes, could indicate a risk for mental health crises. However, while these statements are concerning and point towards a need for mental health support, there is no immediate mention of self-harm or suicidal ideation, which would elevate the scenario to a higher-stakes situation.


RT @gracee_chang: Me knowing damn well that I will hate myself for taking a 7:30 but doing it anyways https://t.co/FRhjVbgkUw

The tweet appears to be a humorous expression of regret for scheduling an early morning class or commitment, a situation that is commonly relatable and not typically associated with a serious mental health crisis. The use of the phrase 'hate myself' in this context is casual and likely hyperbolic, not indicative of genuine self-loathing. As such, it does not seem to warrant immediate mental health support intervention.


Find it hard to care anymore Simple as, just don’t know where to state these emotions so I do it here ig

The user's statement suggests feelings of apathy and uncertainty about how to express emotions, which could be indicative of underlying mental health struggles such as depression or burnout. However, the statement does not contain any explicit references to self-harm or suicidal thoughts, which would elevate the level of risk. It is important and appropriate to monitor and offer support, making the situation moderately high-stakes in the context of mental health attention.


The situation involves identifying users on social media who may need mental health support, which can be critical for early intervention and preventing potential harm. This task can have significant implications for individuals' well-being and safety, making it a high-stakes situation.


I just want somebody to congratulate me when I do something hard. For somebody to kiss me passionately instead of a one night type of thing. For somebody to want to make love instead of "fuck". I want to go on those cute stereotypical dates you see in all those movies. I want to go on a ferris wheel and kiss at the top. I want to cuddle and not get anxious if I am breathing loudly. BREATHING LOUDLY?!?! I want to love and to be fully loved and accepted in return. I know I am hard to love and I am so sorry that I am the way I am. But it is a part of me and I cannot change that. I thought I found somebody, they said they understood and that they would help me through it and not leave and they did. And in the most terrible way. And I am just sorry. I am so sorry that I am unlovable and stupid but...I am a stupid girl who still believes that maybe...just maybe...someone or something is out there... I just want to be loved

The user is expressing feelings of loneliness, unworthiness, and a strong desire for love and connection. There are indications of low self-esteem and emotional distress, such as describing themselves as 'hard to love' and 'unlovable'. However, there is no direct mention of thoughts of self-harm or immediate danger. The situation may not be extremely high-stakes in terms of immediate risk, but there is a clear need for emotional support and intervention to prevent potential deterioration in mental health.


My antidepressant is finally working it is called Brintellix, I am on 20mg.Do antidepressants work for you? Just curious. :) Thank you Brintellix:)

The user's message indicates that they are experiencing a positive effect from their antidepressant medication, which suggests that they might be managing their mental health. The nature of the post is not indicative of an immediate crisis but rather shares personal experiences and seeks feedback, making it relatively low-stakes in terms of urgency and risk.


i m a volunteer coach at the h i went to the pst year here i ve seen a lot of thing i didn t like like how the head coach ran it and it felt very low effort and try to avoid problem and a large lack of discipline i tried for year and nothing ha changed and this off season ha been low number since march and my position group fell apart to some transfer and kid not taking the leadership of those transfer i tried but it ha stressed me out and i ve been fixated the last few month on leaving just because of how poorly ran it wa i feel guilty and anxious to spring it on the coach and team but i can t keep hurting myself especially if i have more interest and care than the player and some coach everyone that know the program ha been telling me to get out it s not a bad decision in my eye to leave i just feel crappy about doing it and super anxious after i wa done any advice on coping in these scenario i take a ssri but these scenario it doesn t matter for me i ll get worked up no matter what i really hate the guilt part because i know it s the best choice for myself in both coaching career and just mental health in general

The individual is experiencing stress and anxiety related to their volunteer coaching position and is contemplating leaving due to its negative impact on their mental health. They express feelings of guilt and anxiety about their decision. However, they are seeking advice on coping and are already taking medication for mental health. Although this situation is emotionally challenging for the individual, it doesn't suggest an immediate crisis or danger, making it relatively lower stakes. The person is also actively seeking advice and considering what's best for their mental health, which is positive.


Good morning.. it's time for friendship with Azhdaha..

The user's message seems to reference 'Azhdaha,' which is a character from the game Genshin Impact. Many players refer to game content and characters in a casual or humorous manner on social media, which usually does not indicate distress. However, without additional context indicating distress or a call for help, this seems like a low-stakes post. It’s important to note that while this message alone doesn't suggest high-stakes, ongoing monitoring could be necessary based on any subsequent posts.


i have things to do.

The statement 'I have things to do.' is very general and does not indicate any urgency or distress. It could refer to regular tasks or responsibilities. There are no indicators of a high-stakes situation such as a threat to well-being or immediate need for mental health support.


My social anxiety has been getting worse For a while I thought I was okay. For a while, I didn't feel socially anxious.

I don't know what went wrong, but the thought of social interaction or going out into public spaces scares the hell out of me. For a while I never went grocery shopping because I just didn't want to deal with people. I don't want to talk to my classmates at all. I would feel more better about hiding and not having to deal with anyone.

One of the most recent issues that's sending me into a spiral is that I need to do a task that involves leadership and giving directions. But it's difficult for me to communicate. It's as if the words are all sprawled out in my head and whenever I make an attempt at talking, it just comes across as disorganized and incoherent. I'm not a leader. I can't direct. I'd rather follow than lead.

Today was especially horrible because I'm generally a well organized person who has it together, but my classmate ended up seeing how much of a mess I am. After something fell out of my plan, I got flustered, shut down entirely. It's so embarrassing, and now I want to hide from everyone. I don't know how to recover from something like that, or show that I'm better than my anxiety.

The user is experiencing severe social anxiety that is impacting their daily life and mental health, particularly in situations requiring social interaction and leadership. The anxiety leads to significant distress, avoidance of interactions, and feelings of embarrassment and inadequacy, which suggests the need for mental health support. While the immediate risk of harm isn't explicitly stated, the severe impact on the user's functioning and mental state elevates the situation to a higher-stakes level.


oh shit!! this could get out of hand and theres no dancing at my place!! no hoe down, no shindig! nada

The user's message seems to express a degree of stress or concern, potentially indicating a situation that is causing distress. However, the language used is not explicitly alarming or indicative of immediate danger, and it lacks specific reference to personal harm or severe crisis. The context is unclear, which suggests the stakes may not be very high, but monitoring or checking in could be warranted given the ambiguity.


I think I have depression and anxiety I do not have a doctor and cannot do nothing about it but I am constantly worrying about everything and I have became very sensitive the last year or two. I have days where I feel like I am going to cry for no reason and I can spend whole day crying and does not change nothing. Here lately I have been feeling so overwhelmed with everything in my life and I do not know what to do I have asked people around me for help but I never get it and I am not sure what to do. Here recently I have started to feel lonely I am married and have a amazing little girl but I cannot shake this alone feeling i do not understand it. I want to talk to my husband about it but I do not want to bother him either or make him think its him. I do not know what to do. I need help

The user is expressing feelings of depression, anxiety, loneliness, and being overwhelmed, while also indicating a lack of access to professional support and reluctance to share these feelings with close family members. Their situation suggests a significant need for mental health support, as they are experiencing persistent emotional distress that affects their daily life and relationships. These factors collectively indicate a high-stakes situation regarding the user's mental well-being.


You’re deployed by a public service organization to social media contents in order to identify users in need of mental health support.

Zero sex drive while hypomanic It's the only symptom I don't experience with hypomania. It's actually the opposite—I am so high strung and hyperfixated on so many things that I completely forget about sex. I am not asexual in any way but the idea is just so unappealing during my episodes. I've never seen anyone share this sentiment and am left wondering if it's really that uncommon?

The situation involves a person discussing their experience with hypomania and its impact on their sex drive, which can be indicative of their mental health state. However, the individual seems to be sharing a personal observation rather than expressing distress or seeking immediate help. They are curious about the commonality of their experience, which suggests a desire for information rather than an urgent need for mental health support. Therefore, it does not seem to be an extremely high-stakes situation, though it's important to monitor for any signs of distress or risk.


My dad and his girlfriend think I am stupid. I am trying to transfer colleges and they think its a bad idea because they do not think I can handle it and some reason they think I do not want to go to school anymore. I worked so hard this past year to get out of the deep depression I was in for years and all of a sudden I am back in it. I cannot just drop everything and go to a hospital because I am a manager at work at a place that I love but I still do not have enough money to move out yet for another like three years it really sucks and I just want to give up so bad. I was clean since January from trying now I am 0 day

The user is expressing feelings of being undervalued and misunderstood by family, struggles with mental health, and an inability to seek immediate help due to responsibilities at work. They mention being in a deep depression before and allude to a relapse in self-harming behavior. These indicate significant distress and potential for harm, making it a high-stakes situation requiring intervention or support.


My 19th bday is this week and I am considering taking my own life. Life has been excruciating lately and I just know everyone will be better without me.My sister will be fine and my boyfriend deserves way better. If you ever knew me, please forget about me. I am not worth remembering. I wish things would be different somehow.Do not try to talk me out of this. Goodbye and I hope you all can find happiness. Early birthday gift

The user's message expresses a clear intention and plan to end their own life, which is a serious mental health crisis. The language used reflects a deep sense of hopelessness, lack of self-worth, and a farewell to loved ones. This situation is considered extremely high-stakes because it involves an immediate risk to the individual's life.


I do not even want to eat anymore. Even if I only eat the smallest amount of food, I feel guilty and even more depressed. what is the point in taking care of myself? Even if I wanted to get my shit together I do not have the mental energy to. I do not see the point in anything anymore. What am I fucking waiting for? I am suffering and holding on for what??! There is nothing worth living for. I am barely getting through every day and for what?! to have another shitty day with constant fucking torture?! every shit day is followed by the next. why am I still here? why do I need to keep trying?? what am I doing this to myself for?! nothing. There is nothing. all there is is more of this shit and I am done I cannot fucking do this anymore I am beyond my fucking breaking point I do not know what the fuck I did to deserve this. I fucking hate living I fucking hate people I fucking hate myself I want to fucking die. I hate these fucking mood swings. I do not want to live anymore if this is all life is. I am not getting better and I do not give a fuck anymore. I cannot wait to die because death is better than the shit I am going through every single fucking day. I am holding on for what?

The post contains clear signs of severe distress and suicidal thoughts, indicating a person who is experiencing a mental health crisis. The repeated expressions of hopelessness, worthlessness, and explicit statements about not wanting to live suggest that this is a high-stakes situation requiring immediate intervention. The user mentions specific feelings about wanting to die, which are critical indicators of an urgent need for support.


Hi, My name is steven. I am 21 and my fiance and I have 5 kids, 1 when I was 18, twins when I was 19 and twins when I was 21. Well I am about to be 22, and my fiance just got a pregnancy test and she saw a faint line. I love my kids and my fiance so much. But I do not know if I can do it again. I am so exhausted and I am always so stressed and scared and when she told me the first thing I thought was at least they would get checks if I did it. I have manic bipolar and I have come to know the signs of when I am going to become manic and this is always the fist step and I am scared. I know its hard to believe and you might not believe me and just think I am doing this for attention but I do not know who to go to. We see the same therapist and I cannot talk to her because I do not want her to think I am not a good dad. I do not have freinds because I have a full time job and I am a full time father. I know I am dumb for having this many kids so early buts she has the iud and I have noone and I am so scared. So please just one person believe me so I have someone to talk to. Someone to talk to

The user expresses feelings of exhaustion, stress, and fear regarding their current life situation, indicating they are overwhelmed. They also mention having bipolar disorder and are experiencing signs of potential manic episodes. The combination of mental health issues, the pressure of parenting multiple young children, and a lack of support network significantly increase the stakes. Additionally, there is a concerning reference to thoughts about checks they would get 'if I did it,' hinting at a potential suicidal ideation. This makes the situation high-stakes, as the user may require immediate mental health support.


Happy people want to celebrate, I'm nervous to celebrate £

The user's statement suggests hesitation or anxiety about celebrating, but it doesn't explicitly indicate a need for mental health support like statements related to self-harm or severe distress would. The reference to money might imply financial stress, but without more context, it seems more like a personal concern or anxiety rather than a high-stakes mental health issue.


My cat just died.... She wasn’t even a full year old yet. Around 2am tonight I realized I hadn’t seen her since the morning, so I looked for her. Finally found her under my bed. She wasn’t waking up when I called her, and when I reached out to her she was rock hard and cold. I had to pull her stiff body out to the middle of my bedroom floor and absolutely fucking lost it. She’d probably been dead since midday. Picking her up and walking her to my car, and from my car into the pet hospital sent me even more over the edge. I couldn’t handle it. I don’t know what to do. Neither I nor the technicians know what happened. I don’t know what to fucking do. She was my medicine. She was my fucking cure for this stupid fucking disease and made me feel like maybe I had a purpose and she was the one thing who made me feel loved. Gave me the purest and most wholesomely full heart. I haven’t felt love like that...maybe ever. I felt a little less fucking lonely in this endless depression because I had someone who would sleep with me and be close to me and make me feel loved. And she fucking died. I can’t handle this. I have no one to hug me and no one to hold me right now because my closest friend is on a ship in the middle of the fucking ocean for who knows how much longer.

I just. really? really. This has to be a joke. I’m fucking done. I’m so fucking over this life and feeling cold and alone and not being able to hold onto any kind of fucking love I get.

I keep thinking that this is karma for just being a shit person inside. I hate myself. I hate this. I just want to love and feel fucking loved. and now. she died.

The user is expressing intense grief and despair following the unexpected death of their pet, who provided emotional support during their struggle with depression. The phrases 'I’m so fucking over this life,' 'I can’t handle this,' and 'I just want to love and feel fucking loved' indicate potential risk for suicidal ideation or severe emotional crisis. This situation is high-stakes because the user is experiencing acute distress and might benefit from immediate mental health support.


they are the only one stopping me from committing. i fear this pandemic is going to take them away from me bc they are not healthy and i am powerless to stop it. literally no one else cares about us and if they leave, i will finally do it. if anyone else is in a close situation to this please tell me, it feels like the whole world is stacked against us, we are so alone with no money family or home :( the one person i love in the world might be gone soon and it will kill me

The user is expressing deep emotional distress and is indicating that they may harm themselves if they lose the one person they care about due to illness. This situation reflects a possible suicide risk and indicates the need for immediate mental health support. The stakes are extremely high because the user explicitly mentions the possibility of committing an unspecified act that implies self-harm or suicide in the face of their loved one's health decline and lack of other support systems.


Wanting to be more, failing every time I'd like to stop trying, I want to just accept it and try to live with it, why can't I accept it?

The user's message reflects a struggle with self-acceptance and possibly ongoing dissatisfaction with their personal progress or achievements. While there is a degree of distress indicated by the desire to stop trying and to live with their current state, the post does not explicitly express immediate risk of harm to themselves or others. However, the undertone suggests the potential for mental health support to be beneficial, as the user may be experiencing feelings of hopelessness. This context generally requires attention from mental health professionals to provide support and guidance, as ongoing struggles with self-acceptance can escalate if not addressed.