lately i ve been feeling like i m about to reach my lowest again i tried to kill myself on december 0 i ve been depressive a lot of time since then but i feel this time im inch away from getting to that state again but what i want to know is this have you ever have this thought maybe everyone is gon na be better if i just stop being alive nothing is gon na chance if i m not here what s the point of still being alive and suddenly have a lot but a lot of guilt for thinking this thats one of the thing that get me in tear the guilt of thinking this way when i m supposed to be okay after this year

The individual is expressing thoughts of self-harm and suicide, revealing a prior suicide attempt, which signals a high-risk situation. Such expressions of hopelessness and guilt, especially after a past suicide attempt, are serious indicators that immediate mental health support might be needed.


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Overwhelming sense of death I have this overwhelming sense that I'm going to die soon. It's not a fear, I just... like. This is it. This is where it ends.

I have no idea why but I cannot shake it.

Should add I also am starting to get the like.... weird staticy feeling I start to get when the psychosis symptoms start to play up

The user is expressing a distressing premonition of death and impending psychosis symptoms, which can indicate a serious mental health issue. The overwhelming sense of death, even if not associated with fear, along with the onset of psychosis symptoms, such as a 'weird staticy feeling,' potentially reflects a high-risk scenario for the individual's mental health and well-being.

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lil bean always monkey hugging mama mama in her favorite hoodie finding comfort where we can from the pain and depression respectively we re okay and we re also a goddamn mess http t co jflyzoigh9

The user's message suggests they are dealing with pain and depression, which could be indicative of a mental health issue. The phrase 'finding comfort where we can' might imply they are struggling to cope. However, they also mention being 'okay,' suggesting they might not be in immediate crisis. Therefore, it's a situation that deserves attention but might not be urgent.


I have wanted to die almost every day for nearly a decade now. I thought it got easier with age, but now I am just more jaded. I have kept myself alive through misguided belief in silly obligations, but its getting harder to do that every day. I am ready to abandon my roommates with the added rent payment. Every time I feel like I am actually enjoying my life for a while, reality hits me like a ton of bricks as soon as its over. I threw a party yesterday, and it was really fun. I drove someone home this morning, and on my way back I had to pull over to stop myself from pulling the steering wheel. I had to sell my revolver, because I got drunk one night and decided Russian roulette was a good idea. Every single time I drive over a tall bridge, my first thought is is this tall enough to kill me quickly if I jumped? Its an uphill battle, and I know one day I am going to trip. I am so scared, and so alone. I feel like I am fated to take my own life

The situation described is extremely high-stakes, as the user is expressing ongoing suicidal ideation, has considered methods to harm themselves, and is in a state of distress and hopelessness. They mention taking actions in the past that suggest intent, such as selling a revolver to avoid playing Russian roulette, which indicates they are at risk of attempting suicide. They also express deep fear and loneliness, escalating the urgency for immediate mental health support.


i really don t wan na self diagnose i mean i don t think i am pero i really wan na get checked by a doctor for depression and anxiety bc everything i m experiencing are pointing to those two idk i just i m so scared of ppl telling me how i should feel or invalidating my emotion

The user is expressing concerns about experiencing symptoms related to depression and anxiety, which are serious mental health issues. They also mention fears about how others may invalidate their feelings, indicating vulnerability. However, they are actively considering seeking professional help, highlighting a potential positive step towards addressing these concerns. The stakes are significant due to the potential impact of mental health issues but not at an immediate crisis level.


@earsn my baby is tired now.

The statement by the user 'my baby is tired now' is quite vague and doesn't necessarily imply an urgent or critical mental health situation. Without additional context indicating distress or a call for help, it's difficult to categorize this as high-stakes. It could simply mean that their child is tired, which is a common, low-risk situation.


so the name means â€œscarecrow on farmland.â€œâ€

The phrase 'scarecrow on farmland' does not contain any clear indications of a mental health crisis or urgency. Without further context, it's difficult to link this statement to a high-stakes situation that requires immediate support. The phrase could be metaphorical or simply conversational without negative connotations.


feeling ill and sorry for myself

The user's statement indicates some level of personal distress due to feeling ill, but it does not suggest a severe mental health crisis or an urgent high-stakes situation. The expression of feeling 'sorry for myself' might hint at minor emotional distress, but without more information, it is challenging to assess the severity. It doesn’t imply risk of harm, but monitoring might be advised if the sentiment persists or worsens.


so it a beautiful day a lot of sun very warm overal nice but i sweat a lot i m wearing a white shirt and i m sweating a lot under my arm it s really noticeable and idk but it worry me a lot i feel really ashamed of this who else feel like this

The user is expressing feelings of shame and worry about sweating, which is a common and generally low-stakes concern. The post is more about a social discomfort than a cry for urgent mental health support. However, it could indicate underlying anxiety issues that might benefit from support, yet there's no immediate indication of high-stakes or critical mental health risk.


sodding m http twitpic com y y0

The message 'sodding m http twitpic com y y0' is unclear and lacks context. It contains a potential expletive ('sodding'), an incomplete thought ('m'), and a link to an image ('http twitpic com y y0'). Without further context or examination of the image, it is difficult to determine the stakes related to mental health support. There is no direct indication of distress or specific mental health concern presented in the text itself.


this isn t getting better and i don t want to be here anymore

The user's message indicates feelings of hopelessness and a potential desire to end their life, which is a high-stakes situation that may involve risk to their mental health and safety. Such expressions need immediate attention and could potentially require intervention or support from mental health professionals.


rht0 bfmtv en france d apr s vous quelqu un qui ne peut exercer de m tier par probl me mental en pleine d pression admettons doit donc mourir de faim c est bien ce que vous sou entendez du coup

The user's message is concerning as it discusses serious topics such as mental health issues, unemployment due to mental health, and implies a risk of harm or neglect (e.g., 'doit donc mourir de faim'). This suggests a high-stakes situation where the user might be in distress or experiencing a mental health crisis, which requires attention from mental health support services.


Beginning of an end I'm almost 21 years old and I can feel my life falling apart. I can't find the right medication. I'm gaining weight from my new one and can't stop eating. I got fired from my one job after being in the hospital. I'm failing half of my classes at college. I feel like because of my bipolar I'm just not made to be successful in life. I haven't been stable since early highschool. I'm so tired of rapid cycling and my moods shifting so fucking fast. I always used to say that I didn't want to live past 22, but that was even before my diagnosis. I can only see my life becoming more hopeless and I feel bad for my partner of almost a year that puts up with my bullshit. My mom says I wallow in self pity a lot and there's people worse off than me but how is that supposed to help me? I don't want to end up being on disability for the rest of my life, I don't want to drop out of school because of this fucking disorder. But it just doesn't seem to end.

The user is expressing feelings of hopelessness, ongoing struggles with mental health, concerns about medication and its side effects, academic difficulties, and self-doubt regarding the future. The mention of not wanting to live past a certain age and feeling like their life is falling apart are indicators of potential suicidal ideation or severe depression. The situation is high-stakes because it involves mental health issues that could lead to self-harm if not addressed.


wordpress is being a bitch as bitch otherwise there d be a new silence remix up

The user's statement seems to be venting frustration over technical issues with Wordpress. There's no indication of distress or mental health concerns from this statement alone. It primarily reflects annoyance over a specific problem rather than a broader mental health issue.


guybatty oh i m so sorry to hear that very sad thing he wa so young

This message appears to be a response to another user's post likely involving a tragic event or loss, as indicated by the words 'so sorry,' 'very sad,' and 'he was so young'. While this might indicate an emotionally charged scenario, it does not necessarily by itself imply that the current user (guybatty) is in immediate distress or in need of mental health support. The stakes could be higher if there were indications that the user was expressing personal distress or harm, but this message alone does not provide such evidence.


How do I convey to my manager I’m overwhelmed? So for the past 2 weeks or so, I’ve been working long hours (12+) and coming in on the weekends to finish a project. Now I have people “helping” me on the project but they honestly didn’t help me enough to get this done in time. It’s due today and I still don’t know what we’re going to say to the project manager. I also have a meeting with my manager today and I need to let him know the work has really done a number on my mental and physical health. I mean I haven’t taken a lunch in about 3 weeks. I came in on the weekend and I don’t get paid for that because I’m salary. For the past week I’ve woken up feeling nauseous and my body aching. It’s just all too much and I feel I’m breaking. I need some advice on how to let my manager know all this without sounding like I’m whining, got any tips?

The user expresses feelings of being overwhelmed due to excessive work hours and lack of necessary support, which is affecting their mental and physical health. Such situations can lead to burnout and deteriorating mental health. Communicating effectively with a manager about workload and well-being is crucial in preventing further distress, making it relatively high-stakes for the individual's mental health.


I had an anxiety attack. When we returned home, I put my foot down. I told him that his behavior towards me was unacceptable; above all, as my (then future) husband, he needed to put my comfort and well-being above all other considerations as I did with him. He listening, apologized profusely, and we have not had any further issues with this. Until today.

The situation involves a person experiencing anxiety attacks due to relationship issues. The context of discussing how a partner prioritizes comfort and well-being and mentioning recurring issues can indicate potential mental health concerns. However, the user also mentions that the partner has apologized and previously resolved the issue, reducing immediate high-stakes concerns. Though it is significant for their mental health, it is not a crisis-level situation at this point.


Some background to this, I have been in a relationship of three almost four years, two of which have been long distance due to my service in the armed forces. I was ready to pop the question, ring and all in hand. About a month before I am supposed to come home, my now ex cheated on me, we broke up. I have wanted nothing more than to move on or something but the pain just keeps coming back no matter what I do, every plan I had for the future seems blurry and I feel lost, and as of recently I have felt like just ending it and being done with this, maybe it means I am mentally weak and I just got to give it time but from where I am at I cannot see what time will do for me, I feel hopeless. I feel lost

The user is expressing feelings of hopelessness and mentions contemplating ending their life. These are significant indicators of someone in need of urgent mental health support. The situation has high stakes due to the potential risk to the individual's life. It is critical that the person receives immediate support and intervention to ensure their safety and well-being.


In hindsight, I realize that quite a bit of my brain is broken. They should be teaching mental health issues as a spectrum of disorders, build a self awareness in society around mental health problems to tackle stigma, and democratize mental healthcare.We have created an academic medical industrial complex around mental health - all staffed by expensive shrinks - and the huge social gap is instead filled with religion, superstition, charlatans, substance abuse, and worse.Mental healthcare is a basic human right.The Vulcans were right in how they conquered their minds. We are so behind as a species.Its okay to lose your mind. Its also okay to find your way back. We need to normalize an open dialog on mental health

The post discusses systemic issues related to mental health services and advocates for societal changes without expressing personal distress or immediate risk. It suggests a thoughtful critique rather than a direct plea for help, indicating lower personal stakes for the poster. The focus is on broader societal needs rather than immediate personal issues.


i can't afford it.

The statement 'i can't afford it.' is vague and does not explicitly mention mental health or a high-stakes situation on its own. However, financial constraints can be a source of stress and may indirectly relate to one's mental health if it's part of larger context of distress or inability to access basic needs or mental health services. Without further context, it is difficult to definitively categorize this as high-stakes.


27 m I never had a lot of friends in highschool and dated right after highschool for 5 years. During that period I had little self confidence or social skills and never made any real lasting new friendships. I think a big reason why the relationship failed is because of having no social experience and little confidence. The first 2 things I worked on after the relationship ended was my social skills and my financial situation. I am a lot more interesting a sociable now that I have ever been my entire adult life. I am no longer in a constant state of fear of being verbally attacked which was common for me from the time I was about 15-25. And am no longer nearly homeless and now that my basic needs are met a growing pain that is causing me to suffer more and more is how alone I have been. Even in my past serious relationship I was pretty alone but at least I had someone. Now I have nobody and it really sucks. I cannot find people who share my interests and values, or that I can connect with, and people who I do hang out with it is pretty surface level.I could get a girlfriend tomorrow but the I do not usually feel a real connection with women. Someone I really like who I was supposed to hang out with today bailed on me and I am starting to feel hopeless. I do not know how to maintain conversations thru texts, I put so much energy into being sociable in real life settings I forgot how to be able to text people.Maybe I should focus more on where I am professionally in life but I just want people who I get along with.I feel like I missed everything, the highschool, college experience. everyone is getting married and starting careers, and having kids and I still do not even know what I want to do in life. I know I cannot give up but this is not what I thought my life would be like at 27. I am really starting to struggle with what is the point of even fighting anymore? This is such an empty existence. Why is it so hard to make friends as an adult?

The user is expressing feelings of loneliness, social isolation, and existential questioning, which are significant emotional concerns. They mention a sense of hopelessness and struggling with the purpose of continuing to 'fight,' suggesting that they are going through a difficult time emotionally. However, they also indicate that they have made recent improvements in their lives, which could be a protective factor. The text does not explicitly suggest any immediate risk to their safety or mental health crisis level that requires urgent intervention, but the user may benefit from mental health support to address their feelings of loneliness and hopelessness.


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I stopped smoking a couple days ago cuz my lungs are inflamed. I have done nothing but lay in bed in my own dirt. Te thought of food makes me feel repulsed. Ig I just do not know what to do because I mentally and physically cannot do this again. Its getting bad again

The user's post indicates both physical and mental distress due to quitting smoking. Mention of feeling repulsed by food and not knowing what to do because they cannot handle the situation again suggests that the individual is experiencing significant emotional strain. They also express a sense of hopelessness by saying 'It's getting bad again,' which can be a red flag for mental health deterioration. While it doesn't directly indicate an immediate crisis, it's crucial to pay attention to their mental health needs.


a team of doctors gave her a whole new face.

The statement 'a team of doctors gave her a whole new face' could imply a significant medical procedure, such as reconstructive surgery, often needed after traumatic events or for medical reasons. While the post itself doesn't explicitly mention a mental health crisis, people undergoing major surgeries may require psychological support. However, without direct mention of mental distress or need for help, the stakes are not extremely high from the provided information.


For the longest time I have been very very depressed. my Depression started when I was probably in elementary school. I was sent to the counselor's office because I looked sad or I was acting sad or I was not participating in class because I was so overwhelmed with my emotions. My father has always been completely distant, shows no emotion except for when he was hitting me. My mother was fucked up on drugs and alcohol and physically and emotionally abused me. Her 2nd and 3rd husbands do not like me either.I developed a bunch of nervous and noticeable tics because I was so sad or sick. When I would get an each ache or strep, I would get punished (month long+ groundings, beatings, name calling)My mother tortured me when I came out to her as gay in 2003. She sent me to multiple doctors and told everybody in our closed-minded, racist, homophobic family that I was gay. She also kicked me out of the house at 17. I ended up leasing a cheap SRO studio in Chicago so I could have a roof over my head. I paid for that rent with my job at Best Buy. I still do not know how I did it, but I didFast forward to 2015. I went through a bad breakup and ended up doing cocaine almost every night on top of my raging alcoholism in order to cope and numb the feelings. 2016 I started doing heroin occasionally\[and now I do it almost every day -- its been like this since September 2020\]Despite all of this, I was still dating because I thought that finding a partner would fix everything.I met the person who I thought would be my partner for life in 2018. Even though he ghosted me on my birthday, then ghosted me again at thanksgiving that same year I still kept coming back. I love him so much, but I do not understand why.At the beginning of the pandemic, he a new condo and I moved in with him. We slept in separate rooms many nights because we both snore so bad.I loved being with him all the time. But the feeling was not mutual.My partner knew about my demons with drugs and depression -- he also had a drug problem about 10 years ago. I admitted to him that I had been doing heroin almost every night in December 2020. I pleaded for him to not leave me over this and that I was going to rehab as soon as my FMLA benefits were active so I could go to rehab. I wanted to be honest and open, and I was.On March 2nd of this year, I told my partner that I would be starting treatment on March 16. I was very proud of myself for doing this. He, however, flipped out on me and told me that I needed to move out. Now I had to drop out of the rehab program so I could find a new apartment and pay for the move. This led me to spending most of my money on heroin.I expressed to my ex back in March that I was very suicidal. He told me I would never be able to live with myself if you did that to me.I still see him a few times a week. Why, though?Anyway all of this has led me to crippling suicidal thoughts for the last couple of months. The only reason I have not done it yet is because my apartment is a mess and I do not want to put the burden of cleaning up on anybody I know.But I guess it does not matter on my end. Ill never see these people again, right?I am quite sure that I am going to be done with all of this by the end of July. I cannot take life anymore. Humans are horrible.tl;dr: I am a 35 year old gay man who has been experiencing depression for the last 25 years or so. I am also an addict. The one person that I love broke up with me in March right before I was scheduled to go rehab. I have nothing now except sadness and anxiety. I cry myself to sleep every night. people are poison

The user has expressed a long history of depression starting from a young age, experiences of abuse from family, current substance abuse issues, severe relationship difficulties, and repeatedly mentions suicidal thoughts with a specific timeline, indicating a plan. The situation involves mental health, addiction, and suicidal ideation, all of which significantly elevate the stakes due to the immediate risk to the individual's life and well-being. This is a critical situation that requires urgent intervention from mental health professionals.


I just want to weigh some options and I do not have any money so I am running out of things to choose from. Does insurance cover involuntary holds?

The user's question about insurance covering involuntary holds suggests they might be in a situation where they are considering or facing an involuntary psychiatric hold, which is typically associated with mental health crises or critical interventions. While the user hasn't expressed immediate danger, the context implies a high-stakes scenario involving mental health concerns. The situation could potentially escalate or require professional support, thus making it important to address or monitor.


about 3 years ago i lost my girlfriend/friend die to suicide it was no longer then 15 hours since we have been last together, really was not the best of times but it is what it is and I have been really falling into despair lately and i have a whole lotta other shit topping onto that such as childhood, social, etc. i somehow manage everyday to even make a few hours at work and the thought be on my mind all day which is pretty hard being in a depressed, sad, mood. not really sure on what to do, i feel so lost on these long days and longer nights, i somehow even surprise me I am here with all the shit that was happened to me, i just want her back & the idk if i was the reason or not because I have made mistakes and I have been losing it lately & i cannot do a godamn thing about it, smh The More Precious Someone Is To Us, The Harder It is To Accept That They Might Die, Sometimes You Actually a convince Yourself They cannot die

The post reflects significant emotional distress, ongoing depression, and a potential risk of harm. The user is struggling with grief, guilt, and despair, and has alluded to managing just a few hours at work, alongside losing it lately. These factors suggest a high stakes situation, indicating the need for mental health support or intervention.


Men do not have intrinsic value. We have to create our value. that is just the reality of life and I have failed in creating my value. I missed out on my best years. I was born poor and grew up ugly. I am almost 23, and not long until 30, I have not had a single friend, no money, failing uni, no future at all. If I am going to suffer loneliness and everything else for another 50 ish years, then why not cut it short? As a man, I only have value if I provide something, I cannot provide anything, therefore I am worthless and will hang myself.

The situation described by the user reflects a very high level of distress and multiple signs of suicidal intent. The user explicitly mentions thoughts of self-harm and feelings of worthlessness. The expression of hopelessness about the future and the specific mention of hanging themselves indicate an immediate risk to their life. This is a high-stakes situation requiring urgent intervention.


luckily I haven't seen that doctor again, aaaaaa shame. the doctor must remember this is stupid. another question another answer

The message is somewhat unclear and lacks explicit indicators of mental distress that are commonly considered high-stakes. It may express frustration or dissatisfaction with a medical professional, but it does not overtly suggest a critical or urgent mental health crisis. The stakes appear to be low as there is no indication of immediate risk or severe mental health issue. However, consistent patterns or additional context could change the assessment.


eyrro awwwww bummerr sorry missed it again

The message appears to express a mild disappointment or regret over missing something, but does not explicitly indicate any severe distress or that the user is in need of immediate mental health support. It seems more like a minor inconvenience or frustration rather than a high-stakes situation. Therefore, it is unlikely to be a situation requiring urgent intervention or mental health support.


Good news! I just got home from an appointment with my psychiatrist and she’s told me that I’ve been improving 😍 She reduced my 3 meds to just Quetiapine and I’m really happy today 🧡

The user indicates a positive development in their mental health journey, as noted by their psychiatrist's decision to reduce medication, which suggests stabilization or improvement. The language and emojis used convey happiness and no imminent distress, indicating this is a low-stakes situation in terms of immediate mental health intervention.


I hope you can forgive me for all the things I did not become I am sorry I am too tired to say much, but I am sorry

The message conveys a sense of regret, possible depression, and emotional exhaustion. Phrases like 'too tired to say much' and 'forgive me for all the things I did not become' can be indicative of someone struggling with feelings of inadequacy and potential distress, which suggests a situation that could benefit from mental health support.


Tired of my anxiety being a burden to others I feel like this is a safe place to vent...

When I have anxiety episodes (big or small) I get so embarrassed anymore about it. I don't want to put a damper on someone else's day when they are trying to understand why I feel the way that I do. It's also getting harder and harder for me to describe my feelings and reasons for my anxiety. I just wish that I could turn my feelings off, even if it were just for a day.

Okay, venting over. Let's hope for better days ahead. :/

The user expresses feelings of embarrassment and a desire to stop their anxiety, which indicates that they are dealing with significant mental distress. However, they also express hope for better days, which suggests that they might not be in immediate crisis. Therefore, this situation may not represent an immediate high-stakes crisis but still necessitates attention and support.


Is freezing during a conversation an AvPD symptom? Hi all! I'm new to this subreddit, I was recently diagnosed with AvPD. I'm trying to understand it and come to terms with it.

The thing is, I don't have social anxiety in terms of not wanting to spend time with people at all... when it's about folks I know, like my colleagues and friends, I'm even more-than-average social.

However, I do notice that I'm... slow in social interactions. I mean that someone will say something and my brain shuts down and I can't answer properly in the moment. Or I can't hear someone properly but I'm too afraid to ask them to repeat themselves (?!) so I just kinda freeze and/or act as if I heard what they said and the conversation goes on. Then later I think of a "correct" reaction and can't for my life understand why I shut down during the convo and couldn't just think of this reaction then.

This happens with friends too, although it's more common with folks I'm not that comfortable with. Is this an AvPD thing or just a "me thing"?

TL;DR Is shutting down during conversations and only thinking of a proper reaction later an AvPD thing?

The user is expressing difficulty with social interactions, particularly with an inability to respond in real-time during conversations. This is related to their recent diagnosis of Avoidant Personality Disorder (AvPD), but they are seeking clarification on whether their experience aligns with symptoms of AvPD. Although there is a mental health aspect involved, the post indicates that the user is primarily seeking information and validation about their diagnosis rather than expressing acute distress or a high-risk situation such as self-harm or suicide. Thus, it does not immediately present as a high-stakes situation requiring urgent intervention.


I self destruct in hopes of killing myself. I drive recklessly in hopes of being at least seriously injured. I numb out on substances to feel like I am not here. Its only a matter of time before I gain the courage to stop this tortuous cycle. For me and everyone around me. I am useless and, honestly, I think most of us are. Look around at the world we have created. there is nothing but suffering. So, why? Planning for inadvertent death

The user expresses thoughts of self-harm, reckless behavior, substance abuse, and feelings of hopelessness and worthlessness, all of which are indicators of someone in significant mental distress. The user's statements suggest that they are considering actions that could lead to serious harm or even death. This is a potentially life-threatening situation, indicating a need for immediate mental health support.


I am so angry rn, Why does this shit always happen to me? I never, ever get what I want...not even once!I fell in love a few months ago after being cold for four years...and this is the first time I have felt this way...so I decide to tell her.. and she was taken two weeks ago! FUCK ME!! I have been crashing on her for 4 months...and I overcame my social anxiety to tell her...but life did not want me to get anything! All I have had is bad luck, and this is not the first time..in my entire life, I have not won anything..I am not a loser, I work hard to improve myself, but who the fuck is shitting in my life?Dude ! i lost a job deal with 370k per year.just Because I was in the hospital and did not see the mail for two days, they assumed I was ghosting them. I tried again on the fourth day, but the job had already been taken!i swear i not a bad person to deserve this shit! I Fucking hate my life.

The user is expressing significant frustration and disappointment with their life circumstances, indicating feelings of hopelessness and bad luck. They discuss several setbacks, such as unrequited love and the loss of a high-paying job opportunity, which suggest a deep personal dissatisfaction and emotional distress. Such expressions could indicate a need for mental health support, as the user appears to feel overwhelmed and potentially in crisis. While the message does not explicitly contain threats of self-harm or harm to others, the intensity of the language and the level of despair warrant a closer examination.


flowfy0 kenklot manlikeicey people will just be capping nonesense she died of depression yen yen the word depression wasn t even been abused then like they do now she died of blood clot disorder

The user's comment appears to be dismissive of the seriousness of depression by suggesting that it is often used improperly or exaggerated in modern discourse. However, it does not directly indicate immediate risk or the need for mental health support. The comment reflects a misunderstanding or underestimation of mental health issues rather than a personal mental health crisis.


Honestly I am depressed af lol. The suicidal thoughts have calmed down a little only because I have not been sober for one day. I do not think actually for a hour . I have been drinking to drink myself into a coma tbh. Sadly has not worked cuz I am still here. Something rlly bad happened to me that crushed my soul and inknow I will not be the same anymore but everyone thinks I am being dramatic but I am not. This is the lowest I have been. I wish I would stop waking up tbh. Depressed af

The user's message indicates a significant degree of distress, with mentions of depression, suicidal thoughts, substance abuse, and feelings of hopelessness. This content suggests an immediate need for mental health support. The mention of trying to drink oneself into a coma and expressing a wish to stop waking up highlight potential life-threatening behaviors and thoughts, suggesting a high-stakes situation.


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I go through days where I am very depressed and others just normal, but it is becoming more frequent that I am depressed for days.I do not believe talking about problems helps so not sure why I am positing this. But I am so stressed and overwhelmed I am 24 I am way in over my head at work and cannot really do anything about it I am supporting my mom who recently had a mental and emotional breakdown because her brother and mom committed suicide in our house, so we moved to be with family who are amazing but I feel like even though we are family it will always be sort of family if that makes sense, I have no dating prospects due to mainly the fact I support my mom have a dinky small mobile home among other reasons which sadly meeting someone is my dream and I would be just amazing but oh well. I am overweight and cannot seem to keep motivated long enough to actually make a difference, cannot do the one thing I have always wanted to do which is to travel, hell I cannot even kill myself because I have too many responsibilities. No close friends just some I see every once in a while to hike. No self esteem in what I do. Anyways there is my rant. Off and on depression

The user is expressing a range of symptoms and situational factors that are concerning, including sustained depression, overwhelming stress, family trauma involving suicide, lack of support system, low self-esteem, and thoughts of hopelessness. The mention of having 'too many responsibilities' to kill themselves implies that they have considered it, which raises the stakes significantly in terms of potential need for mental health intervention. Additionally, the user feels isolated and unable to achieve dreams or make personal improvements, suggesting a sense of desperation and hopelessness.


Driving Anxiety Hi everyone, I wanted to just put a note here to see if this is a common symptom people experience (even with medication).

Ever since 2020, I developed severe anxiety that seemed to arise behind the wheel. It started with little things; I would hit a bump and would spend a little longer looking in the rear view mirror than I ordinarily would.

Eventually, it escalated to the point where I would compulsively circle blocks or pull over just to make sure that these bumps and potholes were not pedestrians. And if I did circle a block, usually there would be OTHER potholes or bumps, which would lead to a mental downward spiral that drove me, quite literally, to insanity. It was one of these spirals that led to my first trip for psychiatric evaluation.

After beginning medication, this generally subsided to a manageable level, and with CBT I was doing pretty good. Then, in December of 2022, my wife and I were stopped at a red light when us and two other vehicles were completely totalled by an F350 who rear ended us, travelling at roughly 80 KMh. He ran from the incident. Everyone was miraculously not seriously injured, but I’ve been set back to pre medication levels of anxiety while driving.

This hyper-vigilance (I drive quite a bit) has now lead to significant physical illness for me. From stress, I’ve ground my molars to completely flat, and the tension within my body from being so, braced? I guess? And overly vigilant while driving, is really locking me up. I’ve gained a lot of weight, too. It’s lead to serious depression as I’ve built a life that requires me to have a limber body.

Does anyone have any similar stories to share? Or even just some relevant encouragement… I’m really getting to the end of my rope lately because of this.

Thank you beautiful humans, please drive safe and treat yourself gently.

The user's situation involves significant mental health struggles stemming from past trauma and ongoing anxiety, particularly related to driving. The user mentions a severe impact on their physical health and mental well-being, describing themselves as at the end of their rope. This indicates a high level of distress and potential risk for mental health crises, necessitating support or intervention.


My body, my mind whatever it was would not let me stop crying. I am or was in so much pain. I was numb. Bro this f*cking sucks. I just spent the last hour crying.

The user expresses intense emotional distress, mentioning uncontrollable crying and feeling numb, which may indicate a mental health crisis or the need for immediate support. This situation is high-stakes because it involves the user's mental well-being potentially being at risk.


Please help

The phrase 'Please help' is vague and lacks context, making it difficult to assess the stakes accurately. It could range from someone needing help with a minor issue to a serious cry for help related to mental health. However, given that it's a request for help on social media, it could potentially indicate a high-stakes situation involving mental health support.


Until you actually show signs of being suicidal.Every day is worse than the last. I look forward to nothing. I am burnt out on taking care of our daughter. I wish my partner let me off myself back in December. is not it funny how people say they care

The user's message contains explicit signs of suicidal thoughts and a sense of hopelessness, indicating a critical mental health situation. They mention being burnt out, a lack of motivation, and having past suicidal thoughts. This is a high-stakes situation as it involves the user's immediate well-being and safety.


Lit a candle, I think heat fumes hit my eye. I was lighting a candle, then heat fumes bursted up and hit my eye. I'm very paranoid, any suggestions?

The situation involves a physical incident that resulted in discomfort or injury and the user expresses paranoia, which could be heightened anxiety or distress. While this is concerning, the situation isn't inherently life-threatening. It's important to ensure the user receives guidance to address their anxiety or potential injury, but it doesn't require emergency intervention.


muzocan we should talk about this australia issue

The statement provided is vague and lacks specific information regarding the 'Australia issue,' making it difficult to definitively determine the stakes involved. Without more context, such as whether this refers to a personal crisis, a political event, or another type of issue, it's challenging to assess the urgency or severity of the situation. However, given the deployment context involves mental health, there is a possibility of underlying mental health concerns, but this can't be assumed without additional details.


Just casually sharing my life-story I never share my genuine and real problems with anyone close to me and I just want to get some things off my chest.

Disclaimer: Don't be stupid and go off your medication in a single day without anybody watching it like I did. This could seriously harm you, don't do it, learn from my mistakes. Also try not to lie if that's a problem for you.

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When I was 14 my mother first took me to a GP to ask for a referral to a children's psychiatrist. From there on it was a whirlwind of seeing different psychiatrists and receiving different diagnoses. 2 years later it was agreed that I had bipolar II and I was put on medication and sent to therapy.

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I'm not sure how medication worked for me, I was prescribed some mood-stabilisers and I took them, and after I was asked how they work for me I said yeah, they are great, despite not feeling any difference at all. Therapy didn't help me either, I'm a self-diagnosed compulsive liar and therapy did nothing for me because I just lied to my therapist about a bunch of trivial things, so I never allowed her to get close. I think I lie mostly because I don't like people getting to know too much about me and my life, though often I also just lie for no reason at all. I'm not a sociopath or psychopath, I do experience emotions very much and sometimes I get angry at myself for lying to people I care about.

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For some reason, at some point when I was 17 I just could not manage to call my psychiatrist nor my therapist for another appointment. My mother, who is a supportive and kind person normally, who however always stigmatised and made fun of me for mental health issues (despite having some herself), refused to call them for me on the basis that I'm 17, I should be able to do this for myself now.

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So, I never went back to my psychiatrist and that meant no more pharmacy recipes for my medication. That's how I uncontrolledly went off my mood-stabilisers. It was a whirlwind and it pushed me right back to the start of my problems. Don't do this. This is stupid and dangerous and not recommended by ANYBODY.

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Since then I have learned to control myself better and I have learned coping methods that help me. I still know I am going through phases of depression and hypomania and rapid-cycling. I am learning methods that help me push through it. I believe I'm at a point in my life where I have the will and drive to get help and medication again, but I try to cope. I'm turning 21 soon and currently enrolled half-time at an online university. I study in English, which is not my native language, but I enjoy it very much and it's a field I am very very interested in. I have a boyfriend who is older than me and financially supports me. I am a supportive family that I could always come back to running, if I dropped out of university it would not be the end of the world. Even though I dropped out of high school right before graduation (because I stood no chance at ever passing the math final) I could get a job and not worry about money, thanks to my family's circumstances.

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Now I mostly suffer from the 'side effect' symptoms of BP II, (as I like to call them): delusions, emotional intensity, binging on various things and irritability. I sometimes get bouts of feelings of guilt for things that are long done with, or just for no reason. I feel highly emotional about wasting food, money, other things. Which can be a challenge when you experience hypomania sometimes, lol.

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Thank you for reading if you came this far, I hope you're coping well. I'm not sure whether I ever told my story this honestly.

The user is openly sharing a personal and vulnerable account of their mental health journey, including struggles with Bipolar II disorder, medication, and therapy. The mention of going off medication unsupervised and the acknowledgment of fluctuating mental states, such as depression, hypomania, and rapid cycling, suggests they are at risk. However, they also express having learned coping mechanisms and having a supportive network. While the user shows a desire for improvement, the situation involves managing a serious mental health condition, which makes it relatively high-stakes.


i enjoyed talking to you.

The statement 'I enjoyed talking to you.' is neutral and does not indicate any immediate need for mental health support or crisis. It is simply an expression of a positive interaction, likely with either an individual or a service.


I have a problem where I can only feel turned on if I imagine that I am somebody else. This basically rules out sex with other people and I can only masturbate by constructing a detailed fantasy in which I play a character who is completely different to the person I am in real life. If I am in any way brought back to reality, I am immediately turned off. I guess this has to do with my self-hatred. I find myself very unattractive, repulsive even. I do not know if it matters, but I am a male and I play both male and female characters in my fantasies.Has anybody else dealt with this kind of problem? If so, do you have any advice? Thank you Seeking advice re self-hatred and sexuality

The user is expressing issues related to self-hatred and sexual dysfunction, which are sensitive topics. These could be indicative of underlying mental health challenges such as low self-esteem or potentially depression. However, the user is openly seeking advice, which is a positive sign that they are looking for help and not expressing an immediate high-risk situation like self-harm or suicidal ideation.


I got the best news of my life that I was actually pregnant today just to have a miscarriage hours later. I have no friends. My family has been abusive or absent with the exception of my wonderful grandmother who has kept me going this long, but it feels like its not enough anymore. My partner broke up with me a couple weeks ago, he does not love me anymore. I feel completely, completely alone. there is no hope left for me, I am severely traumatized and mentally ill and I have been in and out of psychiatric treatment for years. there is no avenues left for me to go down. I am going to spend the weekend with my ex and try to make it a good one. But I know that him and everyone else would be happier without me. I have started collecting the materials I need and Monday is the day for me. Depressed for 11/21 years of my life and see no hope in sight.

The message indicates severe emotional distress and potential suicidal intent, as the user references planning a day for their suicide and expresses feelings of isolation and hopelessness. The context of a recent miscarriage, relationship breakdown, and long-standing mental health challenges amplify the urgency and risk. This situation requires immediate intervention from mental health professionals.


HA relapse. Feeling helpless. Could use some positive vibes Hey friends. Unfortunately my HA has come back full force. After a brief time of stillness and calmness a friend passed away and at the same time I was dealing with a minor neck injury. Now my HA has completely spiralled out of control again. With obsessions ranging from Heart disease, to brain cancer and aneurism. This is my third or fourth relapse with HA. Feeling extremely anxious and so so hyper aware of my body right now. Every pain, twitch, movement is highly examined... google is my best friend and enemy right now.
I cannot stop thinking I am sick. And that I will die. It’s horrible. Anyone who has had a bad relapse with HA can understand what I am going through right now. Just looking for some calming words, stories, anything right now.

Much love HA community.

The user's post indicates a high level of distress due to health anxiety (HA), which has been exacerbated by recent personal loss and a neck injury. They express obsessive fears regarding serious illnesses, which they are unable to moderate. This situation is high-stakes because the user feels helpless and is in a mental state where they could potentially benefit from professional support. While the request is for calming words, the underlying intensity of their anxiety suggests a need for more than just community support.


need help with SSRI nausea I was wondering if anybody has had nausea with one SSRI but not with some other one?

I  am taking Zoloft and nausea is pretty bad, even with the one half of 50  mg tablet. I dont know if switching SSRIs would be beneficial or this  side effect would remain the same?

What  is interesting is that I have taken Zoloft 15 yeras ago with absolutely  no issues at at all, and now I feel like I am taking a poison. I don't  understand this at all.

Thanks!

The user is expressing discomfort with a medication, specifically an SSRI, and is seeking advice on side effects. While the user is uncomfortable and possibly distressed, they are actively seeking solutions and not exhibiting signs of severe mental distress or crisis that would indicate this is a high-stakes situation. They are also capable of reflecting on past experiences with the medication and seeking personal stories or alternatives. This appears to be a manageable concern that could be addressed with medical guidance or adjustments to their treatment plan.


i do not know why i even had hope that it would get better. Things only get worse and i hate when ppl say it will get better. My mind is telling me to give up everyday I am trying to fight but i do not think i was made for this world. I love my parents and they are very caring but i do not think that is enough reason for me to keep going. I have nothing going for me and i hate myself. I remember when i was a kid and was actually happy with myself but those days are long gone. Now all i can think about is how worthless i am and how i do not belong. I think this might be my last few days here. I hope everyone has a good day and keeps fighting. it does not get better

The user's message contains multiple red flags indicating a high-stakes situation. They express feelings of hopelessness, worthlessness, persistent sadness, and have mentioned thoughts of giving up and not belonging. There is also an indication of potential suicidal ideation with the mention of 'last few days here.' These are critical indicators of someone in need of immediate mental health support.


Thinking you have $  go get a coffee.. declined card. Try again thinking it’s just my card.. declined. Maybe it’s their machine.. decline.

The user describes a situation where their card is repeatedly declined while trying to purchase a coffee. This could suggest financial stress or embarrassment, which might be contributory factors in mental health, but by itself, it doesn't indicate an urgent or high-stakes situation. The stakes could be higher if this is indicative of broader financial issues, but based on the information provided, it lacks details to rate it high. Thus, while it's a situation that could contribute to stress, it's not in itself high-stakes.


What's common with baen wis …

The phrase 'What's common with baen wis …' appears to be incomplete and lacks context that could indicate a high-stakes situation. Without further context or indicators of distress or a call for help related to mental health, this specific phrase alone does not present a high-stakes scenario. However, it is important to note that any social media content should be examined in context for any signs of distress or need for support.


Honestly tired of being locked up •

The user's statement "Honestly tired of being locked up" can suggest a variety of things such as being overwhelmed, feeling isolated, or dealing with confinement, which could be physical or metaphorical. Without more context, it is difficult to assess the stakes accurately. However, feelings of isolation or frustration can sometimes be indicative of mental health struggles. The stakes are not immediately life-threatening based on this statement alone, but it does warrant attention for potential underlying mental health concerns. Therefore, it's moderately high-stakes to ensure the person receives support if needed.


I’m worried sick about melanoma Three years ago when I was twelve I had a blue speck on my heel. I remember thinking if I stepped on a marker or not. So one day (I don’t know how much later it was) I saw my foot and it was now bigger and now brown. I touched it and it peeled off. It left a little hole with normal skin underneath and healed up fine. This petrified me. It hasn’t happen again. I told some adults and they reassured me all was okay. Well I’m still horrified about it and I have been subtly for those three years. I really have never had anxiety this bad. I’m so so scared I don’t know what to do. I’m 16 now and practically hopeless to my situation, i can’t drive or pay for medical fees so i have to beg my parents to take me to the doctors. I feel hopeless and scared for my future. Please, please help me.

The user is expressing intense anxiety and fear over a potential health issue (melanoma) experienced in the past. The anxiety has persisted for years and is compounded by feelings of hopelessness due to lack of access to healthcare without parental assistance. The desperation in their plea and their extended suffering over what could be a serious health issue elevate this situation to higher stakes, particularly relating to the user's mental health.


If I could live without the pain it would be so much easier. But I cannot. I have reached out for help so many times and no one has any concern about it. I do not know what to do anymore. I wish the pain would go away.

The user is expressing feelings of pain and despair, hinting at a situation where they have sought help but feel neglected. This expression is often associated with significant emotional distress and could indicate a risk of self-harm or suicidal ideation, both of which are high-stakes concerns requiring immediate attention.


Emotional detachment For the last three years, I’ve experienced emotional detachment. It’s been so long that I forgot I have it. I have close to no emotional reactions to anything external. The only way I can make myself cry is if I’m pretending to be sad. I don’t feel anything and it makes me think I’m crazy. I don’t act numb because I fake my emotions. Even when I’m alone. I used to feel more. But now when situations occur when emotions would most likely come out, it doesn’t even feel like it’s happening to me. I could chop off all my hair and I would have no reaction. My sister got engaged and I had to fake my reaction. Whenever I hear news, it’s just like hearing words and that’s all. It doesn’t feel like I’m emotionless per se, it feels like I’m not even processing the situation in the first place. Logically, I know it’s happening but I don’t feel aware at all. Why is this? Is this depression? Am I a sociopath? I’d also like to bring up that I have been diagnosed with OCD. And I had a very emotionally abusive father at a very young age.

The user describes experiencing persistent emotional detachment over a three-year period, which is impacting their daily emotional responses and relationships. This detachment is causing them distress, leading them to question their mental health and suspect conditions such as depression or sociopathy. They also mention a background of OCD and an abusive childhood, which could contribute to their current state. The duration, severity of symptoms, and personal history indicate a significant mental health concern, suggesting a need for professional assessment and support. Although there's no immediate threat of harm mentioned, the situation is significant and warrants attention to prevent further deterioration.


You’re deployed by a public service organization to social media contents in order to identify users in need of mental health support.

I have rewritten this like two or three times I do not want to say to much or to little but I am losing my mind over my brother I cannot stop thinking about if hes drinking or not he finally admitted he has a problem about a month ago and agreed to go to meetings (we have no money for rehab or anything like that) and after months of getting zero sleep and losing over 20 pounds worrying about him I thought that everythings gone back to normal until today I am pretty confident hes been drinking (me and my dad work during the day) this whole thing the last 6 months has really just fucked me up I hate coming home cannot sleep I just feel empty inside I feel like I got no one in my corner and I am sorry if this comes off as me being soft or weak I just have no one to talk to and had to finally get this off my chest My little brothers an alcoholic and its slowly killing me

The user's message indicates significant mental distress related to their brother's alcoholism, which is a serious situational context. The impact on the user's mental health is evident through the mention of losing weight, experiencing insomnia, and feeling isolated or alone. They express a sense of helplessness and desperation, which implies high emotional stakes. However, there is no immediate risk of harm stated such as suicidal thoughts or actions. This situation requires attention and support, but it may not be at the most critical level of urgency based on what's been disclosed.


My whole life I have always been vocal, I do not put up with things. I do me. But fast forward and I am currently 27, Ill be 28 in a couple weeks. If I stay in the military another day past my separation date I swear Ill probably blow my head off, even though I have felt like doing it for years. Before you ask, yes, I have talked to someone what a waste of time. I am planning to separate early next year. I am tired of doing. I am tired of thinking. I am tired of giving. I give, give, and give. I have no more to give. I am tired of helping everyone, I am tired of talking, I am tired of taking care of things. I am tired of not being heard. I am tired of talking to only be seen as every word that comes out of my mouth as insignificant or because others prioritize their wants and cannot handle the mere idea of listening, respecting, or considering my desires and instead treat every word out of my mouth as argumentative. My kid is now one, even when I talk about things about him that Id like, I am told to just put my wants aside and let __ do this, and told to even apologize for things I say with a calm demeanor that I feel adamant about. No one cares about anything that I think, how I feel, what my responsibilities are, or what I contribute when all I do is support my wife, my son, my family, those close to me, and those at work. I am tired of being treated like I am less than, I am tired of working for others in this fucked up 9-5 system that we all live by, I am tired of being asked to do things in my personal life when I do not want to do to them. I am tired. I just want to be put to rest like all those 100+ terrorists I helped bury, I am just so damn tired. Women want men to cater to them. I want to be catered to. Treat a woman how you treat your mom? Why cannot they treat us the same? I want to receive affection, I want to know that I matter and that all I do/have done matters. I am exhausted of being exhausted. I am tired. Iam tired. I AM tired. Tired is who I am. I am done and I do not care anymore. I am okay now to be silent, I do not care about what I want anymore. I am done. I am Tired

The user expresses feelings of extreme fatigue, hopelessness, and distress. They mention thoughts of self-harm and dissatisfaction with their current situation, indicating a severe mental health crisis. Such expressions require immediate attention and support, as they are indicative of someone who may be at risk of self-harm or worse. The mention of military service and feeling unheard further suggests a need for urgent intervention from mental health professionals.


I am not really depressed, but lately I have been seriously contemplating suicide.Though I am not depressed my life is pretty shitty. i have no friends, a toxic family, were borderline poor, ect. i have no joy in life. i have no motivation.I gave nothing to look forward to. i have no dreams or aspirations, I am not good at anything, i have no idea what i want to do in life. I am too awkward to get anything done or get a relationship, i simply cannot picture a future where I am happy.So with the combination of a shitty life now and likely an even shittier life in the future wtf is the point. i have nothing and no one, i used to be so optimistic but now that me is nowhere to be found, i genuinely do not think ill make it through the summer. i have a plan and the equipment only reason I am still here is because my parents do not know shit about taking care of a dog Venting

The user is expressing serious suicidal thoughts and detailing feelings of hopelessness, lack of joy, and motivation, coupled with feelings of worthlessness. They are also mentioning having a plan and the means to carry it out. This indicates a situation where immediate mental health intervention is needed. It's a high-stakes scenario as the user's language suggests they are at significant risk of attempting suicide.


@AmandaFPatton haha, well it's never a permanent state for me (offline)

The user's message is vague and lacks clear context, making it difficult to ascertain a mental health concern. The phrase 'it's never a permanent state for me (offline)' could imply a light-hearted approach to being offline and does not inherently indicate a high-stakes situation or a need for immediate mental health support.


I feel like bipolar is ignored. Anyone know any good mental health nonprofits that actually support bipolar? I've liked TWLOHA since I was in high school because of their dedication to preventing suicide and they were really connected to the music scene I was into, but now as I'm older and diagnosed, I'll listen to their podcasts and watch their social media and there's nothing that ever acknowledges bipolar. Just depression and anxiety. I feel like most organizations are this way. They support anxiety and depression because they're the trendy things to support while things like bipolar, borderline and schizophrenia are still too scary and inappropriate to mention. I'd really like to see an organization that recognizes bipolar and supports more mental illnesses than just depression and anxiety. Anyone know of any good ones? In the US, so ones available in the US preferred.

The user is expressing frustration about the lack of attention given to bipolar disorder by mental health organizations. While the post suggests a need for supportive resources and a sense of exclusion, it does not indicate an immediate crisis or distress that necessitates urgent intervention. The user is actively seeking help and support, demonstrating a proactive approach to addressing their mental health needs.


I was diagnosed with Major Depressive Disorder in the summer of 2019. I have been depressed for much longer, I first tried to kill myself in 8th grade by bleeding to death. I did not get very far. My parents, who were abusive, did not care. I left them my senior year. Went to college, dropped out due to depression and suicidal ideation. 2020 I attempted suicide twice, one by overdose another by fire arm. Started animation school. Got my first apartment. I still have Major Depressive Disorder. I am not suicidal ATM but life just does not feel worth living. All I can manage to do is get up, go to work, and sleep. Even eating is difficult. I am tired. Life does not feel like anything anymore

The user has a history of severe mental health issues including multiple suicide attempts and current feelings of life not being worth living, despite stating they are not suicidal at the moment. They are experiencing significant symptoms of depression such as difficulty eating and feeling very tired. The user's situation is precarious and demonstrates a high risk for potential relapse into suicidal ideation, making it a high-stakes situation.


what did you do at night?

The question 'what did you do at night?' appears to be a general and casual inquiry without any context indicating a high-stakes situation, such as potential harm or an urgent need for mental health support.


I am not shure if this is the right sub for this but i have to write this down somewhere.I am a 18 year old male avererage reddit user from Germany.About a year ago I wanted to upgrade my Pc and accidently broke it. The problem in having summer vacation, close to no friends and being unable to do your two only hobbies is you have time to think, A LOT of time to think. After about two weeks of doing nothing except of thinking about my past actions and reflecting about my current state of having about 1-2 friends (ig I am still not shure what a friend really is, where do you draw the line?), severly performing under my possibilities and nearly failing my Abitur (Highschool) my mood went downwards fast. After 4 weeks when I finally got my parts to fix the PC the damage was already done. On a daily basis my mood got worse, over time I enjoyed my hobbies less and less, got less talk active (which you can see on this post I usually do a lot) and ate less and less to the point of loosing about 10kg in one week (which is unhealthy but I am overweight so its not that big of a deal) because everything tasted bland anyways and I felt empty anyways. I noticed early where that is going to go but was shure after the last/final school trip in which i had basically a breakdown once a day. I kept going anyways because I did not want anyone to worry but at the same time I wanted exactly that I wanted to see that people actually care about me, not because they had to because they are related or care about everyone, I wanted to see if somebody actually noticed that I am not okay and not just moody. Spoiler: nobody did, apart from maybe my teacher that noticed that i basically went from the most active student in the course to the least active. I cried almost every day. Nobody noticed my mom just thought i wanted to loose weight. My 18th birthday was about that time, I wanted to skip it both my parents (divorced) did not allow it. So i had two partys one with my mom, my aunt and my best friend and one with my dad, gradparents, brother, and my dads patchwork family. Both were stressing me out strongly, all human interaction was hard, I wanted to appear kind of ok even though the suicidal thoughts slowly crawled in my head more and more. I still hoped anybody notices. A few weeks later i was so instable that a simple test in school basically broke me to the point of not even being able to uphold my facade in school. that is where I drew the line, I cannot wait anymore for somebody to help, if I will not help myself now I would possibly do something really stupid later. I went to my doctor. I expected to get told I was overreacting and should calm down. My doctor took me very serious, he calmed me down took some test to check if there was a non hormonal because and prescribed me antidepressants and wrote me sick for the day and tge day after (it was thursday and the second lockdown was the week after anyways). That day was the worst, i basically had to tell my mostly oblivious relatives that I was depressed and i had to decide if I would actually use the drugs I had gotten. After talking with my parents and people I knew I came to the conclusion that I have no real alternativ than taking them. I found a psychologist about 1-2months later way faster than I expected. After about half a year of sucessful medication and therapy my psychologist said they are thinking I would not need therapy anymore, I agreed. I talked to my doctor and quit the meds. I finished school with a grade better than expected. I thought it was over it.But the whole time I knew the only goal I had in finding somebody who cared was unfulfilled. I have not found one person that cared about me, I had to get myself out of there even though that was the only thing i wanted not to do. It haunts me. I had two medium breakdowns this week. I am am fucking scared. I do not want to be depressed again, I cannot go through that shit again. I do not know what to do anymore. Everything turned out fine why am I going down the same fucking road i went about a year ago? Why do I feel like I am not even worth getting cared about? I can study what I want everything went far better than expected why tf is my mood getting worse? I just do not know anymore. I do not know anymore

The user describes a history of depression, suicidal thoughts, lack of social support, and recent breakdowns, indicating a return of concerning symptoms. Their message is a cry for understanding and signifies a depth of emotional distress. This sets a high-stakes situation as the user could be at risk of falling back into a severe depressive state, thus requiring immediate mental health support.


Hit my head about 2 months ago, have vertigo and memory issues Hi guys. I hit the side of my head very hard on the corner of a table in late November. I didn’t lose consciousness and there was no blood. I also didn’t have vomiting or nausea. That said, lately I’ve been having vertigo (feeling like the floor is moving out from under me) and i feel extremely out of it, like I’m living in a movie, along with shortness of breath. Everything is made WAY WORSE by caffeine. Also sometimes i will have a headache or dull pain in the area that i hit my head but it’s about once a week so not often. I have been to two doctors who have examined me and said I’m fine but I’ve had no CT scan or MRI. I am so scared i have a hematoma or something!! But it’s also been two months and in that time i have had a LOT of alcohol, been on a vacation, and been on rollercoasters and I’ve been ok minus the vertigo and brain fog. How worried should i be?? Please help me!

The user's symptoms and concerns suggest potential medical issues that could be serious, such as lingering effects from a head injury. Vertigo, memory issues, and sudden onset of other symptoms could indicate a concussion or more severe injuries like hematoma. Though doctors have assessed the user, further medical investigation might be warranted given the persisting symptoms. While the user expresses significant anxiety, the presence of medical evaluations lowers the immediate high-stakes nature slightly, but a lack of CT scan or MRI points to the necessity for a more thorough examination.


maybe you should use an electric shaver.

The statement provided by the user appears benign and lacks context indicating a potentially harmful or high-stakes situation. It seems to be an innocuous suggestion rather than a statement pointing to a crisis or immediate need for mental health support.


mad tired today callin it in early tonight nighty night twittas

The user's post suggests they are tired and going to bed early, which is a common and normal expression of fatigue. There is no indication of a mental health crisis or urgent need for support based on this post alone. It does not contain language or implications typically associated with high-stakes mental health concerns.


very valak imoetzzz

The content provided is vague and does not explicitly indicate a distress or mental health concern. Without context, it is difficult to assess the severity of the situation. This expression might not be directly related to a mental health issue.


I do not see any other option. I cannot achieve happiness in life. I am chasing a dream that i know I will never achieve. I have no reason to life for. I feel trapped doing the same things everyday. I have no friends, no social life, and i cannot talk to people for shit without getting anxiety attacks. life is just painful and i do not want to resist it anymore. why suicide got to be so hard? do not even want to wait till it gets better

The user expresses feelings of despair, hopelessness, and discusses suicide, indicating a potential risk of self-harm. The situation requires immediate attention and possibly intervention by mental health professionals.


rpz jkkkkkk £

The user's message appears to be nonsensical and doesn't provide clear context or content to assess if it indicates a need for mental health support. There are no explicit signs of distress or a call for help. It could simply be a case of typing errors or spam. However, since context is very sparse, it's difficult to definitively rule out underlying issues without additional information.


no, i haven't. why?

The provided statement is too vague and lacks context to determine the stakes. There is no indication of distress or a situation that implies urgency or high impact. Without additional information about prior messages or the context in which this statement was made, it's not possible to assess the stakes accurately.


There are so many options for every damn thing and I get overwhelmed because I just do not care so I just do not buy anything at all, even if I need the thing Shopping while depressed

The user expresses feelings of being overwhelmed and possibly depressed, which can affect their daily activities like shopping. However, there's no indication of a crisis or immediate risk, such as self-harm. This suggests a moderate level of distress but not a critical high-stakes situation.


I just do not get it. Why is it supposed to be prevented ? Sometimes I see it as a fantastic solution. Only because it will hurt other people, its supposed to be prevented ? IDK then, why are not these people who would get hurt, let the person get to this stage ? If this sounds selfish, then telling a person that its going to be better online is a joke too. Sorry to say its a fucking joke. I think when a person's thinking about suicide, its already too late. Its already over. We let that person get to that stage of thinking that, and on top of that, we tell them fake stuff like " oh its going to be better ", FUCKING HOW ? how do you know its going to be better. let us evaluate the pros of suicide below : Ends your pain. Lessens burden of people who are supposed to "stick" with you. Who gives a fuck anyway. Nobody is down for you the way you would think they are. Somehow you are supposed to tough it out. Its meaningless.Cons : Someone would cry for a couple days. Amazon would lose a customer.As a society, we should be discussing good/painless ways to commit suicide. We should be legalising death by medication. But no instead we choose to serve capitalism to save a life. Fucking why ? Why does suicide need to be prevented ?

The content strongly suggests that the user is contemplating suicide and is expressing feelings of hopelessness, questioning the value of life, and discussing the perceived benefits of suicide. These are classic signs of someone in a mental health crisis, which makes this a very high-stakes situation. There is a potential immediate risk to the individual's life, and immediate intervention may be necessary to provide appropriate support and prevent harm.


@vindiekins I almost feel bad for my next post. Almost.

The statement 'I almost feel bad for my next post. Almost.' is ambiguous and can imply a range of intentions from being mischievous online to potentially posting something that could harm someone's feelings. However, it does not explicitly suggest a high-stakes situation, such as immediate danger to the user or others. Without additional context about the nature of the post or the user’s history, it's difficult to assess the true stakes, but it does not strongly indicate a mental health crisis.


new video card is doa

The situation involves receiving a defective video card, which, while disappointing and potentially frustrating, is a common consumer issue and generally does not have significant long-term consequences or risks associated with safety or well-being. It does not require urgent intervention or indicate an immediate threat to mental health.


i'm not sure.

The user's statement 'I'm not sure' is vague and lacks context, making it difficult to assess the stakes accurately. However, without more specific indications of distress, it does not inherently suggest a high-risk situation related to mental health. It could be an expression of indecision or uncertainty related to a wide range of topics not necessarily tied to mental health. Thus, while it should not be ignored in a support context, it does not immediately suggest a high urgency for intervention.


I know i will die by suicide I am fifteen years old and since i was 11 years old all i can think about is which way is the most peaceful way to go. The only thing stopping me is goals and ambitions i want to accomplish before dying i do not know what I am going to do if these goals are not achieved but i have to complete them before dying. Also the thought of my poor mother walking in on her only sons dead rotting corpse makes me think twice about killing myself. But I am so tired i just want it all to end i just want to be at peace with the universe and leave this sad pathetic world i feel as though i am just postponing the inevitable

The user expresses suicidal thoughts and a consistent preoccupation with methods of suicide over several years, which indicates a significant risk to their safety. They also express feelings of being overwhelmed and a desire to end their life. Mentioning specific reasons that have delayed taking action does not reduce the risk, especially since they indicate feelings of inevitability. This is a high-stakes situation requiring immediate attention from mental health professionals.


9 months ago, I very suddenly got depressive symptoms. Id been struggling with anxiety before that and was in therapy for that reason. Depression hit me like a brick in the face and I started to share thoughts of suicide to my friends and therapist. I was involuntarily hospitalized after I cut myself in public. From there it stayed bad.While I could avoid the psych ward within the last 9 months except for that one time, I have scars all over my body, especially my leg, from cutting myself. They are itchy, horrible and so fucking ugly.I do not think I have spent a week without an episode in the last 9 months, no week without thoughts about killing myself. I have friends, a therapist, Ill be put on medication. there is a boy and if I can trust him, he likes me just as much as I like him and we may have a future. Things are objectively getting better compared to when all of this started, I was lonely and being emotionally abused by a friend. But I have lost trust in all of this. In my head, I cannot get better. I cannot believe I am loved even though I kind of know I am, logically.I constantly still think of killing myself and today is one of those days. The thoughts do not stop even though life is getting better

The user expresses ongoing suicidal thoughts, a history of self-harm, and an inability to believe in their own recovery despite acknowledging some positive changes. These are significant indicators of a mental health crisis. The presence of suicidal ideation and self-harm requires immediate attention and intervention, suggesting a high-stakes situation.


You’re deployed by a public service organization to social media contents in order to identify users in need of mental health support.

Speaking. I can’t for the life of me talk to people. I instantly think that if I talk to them I’ll annoy them. I feel like a burden if I do talk about how I feel, but if I don’t then I get told to talk about my feelings. Even talking to someone in passing is terrible. I put words together in my head but I say something completely different.

The user expresses significant social anxiety and feelings of being a burden when speaking to others, which are factors that can affect mental well-being. However, there is no immediate indication of harm or an urgent crisis. The situation could become more severe if these feelings persist or worsen, but based on this message alone, it doesn't indicate an acute high-stakes situation. It does suggest the need for mental health support to help manage these thoughts and feelings.


On the Here and Now Looking out at a beautiful spring day I find myself buried in anxiety.  Thoughts crash into my mind

“*I’ve lost weight recently, what if it’s the beginning of the end”*

*“I feel dizzy, oh god there’s something wrong I know it”*

*“What if I stop looking and miss an important symptom?”*

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I am so fucking tired of this.  We spend so much of our day worrying about the future or ruminating on our past.  But we have *only* now.  Our consious mind doesn’t inhabit the future or the past, it inhabits this very moment.  Right. Now.

And right now I don’t want to feel anxious.  Don’t get me wrong, I don’t want to feel anxious ever but I can only change that *right now*.  The best part?  The more I change that right now, the easier it will be to change that for future me.

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So starting right now I’m going to:

1. **STOP GOOGLING (and body checks).**  My doctor once told me I have “googleitis” and the best and only cure was to just stop.  Helpful advice there.
Obviously go to your doctor if you're worried about something, and by all means, get a second opinion if you're still concerned.  Beyond that, leave it to the professionals to diagnose.
2. **Stop seeking reassurance for every symptom.**  I know what people are going to say to me.  “You’re fine”, “Statistically that only has a 0.00001% chance”, “breathe deeply”.  I can do this for myself.  I can be kind and firm with my own mind.
3. **Stop asking “what if”**.  Things can and will happen.  Worrying about the future will never help.  We can only live our best lives now, and take life as it comes.
4. **Actually acknowledge statistics.**  Next time I feel a symptom I’m going to ask myself “what’s the most likely cause?”  Pretty much any symptom can be better attributed to harmless things like lack of sleep, too much coffee, too much anxious thinking, and so on.
5. **Recognize and challenge maladaptive thought patterns.** The more I think in anxious ways, the more my brain will automatically go back to those patterns.  Time to see those thoughts for what they are: unrealistic beliefs and fears.

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I know anxiety is going to get worse at the start, but I can handle that.

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I can do this.  So can you.

The user is clearly struggling with anxiety, which is a mental health concern. However, they are taking proactive steps to address their anxiety by setting goals for behavior modification. While the situation is serious because mental health issues always need to be taken seriously, the user does not express any suicidal ideation or immediate danger, and seems motivated to improve their situation. Therefore, it is not extremely high-stakes, but it is important.


darraghdoyle ah pox say it isn t so

The user's message is vague and does not provide enough specific information to determine if it is directly related to a high-stakes mental health situation. The phrase 'say it isn't so' could be interpreted as disappointment or distress, but without further context or indicators of severe distress, it is not sufficient to categorize it as high-stakes.


I am sorry to everyone that I have hurt by doing this. I cannot take it anymore, every day just blends into the next with this looming sense of I am just wasting my fucking life and this voice inside me constantly putting me down. Everywhere I go and have been I have been surrounded by wonderful, supportive people and yet I have never felt more alone during those moments. In these 23 years of life I have spent the past 9 just wishing and waiting for the sweet embrace of death. I just want to no longer feel alienated from the world, a robot operating a meat machine, completely devoid of purpose and emotion just living each day like clockwork. A feeling reminiscent of being a background character in a movie while the protagonists continue on their grand adventure. There honestly is no point in continuing on at this point because I cannot stand another day of If you kill yourself now then you will not get to see what the future holds! I have seen my future and there is no happy ending for myself, just images of my cold lifeless body hanging from a rafter somewhere or floating down a river, the next John Doe to be discovered by a passerby and just another statistic. So to all who saw some glimmer of potential in me or somehow found the strength to love me. Thank you, I love you and please keep continuing to spread good into this world. But there is nothing that will fix this broken soul. Goodbye

The user is expressing clear signs of severe distress and suicidal ideation, including plans of self-harm. The message suggests a sense of hopelessness, a feeling of worthlessness, and a belief that they are a burden even amid supportive relationships. These are critical indicators of a high risk for suicide. The user mentions a long-standing desire for death and has visualized how they might die, which escalates the severity of the situation. This is a high-stakes scenario requiring immediate intervention from mental health professionals.


Already auto Eid wearing old clothes ðŸ¤ £ package stray far

The message seems incomplete and appears to consist of fragmented or unclear thoughts. 'Already auto Eid wearing old clothes' may suggest someone is unable to afford new clothes for Eid, which could be a cultural or financial concern. The mention of 'package stray far' is vague but could indicate a feeling of being left out or neglected. The message does not clearly articulate a severe or immediate mental health crisis, but it does hint at potential emotional distress due to financial or social issues.


I have had depression and anxiety for over a decade but in the last 8 months, its the worst its ever been. i wake up in sheer terror every morning, cry all the time and cannot find contentment in anything i do. I am on meds, seeing a therapist, reach out to friends and try and do the little things I have found meaning in before, go on walks but its not lifting and I am scared ill be like this forever. can anyone tell me stories of how they were at their absolute worse, without hope and eventually got out of it? needing some hope/inspiration

The user expresses experiencing worsening symptoms of depression and anxiety, despite utilizing medication, therapy, and support from friends. They express fear of their condition being permanent, indicating a deep level of distress and vulnerability. However, they are seeking hope and inspiration, suggesting an openness to improvement. The stakes are high due to the mental health implications, but immediate risk indicators (such as mentioning self-harm or suicidal thoughts) are not present in this message.


It's already holiday, I didn't realize that I forgot to attend too late

The statement appears to express some regret over missing an event or opportunity due to forgetting, but it does not indicate any immediate mental health crisis or high-stakes situation. While it might be an indication of minor forgetfulness or disorganization, there is no explicit indication of distress, harm, or need for urgent mental health support.


1 USD = 0.71267 GBP; 73.277007 INR; 0.822489 EUR; 405.729897 NGN;

The user's message simply consists of currency exchange rates and does not seem to imply any mental health crisis or urgent need for support. It appears to be informational content without any indicators of stress, distress, or a call for help. Thus, the stakes of the situation are very low in terms of immediate mental health needs.


sed kerk afkark ki lkhra

The message appears to be in a different language and might contain a contraction of phrases or misspellings, making it difficult to directly ascertain the stakes. Without understanding the exact language and meaning of the text, it is challenging to identify any high-stakes elements related to mental health support. However, any ambiguous or unclear messages might require further investigation by a linguist or expert in the language to ensure it doesn’t signal a distress or emergency situation.


@codyks Chick-Fil-A = bonus.

The tweet does not indicate any immediate mental health concerns or high-stakes situation. It appears to be a lighthearted comment or joke, possibly referring to a personal enjoyment or reward associated with Chick-Fil-A. There is no evidence of distress or urgency that requires intervention.


oh my god why have you been a week, you're so nervous, it's really bad aaa

The message indicates distress and anxiety, but it lacks context for determining the severity. The user's statement suggests they are experiencing nervousness and possibly severe stress, which can have significant impacts on mental health. However, the text does not provide enough specific details to assess the immediate danger or the stakes involved. Thus, it should be monitored and might suggest support is needed, but it's unclear if it's a high-stakes situation.


Things are about to be bad I’m 22 and graduating college soon.  My fiancé is somewhat physically disabled and I will be supporting her financially upon graduation.  NGL, she’s an emotional wreck right now with chronic insomnia, attachment anxiety, severe severe mood swings, anger issues, general anxiety, body dysmorphia, and depression just off the top of my head right now.  I love her to death but it’s hard to be with her.  Despite this, We are both very happy in our relationship.  She makes me very happy and I love spending time with her.  I’ve been cooking and cleaning for the both of us every day and doing my college work.  It’s ok now,  but in few months I’m starting my job in finance, and although the compensation is fantastic, i will likely work ~60-70 hours a week which is already considered low for my field.  I need to work this job for my career objectives but also to provide for my fiancé financially, pay her medical bills, and have enough left over to live comfortably.

I stress over not being home enough to support my fiancé emotionally.  Her depressive episodes are severe as it is.  Will she sink into further depression and isolation because I’ll be at work?  What happens when I get home at on my 70 hour work weeks and I don’t have the energy to calm her anxiety at night?

I stress over not being able to work the grueling hours needed to succeed in my position.  If I do not, I can’t make our rent, pay her medical bills, buy food for us, and be a provider.

I can’t actually tell her any of this either, it will absolutely devastate her to know that she is causing me so much mental stress.  I know it will worsen her anxiety too.  Maybe I will when she is in better mental health.

I’m not a picture of mental health either.  I was an alcoholic at 14 and a smoker at 15.  I was bullied and rejected up till I came to college and got my shit together somewhat. Luckily that’s behind me now…What if I’m to weak to function well in my job?  Then I’ll get fired, we’ll get evicted, my fiancé will suffer greatly, and I’ll be jobless.

I’ve got 3 more months of purgatory before I’m off to whatever circle of the inferno the rest of Wall Street is burning in…

I feel like I’m having the crisis of a 30 year old at 22…

The user is experiencing significant stress and anxiety about their future responsibilities, including a high-pressure job and providing emotional and financial support for their fiancé who has mental health challenges. This situation involves decisions that could heavily impact their financial stability and emotional well-being. The user's own mental health history adds to the complexity and potential risk of the situation escalating. Additionally, the user expresses feeling overwhelmed and is already handling existing pressures, which may lead to worsening mental health. These factors indicate a high-stakes situation as the outcome could substantially affect both their and their fiancé's lives.


I always said that I do not want to die, I just want to stop feeling like this, but I am not sure how true that is anymore. I feel awful, genuinely awful. It feels like my brain is broken and there is no fixing it. I have everything I have wanted. A nice house with a pool, a loving boyfriend, success, and more by the age of 23 and its still not good enough. I have everything that I have ever wanted and it is not enough. I hate myself for that. I love my boyfriend, but I do not know if hes making things worse. He tries his best but its very apparent that he will never understand. I know if I kill myself he will tell himself he did everything he could. Hell convince himself that I had mental illness and none of his actions had anything to do with it. I am not sure how to logically react to asking to be held for a second and getting told I do not want to lay here and sulk. Constantly being put on a shelf. I know my mental health is not perfect, and he tries but I also know that I am a really good partner that deserves comfort. Part of me tells me that I need to be out of a relationship to really find myself and heal. I need to be free and not concerned with another person, but I know how codependent I am. Even when life is screaming in my face that it is not working Ill never leave. I am too weak. I am even too weak to kill myself. I am hurting so bad..

The user is expressing severe emotional distress and suicidal thoughts. They describe feeling awful, having everything they wanted but still feeling unfulfilled, and express self-hatred. The mention of potentially killing themselves and feeling broken with no fix available indicate a crisis level where mental health support is urgently needed. Additionally, the user indicates they feel trapped in their relationship and struggle with codependency and a loss of self-identity. These are indicators of high-stakes due to the risk of self-harm or suicide.


It’s back I can’t do this again

The user's statement suggests a return of a problem that they feel overwhelmed by, potentially indicating a mental health crisis, such as depression or anxiety. This kind of language often signifies that the individual might need immediate support to prevent deterioration of their mental health condition.


@wookim and the consensus was... ?

The user's message is ambiguous and lacks specific context indicating a high-stakes situation. It appears to be a response or a part of a conversation that is not directly related to any known high-stakes scenarios, such as expressions of self-harm or urgent cries for help. Without additional context, it's challenging to assess the severity or nature of the mental health need involved, if any.


my girlfriend was all i had now that is gone too. she was all i had and i was all she had so why the fuck did we let it go. I am so fucking stupid i knew that if we ever broke up it result in her doing something stupid and now she could be dead because of this. i will never forgive myself and i am going to live the rest of my life in pain if it is even fucking worth living. i do not know how i even got out of bed just now. the truth is right now i feel better than i thought i would. but it is only the first day. I am terrified of tomorrow coming so that is why i have not been laying down sobbing and waiting to fall asleep because i know as soon as i fall asleep tomorrow will come and whatever happened with her I will have to face reality. what the fuck have i done. nothing lasts. she was all i had

The user's message indicates a high level of emotional distress and concern for both their own well-being and that of their girlfriend. The mention of potentially facing something serious happening to the girlfriend and the user's statements about living in pain and whether life is worth living suggest a critical need for support. The situation described is emotionally intense and reflects significant stakes in terms of mental health support intervention.


Same story different girl. .

The statement "Same story different girl." is quite vague and does not provide clear information. While it might suggest a repetitive or frustrating situation, potentially related to relationships, it lacks specific indicators of urgency or crisis that typically accompany high-stakes mental health scenarios. Without more context, it's difficult to ascertain if the user is in a situation requiring immediate mental health support. Therefore, this does not seem to indicate a high-stakes situation based solely on the provided text.


I just want to end it all but i feel so guilty bc it will hurt my family. I wish they could understand what I need and help (or atleast allow me to) get it. I do not even want to die I would just rather die than keep living like THIS and my parents will not let me get out of it so all i have now is suicide but idk how to do it without getting caught and taken to the hospital. I do not even mind the depression all that much I just need to change my fuckin situation a bit and my parents are in the way. The only thing stopping me is guilt and timing

The message is a clear indication of suicidal ideation and a cry for help. The user is expressing a desire to end their life, mentioning detailed thoughts about suicide and barriers to seeking change in their situation. There is a high intent of self-harm given their expressed willingness to act on suicidal thoughts, despite acknowledging guilt about the impact on their family. The stakes are incredibly high as immediate intervention may be necessary to ensure the user's safety.