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Just as the the title says. I feel like one is hyper alot, a attention whore, and is idealistic and stupid. and the other is calm, trys to be normal, is a realist, and wants to kill the other one, witch is why I somtimes choke myself, usually for at most 30 seconds at a time just so the other can stop controlling me and make me look like an idiot. And I am not insane, its not like there telling me to hurt others, So can some please tell me, is this normal? Am I depressed? Or is it some other mental disease. Thanks I feel like there is 2 of me and one of them hates the other

The user's message describes an internal struggle with conflicting identities and mentions self-harming behavior (choking), which is concerning. The expression of these thoughts could indicate a mental health issue such as dissociation or a personality disorder. The questioning of whether this is depression or another mental health concern, along with the self-harm behavior, suggests that there could be significant mental health risks involved. The user's situation appears to require immediate attention from mental health professionals.

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a blackened sky encroached tugging behind it my depression

The user expresses a metaphorical description involving a 'blackened sky' and 'depression,' suggesting a possible need for mental health support. While the user does not explicitly mention self-harm or an immediate crisis, the language indicates a significant level of distress. Therefore, the situation is relatively high-stakes as it could indicate underlying mental health issues that require attention.


It gives you insomnia, which in turn makes your depression worse during the day, which messes up your sleep even more, which gives you anxiety. It just feels impossible to function. what is even worse is when I cannot sleep, my symptoms of my ocd and anxiety are just 50x worse. It feels impossible to escape depressuon

The user is experiencing a cycle of insomnia, depression, anxiety, and exacerbated OCD symptoms, all of which are significantly impairing their ability to function. This situation indicates a severe impact on their mental health and daily life, thus making it a high-stakes situation requiring attention from mental health professionals.


Hello all, I'm a new submitter to this channel. I went here a few nights ago and honestly it's been helping me cope with my current situation by reading what others are going through. One of the things I noticed is that a lot of responses are brutally honest -- and I am here for just that while still accepting that I'm a hopeless romantic who sees the value in "If you really want it don't give up". Let's get started -

The user seems to be expressing emotional vulnerability and seeking advice or support, but there is no immediate sign of crisis or urgent need for intervention. The tone is hopeful and engaged, mentioning that they have found some help in reading others' experiences. While they acknowledge feeling like a 'hopeless romantic', they appear to have a positive outlook by seeking honesty and showing resilience. Therefore, this doesn't seem like a high-stakes situation requiring urgent mental health support.


Thank God the CB is over for Eid

The user's message indicates relief that a 'CB' (which might stand for something like 'circuit breaker' or 'curfew ban') is over for Eid, which is a festive time. This suggests they were likely experiencing inconvenience or disruption to normal activities rather than a serious personal crisis. There is no indication of mental health distress in this message; it expresses relief and possibly joy or anticipation for the celebration.


I am so tired at work, struggling to stay awake. So so so so so tired in the morning and thoughout the day. Exhausted. Tried taking naps at lunch break but my coworkers make a game of scaring me awake (at my desk or in my car, it is just a matter of "when" I will get brutally terrified awake) I will get home at 5ish/6pm and then begins a fight to stay awake. 8oclock I get a SERIOUS need to sleep. I look outside and see it is still light out and know I am doomed.I am SO tired when I am not supposed to be. All I want to do is sleep. But it I go to sleep too early I am doomed. Lay awake in bed, wide the fuck awake for hours and hours. Found that if I can force myself to be awake until 11-12 or so I can get a mostly consistent night sleep. But doing so I am still just as tired the next day as if I go to sleep a few hours earlier. Tldr- If I go to sleep when I am tired (at home) I will wake up in the middle of the night and it is a struggle to get back to sleep. If I go to sleep later in the night then I am extra beyond tired, I will still wake up covered in sweat but I have better luck of getting back to sleep. Sleeping out of normal?

The situation described involves significant exhaustion and challenges with sleep, both of which can impact daily functioning and mental health. The individual is experiencing persistent tiredness, disrupted sleep patterns, and anxiety about their coworkers' pranks, which add stress. Although the immediate stakes aren't life-threatening, prolonged issues like these can contribute to more severe mental health difficulties if not addressed. Thus, the situation warrants attention, but it does not yet seem extremely urgent or high-stakes.


1) In 2011 my best friend passed away in a bike accident at that time my age was around 15.That incident really affected my mental health badly and now still after 10 years i am really depressed about that thing.2) I wanted to become a Professional Football Player but tbh i never gave my 100% and after my friends death i started to stay at home and made my house comfort zone.Lost contact with all my friends and with the girl i loved(My First Love)3) Talking about my First Love i first saw her in 2005 and i had little bit of family drama with her family also where her parents came to know about the thing i liked/loved there daughter.Her Mother was nice and just because i was a kid my age was probably 11-12 she said this is not the age to do love and these kind of things there is proper age for these kind of things.I apologized to my crush on fb and she did forgive me.After almost 1-2 years we became friends but there was a problem my one frnd was now her bf and they both were in a relationship.At that time i accepted the fact that with my crush the only relationship i am going to have is of friendship and nothing else.But somewhere deep inside i felt when we became friends and got to know each other personally she liked me but was waiting for me to make a move.4) In April 2021 while having a chat with my friend i get to know my First Love/Crush got pregnant and had done abortion recently.That news really fucked my mind up,i feel really bad for her bcoz her behaviour towards me was very nice she did forgive me and when i made the move for friendship she accepted me without any hesitation.5) I have health issues(Asthma and Diabetes) and my doctor has recommended to start exercising.Having Asthma was one of the reason why i gave up on my dream of becoming Professional Football Player.6) I have been having suicidal thoughts from past 2 years but now i feel universe is trying to help me in achieving my goals and trying to help me in my love life by giving news of First Love being Pregnant and Abortion.Doctor advising to start exercising i can take these things as positives and work on building and achieving my dream of being Professional Football Player i know it is bit late in terms of age for starting a career in sports but i want to give atleast one try for the things which i loved and that is Football and my First Love.I do not want die having regrets.7) there is a huge 10 year communication gap between me and my First Love because after 2011 after my best friend's death i made my home comfort zone.I have cried after hearing the news of her Pregnancy and Abortion i just want to talk with her and see her.I am not in a hurry of becoming her bf first i want heal/help her mental health/career wise.I want to marry her.But because we have huge communication gap i fear does she remember me.8) I have planned few things to make her remember times of us being friends and tell her my love feelings through it (Like for eg:- About the day when i saw her for the very first time) editing pictures(Written in story format and cartoon) and video edit (Stop Motion Video).But first i am going to try and build a bond with her like we had 10 years ago and i have plans to help her by giving her tips for growing her business and then i am going to express my love feelings towards her tbh from last 15 years she knows that i love her it is just i have never confessed my love to her face to face.( Please do not tag me as a creepy guy i have written everything what i really feel) ( Big Sorry for my Bad English i tried my best any Advice would be welcomed ) Life is trying to give me a second chance.Should I try my luck ? (Thanks In Advance)

The user is experiencing significant mental health challenges, including long-term depression, suicidal thoughts, and health issues. The loss of a friend during adolescence, unfulfilled dreams, and complex emotions regarding a past relationship contribute to the user's distress. There is potential risk due to the mention of past suicidal thoughts, despite the user's recent optimistic outlook and plans for self-improvement and reconnecting with an old love interest. This constitutes a high-stakes situation as the user's well-being and mental health are at risk, and professional mental health support is likely needed.


is it easy to learn?

The user's question about the ease of learning doesn't directly indicate a high-stakes situation by itself. It lacks details on the context of what needs to be learned. However, if the learning pertains to something critical to their well-being or essential function, such as mental health strategies, it could potentially be more significant. Without further context, this query doesn't inherently convey a high-stakes scenario about the user's current mental state or immediate needs.


That one time i thought i was dying This one is a funny story, one time in the morning I went to the toilet while I was half asleep. So I did my business and I always checked my pee so when I looked into the toilet the liquid was blue and I was like "okay, h*ly shit, I've never seen anything like this before, I am dying" so I called my mom and I was like "mother, my pee is blue, we need to go to the hospital." Anyways, turns out it was just one of those toilet blue water thingies that they installed while I was asleep. At least now I can laugh about it.
(My apologies if my English isn't that good)

The user's story, although initially concerning, is shared as a humorous anecdote about a misunderstanding involving a common household item (a toilet bowl cleaner). The user expresses the ability to laugh about the incident now, indicating it is not currently causing distress or requiring mental health support.


I do not want to move. I have moved a total of 8 times and I am 17. My parents after only being a year here want to move to a mobile home, now that would be my 9th move. Not to count the year I spent living in Mexico. I am not a military kid, its just my family has experienced financial highs and lows. I know I have to move but I do not want to. When our last move came down to three houses I told my parents I wanted this one, as I envisioned it to be my home. A place where I know Ill always have, a place I can always come back to. I know Ill leave for college soon anyways but I do not want to leave after only a year, I wanted this house to be different. You promised me this was it

The user's message expresses strong feelings of frustration and disappointment about being frequently relocated due to their family's financial situation. While these feelings are significant, they reflect a common experience for many young people whose families face similar circumstances. The stakes are related to emotional stress and a lack of stability, which are important but do not imply immediate danger or a severe crisis. However, these feelings can contribute to mental health struggles if not addressed through support and understanding from family or mental health professionals.


so i m sure all of you who live with anxiety do have your good day like the bad crippling anxiety come in wave which it doe for me when it s bad my anxiety is looking for any reason to latch it s self onto and make me believe that whatever the reason is that s what make me feel like shit when i have my good day and that thought or issue come to mind i m unfazed it s really fuckn annoying and i feel like it could make me make decision that i will for sure regret why is the brain so damn powerful and why do i have to live with this year of always feeling like shit it ha ruined my quality of life i am very grateful for my family and friend and i am grateful that i ve always had a good life but man i think of all the family trip event party anything fun ruined by my anxiety and sickness that come with it i feel for everyone that ha to go through this i m sorry guy and i hope one day we can be truly happy

The user's message indicates a struggle with anxiety that significantly impacts their quality of life and decision-making. There is no immediate mention of suicidal thoughts or actions, but the distress expressed is serious. The user is reflecting on how their condition affects their enjoyment of life and acknowledges regret over potential decisions. Given these factors, offering mental health support is important, but the situation does not convey an immediate crisis requiring intervention.


I am tired. First off all I am not a danger to myself or anyone else. Not that I believe anyone would really care. I have been down that road once and I know it is not the answer. As far as people caring, they would only care because if something happened to me they are worried about how they would be judged. I am in therapy and I take my meds everyday and things have reached a stalemate. it is like I am stuck in 1st gear. At least I cannot reverse, but I cannot gain any speed either. I had my second back surgery last year and I gained some strength back, but I have been in a lot of pain since. I am essentially a diabetic, I have high blood pressure, I need to lose a few pounds... but what is the point? I have been denied for disability twice already. They tell me I can go back to work. I walk with a cane, I have digestive issues, my social anxiety limits my interaction with people. I have asked for help and it keeps getting turned back on me. That I need to do more for myself. I have an exercise bike, but I am not allowed to set it up anywhere. So it is just sitting in a box. I cannot even walk across the street to the mailbox without being in excruciating pain and completely out of breath. I mean out of breath to the point that I am afraid of passing out every time I have to do something. I was told I could go to the gym, but I cannot. that is why I got my recumbent bike. All I want is a dog. A big goofy dog that will crawl up beside me and fall asleep. Maybe then I could fall asleep and not have to worry about my dreams. Dreams that always have me trapped with no way out until I wake up. Maybe if I felt safe I would not dream those dreams. I am forty years old and I do not have any control over my own life. I am waiting. Waiting on my doctor's visits to be approved. Waiting on someone to help me get there. Waiting to tell my therapist everything that is happened since the last time we talked. I cannot do this much longer because I am weak. My body is literally weak. My heart is skipping beats again. I am sleepy and I just woke up from a for hour nap. My whole body is aching and I think I am getting a headache. I am just lost right now. I think knowing that no one cares is scarier than feeling like my body is giving out on me. I hate being alone. I am just waiting...

The user expresses feelings of frustration, hopelessness, and a range of physical and mental health challenges, indicating a complex and distressing situation. While the user states that they are not a danger to themselves or others, they are experiencing significant pain, both physically and emotionally, have been denied disability benefits, and are struggling with their health conditions that impact their daily life. These factors significantly affect their quality of life and indicate a need for support. However, since the user states they are in therapy and taking medication, they appear to be managing with professional support, albeit with difficulties.


My name is Rachel Reagon. I am 24 years old and I come from South Africa. I am finally going to kill myself tomorrow. it is going to break my mother's heart and because so many problems in my family but it is gotten to the point where even that is not enough to keep me here. The last time I tried I did not really want to die, it was more a cry for help then anything else. I wanted to be committed. I thought there I would find a measure of peace. That they would pump me full of drugs and I would be left alone to lay in bed for rest of the day, that I could finally rest and get a break from my responsibilities. But it was an awful experience and I could not wait to leave, so I lied about feeling better and they let me out. That was about four years ago, and things have only gotten worse. I do not have the energy to go on living, and I do not even have the words to describe what I am feeling. I am just tired. The things that I used to love mean nothing to me anymore and everything I do is a chore. So this is the end for me. No more

Rachel has explicitly stated an intention to end her life, which immediately elevates the situation to high-stakes. This is compounded by her reflection on a previous suicide attempt and ongoing mental health struggles. Her mention of her mother's emotional reaction and family problems indicates the seriousness of her distress and the urgency for intervention. Given the explicit risk of suicide, this situation demands immediate attention and is considered extremely high-stakes.


DISAPPEARING WHEN YOU WAKE UP BUT THERES NOTHING TO BE AFRAID OF EVEN WHEN THE NIGHT CHANGES IT WILL NEVER CHANGE ME AND YOU

The message doesn't explicitly indicate a situation that involves immediate danger or specific distress. It seems more poetic or lyrical in nature, with phrases about change and identity, which might not necessarily indicate a mental health crisis. However, it does express a sort of emotional vulnerability or contemplation. In these cases, it’s crucial to consider the context and previous posts if available, which might provide more insight into the user’s emotional state.


Hello everyone! I just want to put a disclaimer that I am poor right now and I cannot afford therapy or even just the medicine alone.I grew out of wedlock and after a year of marriage, they had annulled their marriage because divorce is impossible here. I am barely hanging on a thread right now despite being currently semi-stable. So, I grew up to be extremely neglected by my parents, having no emotional support and it was really tough because I could not cry in front of my mom as it was considered weak. I would like to say that we are decently close because I came out as gay to her and my family included, but she is not really the type to give any emotional affection especially now that I am older. I have not heard any *I love you*s from both of my parents and they cannot tell me directly how they are feeling and that I have the same situation. We do not communicate at all and I am already 18 so I do not absolutely know what it is like to be loved through affirmations and physical affection. Currently, both of them have their own separate families and I am staying with my mom, but of course, I am living near poverty. It sucks because I have not really felt what family is nor do I feel belonged because most of the time it is forced interactions. My father messaged me that he was sorry, but he is not really because he just happened to know what was happening to me. If he was sorry, then he would have been at the start. there is too many information I could say, but know that I was emotionally neglected by both of my parents because they were too busy, too selfish, and too complacent.Anyway, I just wanted to know if it is normal to feel and say to myself these words while growing up: **I want to die**? It probably started on elementary when I was constantly bullied both physically and emotionally by my classmates and I remember trying to open up to my mother. I downplayed every problem I faced to my mom because she would often say how she is filled with problems, so naturally I had to talk to her in a non-worrying and non-stressful manner. She said to just be strong and fight back, and I did. For many years, I pointed a knife on my chest and wanted to stab myself with it many times at that age. But, I eventually moved on from that because I stood up for myself. It did lessen, but to my female classmate, it got worse.Moving on to 7th grade, I transferred and of course I was again on the center of ridicule with somehow showcasing slightly feminine behaviors. It was stupid, but I was made fun of, though I ignored it because I was better than them. I was intelligent; I was better than most of the kids at my age, however, I knew that I was going to be ridiculed always and such thoughts came back.Moving on to 8th grade where I transferred again because we moved places again, I was in a new environment. A more competitive environment whose friend groups and cliques have already formed and stabilized. I was basically an outcast in a block section of 40 students. I was terrified of crowds, I would often get nervous when conversing to other people, but that was fixed by myself when I joined ROTC for high school. Anyway, with me being an outcast and people avoiding me because they already have their own friends and also me having a quirky personality, I often spent my time alone or trying my best to sit with others. Since, I felt so deprived of friendship and bonds, I subconsciously wrote "I want to die" again in a piece of paper because that is what I felt and I never talked about it to my mother, even up until now.9th grade came and I was raped by my uncle. I was scared and scarred, mainly because I thought I was going to contract any virus. I attempted to ask help from my mom, but I downplayed it again to just a dream and mentioned it was vague. I was afraid of putting someone in jail, afraid of what others will think of me, and afraid of what will happen in the future. Up to this day, I am still frightened by the thought and image of him, but I already have moved on from the nightmare. I cried many nights because I still did not have any close friends and I was always called weird. 10th grade was a bit better and more tolerable and I ranked 2nd on the whole batch. This was the time, before I transferred again to 11th grade, I hooked up with someone from Grindr. It was mainly a one-time thing, but then when I reached 11th grade and moved to a more-populated area, I found myself using that app many times to seek comfort, connections, and distractions to my problems. This was the time I recognized my mental health was worsening even more. I attempted to jump off a building twice, but failed. First was I talked myself out of it and the second was I slipped backwards and broke down. Or so I like to tell myself. I made those two scenarios up because that would at least have a more viable scenario for my situation. Truth is, I am scared of pain and being shouted to at. I fear being left out when people come in my life. It is what it is, but I am damaged. I mentioned to my mom I was suicidal, but she also said that she is suicidal and I should deal with my thing.12th grade and graduation came and until now, I realized a lot of things. I know who to blame for damaging and scarring me and I have been trying my best to cope. Again, there were so many scares that I dealt with HIV-scare (I am negative), but when you gain enlightenment, it is just dragging you even more down to the abyss. All the nights I cried and had panic attacks, all the unnecessary self-hate by hooking up and trying to OD myself, and all the negative suicidal thoughts in my head right now are all present in my head clashing.Right now, death is the closest comfort I have because I cannot handle these emotions and thoughts anymore. I feel suffocated, trapped in my own hell. I do not want to be abandoned; I want to be loved and to be hugged, and be said that I matter to the people I care and think about. I think I might just take my life sooner or later. I made a promise to myself to kill myself in two years if I do not find a constant source of happiness and I feel as if things are being faster and now I just want to remove the mountain on my back and finally feel peace through death. I just want to be loved, but it seems comfort and eternal peace is my only option right now. I do not want to be invalidated that those are not my options because (1) I am poor, (2) my parents and I do not communicate about our feelings and experiences, and (3) death is a permanent solution to my permanent problems. I have been suicidal since I was really young

The user describes a long history of emotional neglect, bullying, and trauma, including rape and suicide attempts. They express current suicidal ideation and a feeling of being trapped, with a planned timeline for taking their life if things don't improve. They also indicate a lack of support from family and financial means to seek therapy. These factors indicate a critical need for immediate mental health intervention.


it's clear who y thr is dedicated to

The statement 'it's clear who y thr is dedicated to' is very vague and lacks context. It doesn't provide any information about the user's mental state or suggest a need for immediate mental health support. It could refer to anything—from a positive dedication of a song to someone to a neutral or completely unrelated context. Without more context or indicators of distress, it's difficult to assess the stakes involved accurately.


It's annoying, the pen spit it out

The statement 'It's annoying, the pen spit it out' appears to be about a minor inconvenience involving a pen malfunctioning. This phrase lacks any indication of serious distress, urgency, or potential harm to the user’s mental health. Thus, it doesn't seem to indicate a high-stakes situation or need for immediate mental health support.


I feel so hopeless and like a failureI do not know how to put this eloquently so I am just going to say it. This past year I applied to medical school (several different ones) and I got one interview which turned into a waitlist which I am still on. I feel like literally such a failure and I am burnt out and exhausted because I feel like I have worked so hard for four years just for my dreams that I have had for so long to be crushed. Sure I did not have the best grades or best MCAT score but it felt like it should have been enough. Now I am reapplying and I am just so burnt out I cannot even bring myself to work on the application because I feel like I have some sort of PTSD like thing? That just paralyzes me and prevents me from doing anything at all. I am also looking for a job to do for my gap year and it feels hopeless because I have not heard back from anywhere at all. I just feel so sad and hopeless and depressed I do not know what to do. I just recently graduated college and I just feel so lost and I do not know what comes next. I feel like I have nothing going for me and I am scared to even reapply for med school because I do not know if its going to amount to anything I am tired of disappointment

The user expresses a profound sense of hopelessness and failure, which can indicate a potential risk for mental health crises, such as depression or anxiety. The user mentions feeling exhausted, paralyzed by fear (akin to PTSD), overwhelmed, and burnt out, and they have a continuous cycle of negative thoughts. These are significant concerns, especially given the importance of timely mental health support to prevent worsening conditions. While the user's situation of not getting into medical school is not life-threatening, the mental health implications and the user's feelings of hopelessness make it moderately high-stakes. Thus, it's essential to consider proactive support and intervention to help the user manage these feelings and develop coping mechanisms.


Never Going Home So I have this thing, I don’t go home all day. Once I wake up and get ready for the day I leave and go to my moms. If she has something to do I’ll go visit my aunt. If she has something to do I’ll go visit a friend, so on and so forth. It is an avoidant tactic so I don’t have to take care of things (cleaning, responding to mail, etc.) I also know I do this because I don’t want to be alone with my thoughts, or make a poor decision, like spending money or killing myself.

As I’m typing this it seems like a healthy coping mechanism, but it drives me absolutely mad that I can’t just take care of my shit.

Does anyone else do this? If so, does it bother you/how do you deal with it?

The user is expressing a behavior that is driven by a need to avoid potentially harmful thoughts and actions, including the mention of suicidal thoughts. This indicates a significant level of distress and potential risk to their mental health, making this a high-stakes situation.


cinoshikacho j assumerai pa moi c s r la derni re fois j ai fait une d pression post concert

The user is expressing feelings of depression, potentially linked to a specific event (a concert). This indicates emotional distress that could benefit from mental health support. However, the language is not explicitly indicative of an immediate risk to life, such as suicidal ideation, which would make this a higher-stakes situation. Therefore, the situation is concerning and warrants follow-up but not necessarily an emergency response.


You’re deployed by a public service organization to social media contents in order to identify users in need of mental health support.

i think it's the ice cream.

The statement 'i think it's the ice cream' is vague and lacks context related to mental health or high-stakes situations. It could be a benign remark about a preference or an innocuous observation, without any indication of distress or urgent need for support.


Life sure is a bitch when you are short and ugly. Nobody truly gives a shit about you or takes you serious until you do something drastic or outrageous. Short, ugly, weird, I have gotten it all. You have to online date because you look better on the internet than irl. And you have to lie about your height to get that love. I cannot help but wonder why the fuck is this my life. Why not anybody else. does not seem fair to me. Its like i was born to be hated. When I am gone i will not have to go through it anymore though. Life

The user's message expresses significant emotional distress and suggests feelings of worthlessness and frustration with their appearance and social interactions. The mention of being 'gone' implies thoughts of self-harm or suicide, which elevates the situation to a high-stakes scenario. These expressions indicate a serious need for mental health support.


I am having a hard time with strangers, how they take their aggression out on me while posing as people who I should care about, and no one cares so its been many years of this, they do not even think twice and its so pathetic. So pathetic

The user is expressing feelings of frustration and being overwhelmed by how strangers treat them, highlighting a long-term struggle with a lack of support from others. While this post mentions distress, it doesn't include explicit mentions of self-harm, suicidal ideation, or an immediate crisis, which would indicate a very high-stakes situation. However, given the persistent nature of their feelings and the potential impact on the user's mental health, it is still important for them to receive support.


I consider myself emotionally and thus mentally weak. Despite financial success, having a few relationships in my life and other qualities that I do not know even count anymore, even with all the therapy in the world, I will never lose the fact that I am weak. I will ALWAYS have an emotional side that is a hair trigger away from engaging at any point in my life, high or low. Emotions, despite whatever women say are fucking kryptonite to women... Our world is so fucked and we are transforming it so that we cowtow to the less than 1%, inclusivity, equality, men are women and women are men but our biology IS our biology. Men are overwhelmingly attracted to women and vice versa and our biology dictates that no matter how much the powers are trying to fuck with the script, gender roles especially, of how we are to societally be or anecdotes that are raised, SECURITY is something that women will be exclusively disproportionate in needing. You cannot have security in a man that is depressed and is not ALWAYS the rock and could potentially break down at something like the irrational thought of his parents dying and not being around even when they are perfectly healthy.Depressed men = emotionally weak men = do not have a 100% ratio of being the rock, the security = that woman, if applicable, runs away to the candy store of infinite options of men, that will run to her with the snap of the finger and she knows this = man, not fulfilling his biological purpose of reproduction and being attractive to the opposite sex, gets severely depressed and either falls under the rug to remain invisible forever or goes into the dirt.We have to remember that men not being open about emotions, is more than likely it not being societally acceptible for him to do so, rather than it just being "Me man, me have no emotion. Me strong". He bottles it and suffers in silence and dies younger. Am I fooling myself in thinking that if I build on all other functions of my life that I will find a woman that will accept depression and weakness or am I doomed to repeat the same sick pattern of women sticking around for a few years and then eventually leaving... *Philosophic thoughts - OPINIONS NEEDED* Is there room for weak men?

The user expresses feelings of emotional and mental weakness, despite having some positive aspects in life like financial success and relationships. They discuss societal and biological roles and express concern about being able to find a lasting partner due to their perceived emotional weakness and depression. The user's rhetoric hints at a possible struggle with societal expectations and self-worth, which could indicate mental health distress. This scenario can be seen as high-stakes because the user is grappling with deep-seated beliefs about their self-worth and the potential impact on their relationships and happiness. Given the nature of the post-depression and the potential for it to escalate if not addressed—offering mental health support could be crucial.


I am feeling the lowest low I have felt in a while and I am seriously considering hurting myself for the first time in over a year and none of my friends are available because I have self-sabotaged all of my relationships in the past two weeks and I feel like my mind has been preparing this for me to finally kill myself. I have severe bpd with auditory hallucinations, ptsd, depression, anxiety, adhd, and a circadian rhythm sleeping disorder. I do not want to live like this anymore. An interesting title

The user is expressing a severe mental health crisis, possibly suicidal ideation. They mention serious conditions including severe BPD, auditory hallucinations, PTSD, depression, anxiety, ADHD, and a circadian rhythm sleep disorder. These are compounded by the feeling of having self-sabotaged relations and not currently having support from friends. The situation described shows a high risk to their well-being and calls for immediate mental health intervention.


Forgetting what i just did Does anybody else forget what he just did?

Like i forget if i just turned off the lights in another room even though I'm sure i did but i just can't remember it

Is it stress or something else?

The user expresses a common and relatively benign issue of occasionally forgetting small actions, which is often related to stress or distraction. This doesn't necessarily indicate a mental health crisis or a high-stakes situation. However, persistent memory issues might warrant seeking medical advice, but as presented, it's not a high-risk concern.


Lately life has been fading out like a watery blur.Complete let go, I have been through it so much times... No aspirations, lack of empathy, no more worries with the consequence of no joy. Dreary, watercolor days.It feels as though I am haunting myself, I see dishes put up neatly, the dust wiped off the fan, texts. I feel that was not me, I have been replaced with a soulless autopilot, they do things for me, because if they do not continue, I give up completely.I do not worry about any of these things anymore, I walk in a straight apathy line, doing things for no reason, but there is no reason to stop doing them, either. Watercolor days

The user is expressing deep feelings of apathy and detachment from life, describing themselves as being on 'autopilot' and feeling like their life is fading. These are suggestive of severe depression, and the mention of 'give up completely' could be indicative of suicidal ideation. Such expressions require immediate mental health support, as they might imply a severe mental health crisis or suicidal risk.


I have struggled with my mental health for so long but its starting to feel impossible. I am doing good in therapy, i just got accepted to a new collage, I am trying to get healthy. but it seems no matter what i do there is always a dark cloud following me, every night pushes me further and further and i do not know how far i can go anymore. like how am i supposed to not be hopeless when everything is going the best it has in ages and yet i still have this overwhelming urge for death. I am exhausted so exhausted. and this time i feel i cannot tell anybody because they see all the things going right and want to fix it but there is literally nothing to fix I am just a broken person and I am starting to feel there is no light at the end of the tunnel. i wish i could believe it but i do not. my life is the best it has been in years, yet i still want to die

The user is expressing a sense of hopelessness and a desire to die, despite acknowledging that their life has external improvements such as doing well in therapy and being accepted to a college. These are serious indicators of mental distress. The mention of a persistent urge for death suggests suicidal ideation, which makes this a high-stakes situation needing immediate mental health intervention.


Kisaki Tetta bastard

The phrase 'Kisaki Tetta bastard' is a derogatory comment likely directed at a fictional or real individual. It lacks any context suggesting a mental health crisis or an immediate high-stakes situation. It may reflect anger or frustration but does not necessarily indicate an urgent need for mental health support.


I meant that. Stop preventing me from doing this just so I can live in pain humiliation and torture. This week it ends. If not, hell on earth will continue to get even worse for me. And ok its all my fault then why not let me fix it for good. Me dying is a good thing not bad ok? Please. Something literally just healed me last night you felt like i had a heartattack. I am not going to allow that to keep happening. I refuse to stay here and i quit this body. If someone like me wants to die please do not stop me. You do not know what type of hell they are going through. do not assume.

The user expresses a clear intention to harm themselves and articulates a plan to 'end it this week.' Language indicating they want to 'fix it for good' and 'quit this body' strongly suggests suicidal ideation. They also mention a concerning health event ('felt like I had a heart attack') which adds urgency to the situation. The user is experiencing intense emotions, describing their life as 'pain, humiliation, and torture.' This context requires immediate intervention and is indicative of a high-stakes situation concerning mental health.


I started in the morning but now I take it from about 10-11 pm. My mom said this was I do not digest the pill before the day is over and get depressed or something along those lines. I usually stay up until about 1 keeping my mind busy so I am not laying there depressed until about the same time. I was prescribed trazedone to be used as needed but it makes me very moody and weepy so I do not use it. I know going to bed earlier would be ideal but that does not often happen for me (plus I am 17 so even though its not good to do, what are the odds of me actually going to bed on time?). I want to talk to my mom about taking them at a different time, and taking them myself. (All meds are locked up currently). I was home alone for 2 weeks and skipped them for like 5 days cuz sometimes i get depressed so its hard to get the motivation to get up to take them. I kept them by my bed which fixed that but did not tell my mom because I do not want her to worry about me stashing them or anything. Idk sorry this is kind of all over the place.. I take Prozac at bedtime could this be making me depressed at night?

The user is expressing concerning signs of depression and potential misuse of medication, such as skipping doses due to lack of motivation linked to depression, and having their medication locked up, which indicates a level of risk management by caregivers. They also mention experiencing side effects from medication and are contemplating altering the timing of their medication intake, which can affect their mental health. The user is 17, which adds another layer of concern since they may not fully understand the ramifications of medication non-compliance. They are seeking advice on medication management, which is crucial to their mental health. This situation reflects mental health needs that could potentially escalate without proper support.


Gastroparesis & Bipolar Antone have gastroparesis an bipolar what medications are you able to take without them getting you sick?

My psychiatrist wants me on lamotrigine  an remon known as mirtazapine.

He's only putting me on one antidepressant because of my lack of sleep at night . An that's my mania

The user is discussing their medical condition and ongoing treatment related to both gastroparesis and bipolar disorder. The situation involves managing medication for mental health conditions, which can have significant impacts on the user's well-being, especially given the complexity of handling these conditions together. It is crucial to ensure their treatment is effective and does not exacerbate their physical health conditions or trigger side effects. While it may not be as immediate as someone in crisis, it has a moderate level of stakes because improper medication can potentially result in serious health repercussions.


Found out I can press criminal charges against my childhood abuser: my mentally ill brother who attempted a school shooting I have a violet schizophrenic/autistic brother who SA me and almost killed me multiple times during rage or psychotic episodes.

During these episodes, he would get violet in public. In middle school he had attacked the school cop, grabbed his gun, and tried to shoot at students leaving a school assembly. Lucky, the cop arrested him. After that, rumors started about me. I had left school for a year to deal with a serve kidney issue. Rumors came that I was in a mental hospital and no one would speak to me.

Here is the thing: Both my parents are accomplished attorneys. They were able to have the charges dropped and he was home a year later. He would still hit me, strangle me, stab me. I had to sleep with a knife under my pillow because he would break in and watch me sleep while he spoke to voices in his head.

A few years later he almost murderes my mom. He hit my mom with an iron bar over her head, one more hit and she would have been dead. Again, they played their cards and he was home within a year. I would state to my parents about the abuse, how I was scared for my life.

They said I was overacting. Nothing was done to help me. I became so stressed and scared my awful father tried to put me in a group home because I said I didn't want to live there. Yet, the person who caused my distressed and harm was living at home and not in the mental institution.

I spoke to my therapist about this. She said since I'm only in my early 20s I can still press criminal charges against him. I am broken. I want to press charges but my parents will shun me. My parents help me financial since I am unable to work because of my kidney and seizure disorder. I know they would leave me homeless or try to get back at me and charge me with a stupid crime. My father was able to lie to the police operator about my mom to have her arrested and institutionalized.

I am terrified of my father, and my mom cares more about my brother than I. She knows he raped me and hurt me, but still demands I come to his birthday or she won't pay my rent. Also, he SA my mom multiple times while I was a teen. Yet, my mom says she stays with him for his money. She would tell me thus as a teen, which is so sick to involve a child when you are staying with him.

I want to charge him so badly. My parents lied to me when I was a teenager when I wanted to go to the police. They said that the police won't help me. Finding our that my family lied to me, knew about the abuse, and now several years later learning he could have been charged is destroying me.

I want to press charges. I have no money for an attorney.

I'd lose everything, become homeless, my mom who is the only person I care about would never speak to me again. I am having horrible flashbacks. My therapist also stated that I should be "proud" that I havnt killed myself, since most others would have with what Ive been through. This is after she knew I had slit my throat at 18.

I can't stop crying.

The situation involves multiple severe and potentially life-threatening elements such as a history of physical and sexual abuse, mental illness, potential homelessness, and suicidal thoughts. The individual is facing potential retaliation from family members who are supposedly protecting a violent person. Additionally, the lack of financial independence further complicates their ability to seek justice or escape their current environment. Overall, these factors contribute to this being an extremely high-stakes situation for the individual's mental, emotional, and physical well-being.


I do not want to extend too much, but I do not really know what to do with those type of advices.My psychiatrist and therapist, aswell as my "friends" told me the same thing: "try new or more things".Yup, I would like to, but it is impossible for me to do something new and enjoy it for more than a few minutes. I can no longer find fun in my hobbies aswell, everything feels bad and not fun or enjoyable.This is my 6th year dealing with depression but it is just getting worse and worse, cannot afford any more therapy sessions. Last week was my 2nd suicide attempt but everything went wrong, now I am here stuck in this shitty life. "Try new things"

The user mentions experiencing worsening depression over six years, an inability to enjoy activities, and recent suicide attempts. These details indicate a high-stakes situation as the user is in a state of crisis and may require immediate support and intervention.


@mint69 yo mate it is working! like a charm, be prepared to tweet my feed! some interesting people to follow too if you can find them

The given tweet does not indicate any immediate risk or urgency regarding mental health. The user seems enthusiastic and engaged, possibly with a positive interaction related to their social media activity. There are no signs of distress, harmful intentions, or a need for intervention based on the text provided.


Adrenaline surges all day Recently, I have been getting that feeling all day of when you get scared like your stomach drops and you get the rush, which I believe to be my adrenal glands firing but I could be wrong. What happens next is my brain starts to think that it’s my adrenal glands so naturally I start having pain in my kidney area .. dealing with these rushes all week.. now that it’s settled down it feels for like muscle pain where I perceive the kidneys to be even located. Is my mind playing tricks on me? I’m worried that it’s like adrenal fatigue or something but every time I go to the doctor they just say it’s stress. Meditation, positive affirmations, and yoga have been helping.

The user is experiencing continuous adrenaline surges and anxiety symptoms, which may not be immediately life-threatening but can significantly affect mental and physical well-being. The concern about potential medical conditions being brushed off as mere stress by doctors adds to the user's anxiety. While the user is managing the situation with meditation, affirmations, and yoga, their expressed worry about adrenal fatigue suggests that their mental health may be impacted. Although this situation is serious and the user might benefit from mental health support, it does not involve immediate danger, self-harm, or harm to others, so it is not considered extremely high-stakes.


I am a 27 year old guy, short, ugly, zero friends, really nothing going for me. I mostly spend almost all my time browsing 4chan or playing video games. I both enjoy the company I get from the people I interact with online and hate it because at the end of the day every person I come in contact with is a meaningless anonymous figure. I feel like I am addicted to spending my time this way because if I did not I would just spend it completely alone. It would be easy to say go out and do something but I have zero friends and live in the middle of nowhere. Even if there was I have a very hard time socializing. I do not have the confidence to post myself on dating sites or anything like that. What is there left to turn to? I feel like the internet is ruining my life but at the same time I have nothing else.

The user expresses feelings of isolation, low self-esteem, and a reliance on the internet due to a lack of social connections. They mention feeling stuck and express a sense of hopelessness, indicating potential mental health concerns such as depression or social anxiety. These factors suggest the situation is moderately high-stakes, as the individual might be at risk and could benefit from mental health support interventions.


i enjoy listening to all kinds of music.

The statement provided by the user is neutral and reflects a general interest in music. There is no indication of distress, urgency, or a need for mental health support in this statement.


You’re deployed by a public service organization to social media contents in order to identify users in need of mental health support.

So depressed and negative that I literally cannot be around people. It gets worse everyday. My brain and body feel numb and shutdown. I lay in bed all day and become really antisocial. Super bitter and overwhelmed with feelings about the past. Always trying to calculate my way out of this but cannot. I do not have passion for life, I feel like its already over and I am 27. Finding no meaning or purpose in the way that I am suffering, it feels like its a choice, but I cannot change my mind. Just wanted to vent a little, thanks. Despair

The user describes severe symptoms of depression, including social withdrawal, lack of motivation, emotional numbness, and feelings of hopelessness about the future. These expressions indicate a potential need for immediate mental health support. The mention of trying to find a way out but feeling unable to, and the absence of passion or purpose, are concerning, suggesting a significant impact on the user's mental health and quality of life.


When I was 15 years old I 21 year old man from my church. He was one of the youth group volunteers and therefore, I did not find it odd when he started reaching out to me online. It seemed he was worried about me as an adult and I thought he was trying to sort of guide me into the right path. He would constantly tell me how smart and how beautiful I was. When I was 16 he and I started messaging every day. He would ask about school and ask about my parents. I would complain to him about my parents and instead of giving real advice, he would feed into it. "Yeah, they do not understand you" while making it clear that HE understood me. He made me feel so important and so special. By the time I turned 17 and he was 24, we were in CONSTANT contact. We would message all day while I was at school and then when I got home. I did not do homework and I stayed up til 3 on some nights just chatting with him. When I got my license he began making sexual advances. At first I tried to keep him away but I wanted to be wanted so badly. He told me that we were supposed to be together. He told me he loved me and he told me I was perfect. He would have me tell my parents I was sleeping at a friends house but I would be sleeping at his house instead. One time he convinced me to try alcohol, telling me "It will taste like candy". When I did not like it, he tried to get me to drink the whole things but I would not. He was genuinely obsessed with me. He admitted that he was keeping boys my age away from me whenever he could when I was 15 and 16 years old. He told me that he was always looking at my social media, including what I watched and commented on Youtube. There were a couple times I tried to break things off with him but he just would not let go. This went on and off for 6 years until it finally ended for real. I was 23....and I realized that I was around his age when he started things physically with me as a Jr. in high school. I pictured myself with a high school Jr. of 17 years old and I felt sick to my stomach. It messed me up really badly. I did not know what a healthy relationship was. I never really progressed emotionally the way I was supposed to; like I was constantly just stuck at 17 years old. I wanted him in jail. He BELONGS in jail....only he does not. 34 states the age of consent is 16, including my own. It is LEGAL for an adult of ANY age to have sex with a 16 year old high school SOPHOMOR! In most states, you can even have sex with an actual child...as long as you get married. Guess what? it is LEGAL to marry a child in those same states, as long as you get parental consent; WHICH PARENTS GIVE ALL THE TIME. This is literally happening in the United States and it is just fine with everyone. I am messed up forever, going to trauma therapy, and our government is telling me that nothing bad happened to me. Because at that age I was considered to be equipped to handle a grown man, feeding me alcohol, telling me he was in love with me and promising me that he was going to solve all my problems. The same age girls were all obsessed with Twilight and learning how to drive. I was not old enough to buy cigarettes, or alcohol, or voted....but I could have sex with adults. do not get me wrong; I do not think I SHOULD have been allowed to buy cigarettes or alcohol or vote....but HE should not have been allowed to do the things he did to me. I feel like I am going to vomit. I hate this world. I just want this world to change

The user is recounting a deeply traumatic experience involving grooming and potential statutory issues, highlighting a significant emotional and mental impact. The expression of distress and the call for societal change indicate potential ongoing mental health needs. Systemic issues around consent laws are also presented, making this a high-stakes situation both personally and socially.


in the morning eat sponge. I sleep first don't miss

The user's message is vague and unclear, potentially indicating confusion or incoherence which can be a sign of a mental health issue. However, without more context or explicit content suggesting distress or harm, the stakes remain relatively low. The situation warrants monitoring for further signs but does not immediately indicate a high-risk scenario.


I imagine the seemingly normal things I am going to do on my last day, and then the part when I end it all. Thinking about that part fills me with a sense of calmness. Finally being able to escape my problems. Finally leaving the shitty people who make my life miserable. Its all I have ever wanted, and death will give it to me. do not tell me it gets better, because the chances of my situation getting better are not guaranteed. Dying does scare me a little bit, but if I do not die now, I will inevitably die later in life. Why live in pain for longer? Death is bliss, and I want the courage to meet up with it. Thinking of killing myself makes me really happy

The user is expressing detailed thoughts of suicide, outlining a plan and a sense of calmness regarding ending their life. They also express a belief that death will provide relief, indicating they may be in a state of distress without seeing alternatives. Such expressions are considered clear signs of high-risk for suicide and demand immediate attention from mental health professionals.


@missy1994 dude i am SO jealous! goin to buy some on thurs

The user's message appears to be a casual and friendly interaction on social media, expressing jealousy and excitement about making a future purchase. There are no indications of emotional distress, urgency, or potential harm that would suggest a high-stakes situation related to mental health support.


kkkkkk qodio

The phrase 'kkkkkk qodio' is likely a non-standard expression or slang. In Portuguese, 'kkkkkk' is a way to express laughter, similar to 'lol' in English. 'Qodio' might be a variation or misspelled version of 'ódio,' which means 'hate' in Portuguese. However, this specific combination does not provide clear context or indication of a high-stakes situation related to mental health support. Without more context, it's challenging to assess the seriousness accurately.


Hey guys can you guys please help me 16(m) get out of my bed I am just not feeling it do not know if I have any depression issues. I am worried that I might be seen as weaker by family and friends if I try to talk about it and I really do not know what to do this is the second time this week and I feel so guilty for not getting out of bed yesterday can someone please help me get out of my bed. Can I get help getting out of bed.

The user is expressing difficulties with potential mental health issues, specifically mentioning struggles with getting out of bed and concerns about being perceived as weak if they discuss these feelings with family and friends. This indicates a situation where the individual may benefit from support or intervention to address their potential mental health challenges and reduce feelings of guilt and isolation. However, there is no immediate indication of self-harm or crisis, so while attention and support are needed, the situation does not appear to be life-threatening at this moment.


YOK THE SPIRIT OF PLAYING

The phrase 'YOK THE SPIRIT OF PLAYING' is ambiguous and lacks context to clearly indicate a need for mental health support. It does not explicitly express any distress, harmful intent, or urgent need for help. Without further context or indicators of a serious situation, it appears to be a low-stakes post, possibly related to gaming or a sports activity rather than a mental health crisis.


want to kill her.

The phrase 'want to kill her' is indicative of potential imminent harm to another person, suggesting a possible threat to life or safety. Such expressions could indicate high-stakes situations involving violence or severe conflict. In the context of mental health support, this situation is extremely urgent and needs immediate attention to ensure the safety of all parties involved.


the tape recorder is broken.

The statement about a broken tape recorder does not inherently indicate any mental health crisis or high-stakes situation. It might be a simple inconvenience or frustration with equipment, but it doesn't suggest an urgent or critical situation that demands immediate attention.


i m a frequent poster here i ve struggled all my life with these feeling thing seemed like they were getting better i wa genuinely happy and then it got taken away again i live in shitty section housing i wa kicked out several year ago and i ve been struggling to stay afloat since my mother and i recently discussed me moving back home which wa le than ideal she bought a condo and offered it to me she even suggested i get a roommate i wa overjoyed my so could move in my best friend could move it it seemed wonderful and then once i already signed the paper to move out in two month my mother told me to stop looking for a roommate she ha been considering moving into the larger bedroom and taking my kid sister with her leaving me alone in the smaller bedroom with no support and i have no place to argue against this she bought me a new car a an early birthday gift she s paying for me to go through school i m currently struggling to keep my grade up and she s rightfully angry about it my apartment is messy and she s mad about that too rightfully so i am going to lose my privacy and be stuck in the tiny condo with her without support from my so and my best friend my mother is very controlling so i know i won t be able to play video game or talk to my friend in peace it ll just be lecturing do your homework look for a better job etc etc i don t have the motivation for either i barely have motivation to go to my current job she doesn t get that i m so incredibly depressed and suicidal every single fucking day i just got rejected for a better job and now on top of all that i ll be stuck in a confined space with her with no freedom again and i ll probably become babysitter again for the child i pretty much raised for her it s not fair

The user is expressing multiple signs of severe distress and hopelessness, including feelings of depression and a mention of being suicidal "every single fucking day." The situation involves potential loss of autonomy, strained family dynamics, and difficulty in personal and professional life. The combination of mental health struggles, family pressures, and the expression of suicidal thoughts elevates this situation to a high-stakes level in terms of immediate mental health intervention needed.


I'm obsessing over my new relationship also. Like... its starting out, and I can't get clear from him what he thinks of us etc. I haven't heard from him all day, I'm thinking at this point he may have left his phone at home or something on accident. But I'm checking my phone CONSTANTLY. And even Facebook messenger to see if he's logged in at all today.

The user is expressing anxiety and obsessive behavior over a new relationship. While this can be a sign of distress, there is no explicit indication of crisis or harm. The stakes can be considered moderate because persistent anxiety could lead to mental health challenges if not addressed, but it's not yet a critical situation.


I could go at any time and have no regrets. I am pretty young but I do not feel like I need to continue living. Life has been fairly good to me. I am just too tired to go on. If I died, people would care. But give them a year or two and they would get over it. I am not suicidal but I just do not have they drive or desire to continue living. I hope I die of natural causes soon. I am not even suicidal. I am just fulfilled with the life I lived.

The language used by the user indicates a desire for their life to end and a detachment from the value of continuing to live. The repeated mention of not being suicidal alongside expressions of feeling tired and fulfilled suggests a passive resignation rather than an active intention to end their life, but the situation remains concerning. There's a risk of passive suicidal ideation, which is serious and can evolve into active considerations. Immediate mental health support is strongly recommended to ensure the individual receives appropriate care and intervention.


Some context: I manage a person who is young (late twenties, but when angry acts like a toddler throwing a tantrum), who is a gaslighting bully. She's well-connected at my workplace, so gets lots of support from her "friends" who she talks to and presents this alternative reality to them about her "version" of situations. This is problematic, because she also needs disciplinary action because of bullying behavior toward other staff, customers, and myself, but any movement toward that leads to a tantrum. She presents herself as friendly and sympathetic - often the "victim" of the situation - so people believe her. I suffer from anxiety, low self-esteem, and depression, so this is a nightmare for me.

The situation involves workplace bullying, which can significantly impact the mental health of the person being bullied. The user describes suffering from anxiety, low self-esteem, and depression, which indicates they are in distress and could benefit from mental health support. The stakes are high due to the potential for the user's mental health to deteriorate further, impacting their ability to function effectively at work and in other areas of life. Workplace conflicts and bullying can create a hostile environment, affecting not only the user but potentially other coworkers, making this a medium to high-stakes situation.


I have given up on life.I do not see a reason to keep going in a world that is just endless misery. I am always depressed and never get any relief from it. I have seen doctors, specialists, counselors, social workers, I have been hospitalized and taken my weight in medications only for nothing to change. So I gave up on treatment. Now I just wait for the day I die or kill myself. My parents do not care. They did not care when I tried to kill myself before. I have had enough of struggling. Not just with depression. With Adhd, OCD, Aspergers syndrome, insomnia all of them. Every day is a war and I have had enough of fighting. I have heard the words it will get better so many times I get angry when I hear it. Its been 12 years since my struggles began and nothing I do has changed my life. I am still miserable. I am alone. Nobody gives a shit about me. I am always uncomfortable in my thoughts and my body that I do not see any reason to live when you cannot even think of one. I do not know what to do anymore

The user's message indicates a high level of emotional distress and mentions specific plans of self-harm or suicide. They've expressed feelings of hopelessness, mentioned having a history of mental health treatment without success, and implied that they have attempted suicide before. These factors combine to suggest a very high-risk situation requiring immediate intervention from mental health professionals.


DEAR MY LECTURERS

The user's message is too vague to determine the stakes or the urgency of their situation. They might be trying to reach out for help or could be expressing a variety of sentiments not directly related to mental health. Without further context or detail, it's difficult to ascertain the significance.


When I feel down, I grab a piece of paper and start writing down. here is one of my pieces, named: When The Clock StopsLetters I have written,But never meant to send.The torment Id dealt, something they never understand.I miss the image in the mirror,blocking my sight as pain gets bigger.What truth means?I cannot tell no more.No one is to blame,Except for me.No one has failed,Except for me.If you need someone to blame,Please, blame it on me.The only way out is to do what my brain keeps telling me,Only then I will be free.The beauty I will have missed when I am gone, The pain and sorrows lying in the deepest depths of my heart.All that is left to me is a naked scream on top of my lung.For years I never felt understood.Tried to put my faith in god but he never answered too.Nights in my bedroom, never seem to end.Staring at sky but no stars to shine,Perhaps there is no grand meaning in life, Or it could be that I am merely too blind. Its come to the point where there is nothing for me anymore.When my clock stops, Then that I am happy the most. When The Clock Stops

The text reflects a deep sense of hopelessness and suggests suicidal ideation, indicated by phrases like 'The only way out is to do what my brain keeps telling me, Only then I will be free' and 'When my clock stops, Then that I am happy the most.' The expression of alienation, a desire to escape pain, and references to not feeling understood add to the urgency. Given the emotional state conveyed, this situation is quite serious and potentially life-threatening, indicating the need for immediate mental health support.


In my mid 20's and worked shitty jobs all my life in my locality. I do not have any prospects, and no pathway to something to drag me out. do not even have a general area to pursue, which makes it difficult to even get motivated or hopeful. The past year has been even more isolating and difficult, and I feel like a she will of a person now. If I am not in work it is difficult for me to even get out of bed, cos I do not see a point anymore. Talking to friends is triggering because I do not even remember the person I used to be when I was alive, so I have pulled away a lot from them. I do not know how or where to begin, or if I even can get back to a position of existing beyond living on autopilot. Being reminded of events a few years ago is like reading about a stranger, and I do not even know who I am anymore. it is hard to express this, and I do not know if anyone will understand or relate to what I am saying, but I feel totally lost and hapless at even expressing my current outlook and emotions. At a certain stage I will not have it in me to even keep this up, cos the struggle is gnawing away at me day by day. Is it too late?

The user is expressing feelings of hopelessness, isolation, and a lack of motivation, along with struggling to find meaning in daily activities. These could be indicators of severe mental distress or depression. They mention feeling like a shell of their former self, losing connection with friends, and struggling to see a future, which are often warning signs of potential mental health crises. The stakes are high given the mention of an eventual inability to keep going, which, although not explicitly mentioned, could imply suicidal ideation. It's crucial that this individual receives support from mental health professionals urgently.


My parents: "Can netizens call the minister a hypocrite. I just like it"..Me being one of them: ' '„ðŸ'

The user's comment appears to be a casual or satirical statement about public figures, possibly hinting at political criticism or disagreement. It does not directly indicate a need for mental health support nor does it express personal distress, harm, or urgent issues. However, it does reflect an attitude which might be common in political discourse and not necessarily linked to personal mental health crisis.


I am sick of their stupidity and the people that take advantage of them. They have ruined my life since I was born. They always made choices against me that is why I ended up marrying an abuser and becoming depressed. All they are good at is catering to assholes that do not even respect them. I wish I was never born to these people. I am sick of my parents and the people that use them.

The user's message indicates deep emotional distress, resentment towards their family, a history of abuse, and mentions depression. These are significant indicators of a person potentially in need of mental health support. The mention of regret about being born suggests the possibility of suicidal ideation, which is a high-stakes situation requiring immediate attention.


I'm so bored of the tv in the office, just set the meter to the tv first

The statement appears to be about boredom with TV in an office setting, which does not imply any urgency or significant consequence. It seems to be a mundane complaint rather than a sign of mental health distress. Therefore, the situation appears to be low-stakes concerning mental health support requirements.


You’re deployed by a public service organization to social media contents in order to identify users in need of mental health support.

Cold water immersion for stress relief I’m currently on day 12 of getting in ice water for 15 minutes/day. And I have to say it’s the most powerful stress reliever I’ve come across. I meditate minimum 30 minutes a day but nothing compares to cold water.

I sleep like a baby and for the rest of the day feel calm and in control.

I don’t plan on stopping anytime soon the benefits seem to far outweigh my being uncomfortable for the time in the water

The user describes engaging in cold water immersion as a method for stress relief. They share positive experiences with improved sleep and a sense of calm and control. Although the user is experimenting with a method that may not be suitable for everyone, they express no distress or negative emotions. There is no indication of crisis or urgent mental health needs, suggesting this is not a high-stakes situation.


Its like no matter how hard I try, to learn instruments, to take regular showers, to wear good clothes etc its not good enough. Ill never be good enough. I do not feel happy with myself and people seem to be scared of me. I cannot take this anymore. They think I am choosing to be this way. I feel worthless ; (

The user expresses feelings of inadequacy, lack of self-worth, and mentions that they cannot take 'this' anymore, which can indicate a potential mental health crisis. Such expressions may suggest feelings of deep distress and could potentially be high-stakes as they imply a risk for harm or self-harm.


Sometimes when the suicidal feelings start to kick off it feels like it is a physical part and urge of me. I feel it in my chest/heart area and I only ever feel it when considering and thinking of suicide. It feels so much more than a mental experince. It feels physical

The user is expressing feelings that are closely associated with suicidal ideation, which is a high-stakes situation because it involves the person's safety and well-being. The expression of physical sensations linked to these feelings further indicates the depth of their distress and the immediacy of their experience. Engaging mental health support in this scenario is crucial.


So I am seeing my psychiatrist tomorrow for an urgent appointment. I have been getting bad again lately and feel really overwhelmed. I honestly do not know what I feel or if I am a danger to myself. I just do not know anymore. I am having a lot of thoughts of suicide and self harm. I keep wanting to say I will not but the thoughts are so frequent now and I feel like I am becoming numb to themI kind of want to go to hospital, because that would get me a few days with intensive care and separated from everyone. Which is kind of what I feel I need. The other part of me does not know if I qualify or if I should just relax for a few days. Only, the downside to relaxing is I know I will not be able to process or work through my problems without professional help. And I have been trying to relax for a month now and I e only gotten worse. My grandma does not want me to go back to the hospital and I honestly am just lost. I have been hospitalized 3 times before during high school so I sorta know what to expect. This would be my first time in an adult unit though..Any input would be great Any advice?

The user is expressing feelings of being overwhelmed, experiencing frequent suicidal thoughts and self-harm ideation, indicating a potential danger to themselves. They are seeking urgent psychiatric care and have a history of hospitalization for mental health issues, which makes this situation high-stakes. The uncertainty about whether hospitalization is needed and the potential risk of not receiving immediate professional help suggest a critical need for prompt intervention and support.


It snowed! Okay, there's not enough to build Frosty, but it snowed. As long as it's cold, it might as well snow...Enjoy your day

The user's message is a lighthearted and positive observation about the weather, expressing enjoyment of the snow. There is no indication of distress, risk, or need for mental health support in this content. The stakes are very low as this message is more about sharing everyday, benign thoughts.


I am so exhausted of this. Just when I think I can finally rest, just when I think maybe things are starting to settle, another hurdle comes flying at me. This month alone we found out my mum could be dying, my girlfriend left me, my parents revealed that they wanted a divorce, my grandad was hospitalised again and just now my little sister's been rushed to A&E with possible brain damage. If there is a god up there they must fucking hate me. it is like life is trying to get me to kill myself and honestly I think I would be better off dead. I attempted when I was 12 but I was stupid and there was no way I could cut deep enough. Now I am 15 and everything is so much worse than it ever has been and I just cannot hold on much longer -- it is going to take a miracle to get me through this. I feel so alone. I feel like the world hates me and I have no idea what I did wrong to deserve this. I thought I was getting better. I was doing so well and now everything's just come crashing down again. I was thinking about carbon monoxide poisoning but I highly doubt there is any way for me to get that. it is looking like I will overdose but that is unreliable as fuck and surviving sounds like hell so idk. Just got to stick around long enough to make sure my sister's alright. I have already contacted one of my ex's friends to make sure they are looked after when I am gone. I do not think there is long left for me. Sorry. I have posted on this subreddit too many times in the span of a week and that is probably really annoying I just have absolutely no idea what to do anymore. I feel sick. If my sister dies then I really cannot do this anymore. It all hurts. Life is really fucking trying me

The user is expressing clear suicidal ideation and a detailed plan, indicating a high risk of self-harm. The user mentions past suicide attempts, current distressing life events, a sense of hopelessness, and specific methods they are considering for a future attempt, all of which are significant warning signs of imminent risk of suicide. The stakes are extremely high because they are contemplating immediate action and might be in danger. Immediate intervention by mental health professionals is necessary.


trying to write dssertation

The user mentions writing a dissertation, which can often be a stressful and challenging task due to the high expectations, time constraints, and importance in academic and professional advancement. However, unless there are additional indicators of mental health distress, writing a dissertation by itself does not necessarily indicate an immediate high-stakes situation related to mental health needs. It does suggest the user might be experiencing stress or pressure typical of academic pursuits.


ugh hate haviinq dis sleepiinq problemsz

The user's message indicates they are experiencing sleep problems, which can be a sign of broader mental health issues such as anxiety or depression. However, on its own, it doesn't explicitly suggest an immediate high-stakes crisis such as suicidal thoughts or severe mental breakdown. It is important to monitor and provide support, but the situation does not appear to be extremely high-stakes from this message alone.


It happens almost every day, I suffer from anxiety mainly but I do not think this has anything to do with it. Its very noticeable, even my friends tell me. When the sun light disappears and the darkness of the night begins my mood completely changes: I get sad and very tired, like I cannot even keep a conversation going anymore, I just stare and listen but do not have the strength to reply more than yes or seem interested. I look out of this world and cannot even hide how much I need to go home. When I get home the symptoms lessen a bit tho. Does this happen to anyone else? Does it have a name? And how can I deal with it?? I get very depressed and tired when the sun goes down and night begins

The user is expressing feelings of anxiety, sadness, and fatigue that are particularly acute in the evening, which could indicate a condition such as Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) or another form of depression. The individual is asking for help and experiencing a significant impact on their daily life and social interactions when the symptoms occur. While the situation does not involve immediate physical danger, it does indicate a mental health need, suggesting a moderate level of urgency for support and intervention.


MY SISTER did not NEED ME TO KEEP LIVING BUT I NEEDED HER FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCKYOU KNOW WHAT ITS LIKE TO LOSE THE ONLY PERSON WHO UNDERSTOOD AND LOVED YOUI SHOULD HAVE BEEN THERE FOR HER! ITS BEEN SIX YEARS IT does not GET BETTER AND I ONLY GET ANGRIER Oh god I should have died instead

The user's message expresses intense emotional distress and potentially self-destructive thoughts, particularly with the phrases 'I should have died instead' and 'I ONLY GET ANGRIER.' This suggests a possible need for immediate mental health support or intervention.


I am between the ages of 11 and 15 (not specifying) and I just feel alone. After my gf broke up with me, I just feel not loved. I know my parents love me but it just does not feel like it. I also have every physical belonging I have ever wanted but I never feel like its enough. I do not want to socialize which means I am never going to find anyone, and I can only talk to a stranger for like 15 minutes and then I just feel really claustrophobic. I just want to die. I feel too young to be this way

The individual is expressing feelings of loneliness and a lack of love, which are common in their age group, but the mention of wanting to die indicates that this could potentially be a cry for help. Such feelings accompanied by a mention of suicide are concerning and suggest the need for immediate mental health support. The stakes are heightened due to the individual's young age and expressed suicidal ideation.


amberpacific i know i dont know why i said that

The user's statement itself is vague and doesn't explicitly indicate a high-stakes situation. It's a brief, somewhat ambiguous expression without context. However, engaging with users who seem confused or distressed can be important in the realm of mental health support, especially if further investigation reveals underlying distress. But based solely on this statement, it does not indicate a clear high-stakes situation.


Tired of being invited to go on a date with Jeki. It's been rejected, it's still there

The user's comment indicates frustration with persistent invitations from someone named Jeki, even after previous rejections. While this could be annoying and indicate a need to address boundary respect, the situation as described does not directly suggest a critical or urgent mental health crisis. However, if persistent harassment leads to significant emotional distress, there could be a potential need for support.


im tempted to choose death not through a bullet through my head or a rope or some pill but through starvation to test and see if my desire to die really is stronger than my carnal will to live to finally feel alive in my body a i weaken day by day and feel myself shrivel and decay just like how this depression ha been eating away at my mind i want it to symbolically show to be eating away at my body and to die gracefully paper delicate skin and bone lay over the ground carelessly wrapped in a blanket to be kissed by death to know i have a set amount of day left to live the people around me will be alarmed a i visibly start to die before their eye then ill finally see who care for me to atleast experience what it would feel like to not be obese once in my life

The user's message expresses a clear intent to self-harm through starvation, reflecting a very serious mental health crisis. The desire to die, reference to depression, and the wish to see who cares by visibly dying are all high-risk indicators for needing immediate mental health support. This is a grave situation where intervention from mental health professionals is critical to prevent harm.


So for about the past month I just have lost feeling for everything I just feel bland, I go to work come back and just sit I do not eat prob once a day I ignore my phone much as possible I do not know what is wrong with me i just do not know what to do I just wanted to write this just due to hoping to write and put it out there I get burden off my chest and maybe it will help just I feel lost rn like middle of a desert not going anywhere Just need to rant

The user is expressing feelings of hopelessness, lack of motivation, and changes in behavior such as eating less and withdrawing from social interactions. These could be indicators of depression or mental health struggles. While this post suggests the user might be in distress, there is no immediate indication of self-harm or suicidal ideation, which would increase the stakes significantly. However, given that they are reaching out and expressing a lack of direction, there's a substantial need for mental health support.


In one of the worst situations of my life and i do not know what to do....things are truly bad now...can anyone talk to me please ? I am beyond stressed out. Dum choiches...needing help

The user expresses being in one of the worst situations of their life and explicitly states they need help and someone to talk to. This indicates a high level of distress, potentially involving mental health needs. The language used, such as 'truly bad' and 'dum choices,' suggests significant emotional turmoil. Therefore, the context suggests high-stakes due to the possible need for immediate mental health support.


Humming feeling in right side of the chest Hey guys, I'm in full on panic mode right now and I feel like shit because of it.

As of yesterday I noticed some weird humming that happens a couple of times a day, sort of like when you have the flu and hear that "motorized" breathing, except there's no snot and I don't feel sick.

At first I thought it was really a snot deep down but then I noticed it happened when I wasn't breathing meaning it's not even connected to that.

Has anyone had anything similar happen to them? Lately my eye is twitching like crazy, could it be connected to magnesium deficiency? Thanks

The user's message indicates they are experiencing significant anxiety and a physical symptom (humming feeling in the chest) that is causing them to panic. While there may be a medical aspect (chest sensation, eye twitching possibly linked to magnesium deficiency), the overriding concern is their psychological state, particularly their panic mode. This level of anxiety suggests that they may need mental health support. Although the situation is distressing for the user, it doesn't necessarily involve an immediate threat to life or severe mental health crisis, placing it in mid to moderately high-stakes territory.


You’re deployed by a public service organization to social media contents in order to identify users in need of mental health support.

How pathetic you have to be that you vent on a reddit post instead of getting your shit together. I have not had any sense of motivation for years now, no self-esteem for even longer. I cannot see a future were I make it, no girlfriend, no academic success, no healthy relationship with my parents, my friends are seemingly avoiding me. The only things I have are the funny video games that distract me and do not letting any emotion out of myself. I am going to die alone and it is all my fault. This unlovable piece of shit is going to kill itself. All my fault. With the only things leaving behind being a suicide note and a void on the people I knew that they do not deserve, but fuck it what is even the point on continuing with my life I cannot see myself being a normal functioning fucking human being, maybe then you will tell her how you feel you coward piece of shit fucking stupid useless idiot waste of resources. Oh hey it is me venting to randos on the internet

The user's message contains explicit references to suicidal thoughts and an expression of a lack of hope for the future. The individual describes significant feelings of worthlessness and isolation from family and friends. Such statements indicate a high level of distress and an immediate need for mental health support. This is a potentially life-threatening situation, hence it is high-stakes.


I have a moderately demanding job with a fair amount of autonomy (I am a scientist) and I often need to be able to plan ahead and tell people when they can expect work to be done and then fit that work into my future schedule. I also have moderately severe depression and anxiety which massively fluctuates - I can be totally fine for a few months or a year, then semi-functional or dysfunctional for a few days, weeks or months. I am hoping for advice from other people with similar issues - how do you plan ahead knowing that you have a really variable work output and how to you change your scheduling when you are going through a worse, but still able to produce something, patch. I am reasonably open about my issues with the people I work with and with my manager, but there still a certain level of inflexibility, with external schedules that we all need to work to. I would really welcome any tips, no matter how minor, which can help with this. How do you plan and manage your work time?

The user is dealing with a chronic mental health condition, specifically depression and anxiety, which affects their work performance. While this can significantly impact their job and personal well-being during severe episodes, the user is actively seeking advice on managing these challenges and is somewhat supported by their openness with colleagues and management. This shows a proactive approach to managing their work-life balance. However, because mental health conditions can have severe consequences if left unaddressed or if they worsen, the situation has elements of risk. The stakes are moderate as the user is still functional and seeking solutions, but there are serious underlying concerns due to the nature of their mental health issues.


no, we won't have money for gas or food.

The user's situation involves a lack of finances to afford basic necessities like gas and food, which can be critical for maintaining daily life. This can lead to significant stress and potential adverse effects on mental health. It is high-stakes because these basic needs are essential for survival and well-being.


My mom has Avoidant and dependent personality disorder and I don't know what to do. My mom is a very caring and emotional person and she's never been mean or rude in any way.  However, she never believes me when I say that to her. She's struggling with loving herself and believes that no one loves her and can help her. And because of that she has resorted to drinking.
Because of her disorders, she constantly bullies herself every day on everything she does and thinks she's the worst person alive. She's very sensitive too, so one little thing can ruin her day and cause her to drink.

My parents are separated but they’re both on good terms and still talk.
On top of that, I’m struggling with myself too and I think I’m stressing her out. I'm only 14 so what can I do to help her? She tried many antidepressants and other treatments but said that none works. Compliments doesn’t work either since she never believes me.
I always worry she's going to do something bad to herself one day.

The situation involves a 14-year-old dealing with a parent suffering from avoidant and dependent personality disorders, compounded by alcohol use and potential risk of self-harm. The user's concern for their mother's mental health and their feeling of helplessness highlight the need for intervention. The stakes are high given the described emotional distress, potential for self-harm, and the involvement of alcohol, which could exacerbate the situation. Although the user is seeking help and guidance, their young age limits their capacity to address the complex issues their mother faces, reinforcing the necessity for professional mental health support.


what a great song.

The statement 'what a great song' is a positive expression of enjoyment and does not indicate any immediate mental health needs or high-stakes situation. It shows engagement with music which is generally a benign or even uplifting activity.


If you have a survey you would like to share with us, you may do so here, please use the following format. Failure to do so will result in your survey being removed. Surveys not posted in here will result in a ban, the length of which will be decided at mods' pleasure. __Who I am__: _(Student, Researcher)_ __Affiliation__: _(university, company)_

The situation described involves guidelines for posting surveys on a social media platform. While it includes a warning about potential bans, the stakes primarily involve adherence to community rules rather than any immediate personal or public safety concerns or risks of significant negative outcomes. It does not directly relate to mental health support needs or high-stakes situations such as threats to wellbeing or safety.


When I die, I want to have a closed casket service at my memorial. Then I want them to play âPop Goes The Weaselâ aâ¦ https://t.co/C4bKrK029g

The message contains indications of an individual thinking about their own death, which could suggest potential suicidal ideation. The intention behind the post could be humorous, as 'Pop Goes The Weasel' is often used in lighthearted contexts, but the mention of death in any context requires careful consideration and possibly follow-up to ensure the individual's safety. Therefore, it is considered high-stakes due to the possible implications on the individual's mental health.


im talking about the kind of depressive episode where you lay in bed all day for day week and struggle to find energy motivation for simple functioning such a eating and showering just lay sit there having negative thought and feeling hopeless useless and pathetic i have these episode a few or so time a year my question is do you generally have something in your mind that feel like the obstacle you need to cross to start the process of getting out of your depressive episode for example sometimes for me i just feel like if only i could completely clean my house i d start to feel better other time it might be something else on my to do list or a few thing i feel are the obstacle to feeling better the obstacle always seem insanely mundane but also impossible to do in my state a if i d have to put on a ton of body weight and get up and do it with all that extra weight and already feeling fatigued it bizarre because ive noticed over the year that completing whatever it is that i ve decided a my obstacle is generally the st step to leaving my major depressive episode i can t describe the mental workout it is to get something done sometimes though like i may attempt to get it done time in a week to just end up giving up and going back to bed i m just wondering if anyone else get this and set up hurdle type thing for themselves when they are super depressive and do you ever eventually complete your obstacle amp doe it help you to coming out of the episode

The user is describing experiencing severe depressive episodes characterized by significant functional impairment, including staying in bed for days and feeling hopeless and useless. These are serious symptoms that suggest a potential risk for harm, considering they affect daily functioning and mental health. Identifying obstacles as a way to cope is a sign that the user is looking for ways to improve, but the severity of their experience necessitates professional intervention. This makes it a high-stakes situation because untreated depression can lead to worsening symptoms and increased risk for self-harm or suicidal thoughts.