Hi. So a bit of background.My dad is 54 years old and has been married to my mum for 30 years. When my mum had me (21), she developed postpartum depression which lead to psychotic depression and according to him this has essentially changed her and unfortunately has lead to a somewhat unhappy marriage, although things have recently been stabilised in terms of any arguments. My mum has also suffered abuse as a child and multiple different traumas which has lead to her being very underdeveloped cognitively and intellectually which on top of the depression results in her being unable to properly look after herself. This is why my dad has never divorced, hes never said it outright but I reckon the only reason he stays is because of the sense of obligation.His relationship with me as a child used to be good, but it was always tainted with his anger. He would shout at me for spilling juice or for asking for magazines/toys, or just for nothing if work had been bad. Essentially as I grew up, I became more frustrated with his anger and started shouting back as a teenager does. He took this to mean his anger should not be restricted then. One time when I was 14, I went to the wrong street for him to pick me up (one street over) and as soon as I got in the car, he started driving as bit, hit the brakes then screamed in my face I HATE YOU, I FUCKING HATE YOU. He would always apologise after but it felt like walking on eggshells always. I have not had anything like that recently with him, but I do not know if that is because hes better or there is more distance between us in our relationship. Overall, I very much get the impression that he feels trapped by my mother and I, that he wishes life could have been different.He has his mum and dad but his anger has caused their relationships to be strained. He has maybe three friends? But he only sees them at work.I have suspect this has caused him to be depressed, bear in mind hes never claimed to be outright depressed. For a while now hes talked about death and he hopes he dies soon. My mother was on holiday with him last year and told me that she found him weeping in the shower and after that he tried to leave the apartment naked (mental breakdown?) but he was fine the next day. I did not say anything because I was scared, terrified of what he would say if confronted about it. The only person I would ask about stuff like this is my dad, but that is not an option. My mother is in no state of mind to handle this so it falls on me.Tonight he said to me that we had to talk about what I should do when he dies, get everything in order. I said to him no let us not, because you are not going to die for a good while, to which he responded with you will be lucky if I am here next week. He then reminded me before going to bed about this talk were to have. I am terrified. I think hes going to do it. I love him so much please help me here. I do not know how to help him. I do not even know if I am overreacting or what. What should I do. I think my Dad might kill himself

The situation detailed by the user involves indicators of severe mental distress, potential suicidal ideation, and urgent need for intervention. The father in the situation has expressed thoughts of death and made statements indicating a potential plan, which are serious risk factors for suicide. Additionally, there is a history of emotional issues and strained relationships which compound the risk. This situation requires immediate attention from mental health professionals to ensure safety and provide appropriate support.


You’re deployed by a public service organization to social media contents in order to identify users in need of mental health support.

NEW STUFF! KPOP CASE! YUUK YUUK ORDER :)

The content provided appears to be about a K-pop related merchandise or event, likely indicating excitement or enthusiasm rather than distress or a need for mental health support. There is no indication of a high-stakes or urgent situation based on the information given.

Filled in based on scale_labels and scale_label_confidence


guess who will die today? thatâs me!! Iâm too tired of everything rn and Iâm too hurt,,

The user's message suggests a suicidal ideation or intent, which is a critical mental health crisis requiring immediate intervention. The expression of being 'too tired of everything' and 'hurt' further indicates a state of distress. This situation is extremely high-stakes as it involves potential harm to the individual's life.


I have never ran away and I really want to, I want to get away from my family and have the thrill of playing an extreme game of hide and seek. It may sound psychopathic, but I want everyone looking for me until weeks later the cops find my hanging corpse. I want to go to the gas station and load up on all the snacks I can think of before getting the courage to end it all. I am not sure why I am posting this, but I really want to get it out and this is the only place I can think of. I want to run away and hang myself

The user’s message suggests they are experiencing severe emotional distress and have thoughts of suicide. They explicitly mention wanting to end their life by hanging themselves and describe a desire to escape their current circumstances. They also express a sense of urgency and finality in their words, which indicates a high level of risk. The user's explicit mention of wanting to die and detailed planning raises the stakes significantly, making this a critical situation that requires immediate intervention and mental health support.


no picnic my phone smell like citrus

The user seems to make a non-specific comment about their phone smelling like citrus, which does not convey any direct threat or indication of distress or mental health crisis. It lacks context that suggests it is a high-stakes situation.


followsavvy i never found her everytime i click on her twitter thing through your myspace it go to some dude s page

The user's statement is about a technical issue or confusion regarding social media links, specifically referring to clicking a link that redirects to an unexpected page. There is no explicit indication of distress or a need for mental health support. The statement does not mention any urgent situations, emotional distress, or potential harm, which would typically characterize a higher-stakes scenario.


Everything that makes life supposedly great is not available to me. I could never get a girl and could never end up making friends despite me trying and I have never had money and no one hires me despite me applying to places for over a year! Life is so unfair No girlfriend, No friends, No money

The user's post reflects signs of distress and emotional pain due to significant personal issues, including loneliness, financial struggles, and lack of employment. These are factors that can lead to mental health challenges such as depression. However, this post on its own does not explicitly indicate immediate risk of harm, but it suggests the user could benefit from support. Therefore, it's important to approach this with care and offer help.


you know that feeling when the day and night drag on the tear stream down your cheek your vision start to tunnel the feeling of being lost with no where to go the movie staring yourself is playing and all you can do is sit back and watch a the world start to slip away from you slowly the first time i tried taking my life wa year old i wa physically and mentally abused from the moment i wa born and still mentally abused to this day this time it me abusing myself i got so used to being alone and not wanted so what s the point in trying anymore 0 0 wa a bad year for everyone but that is the time where i started losing a grip on my life for the last time my world started spirlling out of control what did i do i woke up at 0am walked into the kitchen grabbed a knife and drug of deep across my throat i walked into the bedroom where my wife wa sleeping she woke up to the sound of gargling only you find me trying to hold my throat shut she immediately called 9 and just looked at me in aw with a single tear falling down my cheek all she could do is watch a her husband is slowly dying right in front of her when i woke up day later in the hospital she wa no where to be found this is when my world came crashing down over me hearing those word whisper out of her mouth i want a divorce that wa the day i died inside i lost my soul mate my best friend my wife and the mother of my child i lost everything that day family friend my daughter my house my truck and my heart every day i fall asleep cry begging to take me back in time but in reality i know i can t so what is there left to do you ask die life for me ha ended i have nothing more left in me anymore i have been suffering from depression for a very long time i m exhausted i m tired i m alone i m lost all i want is to end this story of my life called misery i want to leave this world so i don t have to disappoint anyone ever again i am broken i can t do it anymore everyone say life is precious well to me life is a waste of time i have nothing more to give i have nothing more to learn i have nothing i am depressed i am hurt i am sitting in the theater watching a my screen start to fade to black this is it i tell myself i am no longer going to sit here and put a fake smile on my face for everyone else i am done helping out others with there problem why doesn t anyone ask me how i am doing probably because i would lie i am going to die i am ready i hope and pray the my daughter and my ex wife can forgive me i will always love them until the end of time with that being said i am signing off i have nothing left in the tank goodbye cruel cruel world until we meet again daddy will always be looking over you guiding you in a direction i never wa pushed towards i may not have any friend but i will be leaving a mark on legacy my job here is done good bye signing off

The user expresses a clear intention to end their life, describes a history of mental and physical abuse, past suicide attempts, and a profound sense of hopelessness and despair. This indicates a crisis situation requiring immediate intervention, making it extremely high-stakes.


STD Anxiety I got tested everything came back negative and I felt calm. I still worry that I have some disease that is dormant or that they missed it. I have no reason to believe the girl I had sex with has anything and I guess the thing I’m scared about is HIV and that he chance of it actually being HIV or anything else are super super low. I’m definitely a Hypochondriac and have had Health Anxiety for a long time and I managed it until for some stupid reason I went on google like 30 minutes after the fact and now I’m worried I’m spiraling. Does anyone have any input and or tips for helping me control this anxiety. Also I have had no symptoms for any STDs at all prior to or after the testing. So I’m like 95% sure this is all anxiety.

The situation involves anxiety about potential health issues, specifically STDs, despite receiving a negative result and the low probability of actual risk. The user recognizes their own tendency towards health anxiety and is seeking input to manage this anxiety. While the stakes are significant because prolonged anxiety can impact mental and potentially physical health, the immediate threat level appears to be low since the user is self-aware and actively seeking help. However, it remains crucial to provide support and potentially guide them towards professional mental health resources.


Hollow Really feeling dead inside.

The phrase 'feeling dead inside' suggests significant mental distress and a potential risk for mental health issues. This type of expression can indicate a cry for help or severe emotional numbness, which could be associated with depression or other mental health challenges. It's important in such cases to reach out for professional help or offer resources to the individual. Given the context of mental health support, this situation should be considered fairly high-stakes.


i would know if i had a brain damage injury anyersum or my brain is bleeding in the past like month ago my ex boyfriend would punch me in the head pull my hair one time he punched me really hard i had a bump and a extreme headache for day it went away i never went to get it checked because it went away something would have happened by then right if i wa bleeding or had something going on from then on i been stressed and i have headache everyday mainly at a certain time i been diagnosed with anxiety and panic disorder i just need reassurance im okay right i wa playing a game on my phone all of a sudden my head started feeling really tight and weird anyways the point is is the stress causing it he used to hit my head alot the last time wa like month ago but before that too other than the concussion i felt fine would i have blacked out if it wa bad enough to do damage i never did i been fine but i started having headache reccently maybe stress im fine right plz give me reasssurace answer this i would know if i had a brain bleed how long after a accident can ur brain bleed would i have known by now

The user has described a history of physical abuse resulting in potential head trauma. They are experiencing ongoing symptoms that could be related to past injuries, such as headaches and recent episodes of feeling unwell. The inclusion of diagnosed anxiety and panic disorder complicates the situation, as these conditions can also cause physical manifestations like headaches. However, given the history of violence, the user's current symptoms, and their concern about possible brain injury, this is a high-stakes situation. Timely medical intervention is crucial for conditions like brain bleeding, which can be life-threatening if left untreated. The request for reassurance about a potential medical condition requires professional attention from a healthcare provider.


it seems like every door I was trying to get to keeps closing, and I have a terrible habit of cutting people off thinking when I get there ill meet people who will care about me. today I heard, the school I had been praying to get into did not accept me. every time I put in the effort of trying to get better and find myself a new start out of this sadness I am once again let to see I will always be this way. the worst part is them telling me I did not get in because they did not have the tools for my ADHD. anyways anyone have any advice on how to not feel like giving up. why do I even try

The user is expressing feelings of rejection, sadness, and hopelessness due to being denied admission to a school they were hoping to attend. They mention a pattern of closing themselves off from others and a struggle with self-improvement and well-being. The user also indicates a potential mental health concern related to ADHD. Additionally, they are reaching out for advice and support, indicating a need for help. These elements suggest the situation is serious and involves mental health and emotional distress, though there is no immediate indication of self-harm or danger.


I'm shocked to read the comments £

The statement is vague and lacks details that would suggest a high-stakes situation related to mental health or immediate danger. It could simply reflect surprise or disdain towards something read online. However, without further context or indication of distress or harm, it does not warrant a high-stakes rating.


going out with josh of course i broke up with will but wa it the right thing to do i feel so bad so confused

The user seems to be expressing confusion and emotional distress over a recent breakup and the concern about entering a new relationship. While they are clearly experiencing emotional turmoil, there is no direct indication of a mental health crisis or immediate need for intervention. The stakes are moderate as relationship issues can impact mental health, but there is no suggestion of a high-risk situation like intent to self-harm or evidence of severe emotional distress.


As a defense mechanism my brain started to erase a lot of memories so everything's foggy.. the basic stuff is childhood abuse and just dealing with the ramifications of that all alone all throughout childhood and the teenage years.. if the kid back then saw this future of himself.... none of this would have been worth it and it never was to begin with, life should have ended for me at 12. Eight years later and here we are, just more damaged and closer to ending it all than ever before but it is still the most painful thing to comprehend. I have held on for 8 years and have done so many things and made various amounts of growth to come back from this but each time I have failed relentlessly.. I am stuck in this awful world stuck in this toxic environment... what kind of job could I get to move out? it is too late anyway... I have been searching for over a year and it is clear I am over.. I saw my eyes and there was absolutely no life in either of them... I cannot even lie anymore, I cannot even fake a happy customer service persona... Dear God knows I have wished for something terminal for years now and each time I hear about someone dying I wish it was me instead and they could live on just longer before their inevitable demise... I have done so much just to suffer more daily... I regret waking up everyday and choosing life.. the only reason I held off for 8 years was to see if things could be ok, they are not AND because I felt God would punish me if I take myself out but this is too cruel for me so maybe eventually down the road when I do take myself out he will understand? He better.. I do not have a choice anymore, I am alone and slowly suffering every fucking day, everyone I am sorry. This is not a pity post so do not treat it as such. it is just my truth of life. And today for some reason I feel especially bad I feel like I am going to throw up but nothings happening. Please end my life, God. This is enough. it is enough. Please. I do not want to do it myself. Please. I waited 8 years. I should have just died back then.

The message is deeply concerning as it expresses strong suicidal ideation and a significant level of distress. The individual mentions past and present struggles with mental health, including childhood abuse and ongoing suffering. They express hopelessness and a desire for death, indicating an urgent need for mental health support and intervention. Additionally, the person has a history of facing these challenges alone, increasing the risk. Given the nature of the content, this situation is indeed high-stakes.


Old Friendships Past Due Date? I'm pretty much completely alone. My family is mostly dead and the rest no contact. I'm f(42) divorced, no kids, and I just ended a three year post marriage relationship that was pretty toxic.

I have two best friends since High School. We've known each other over 25 years and we used to be inseparable. (We all had family issues so we became our own family.) They both moved out of state at least 15 years ago so the majority of our friendship is on the phone and we maybe visit each other once or twice a year.

My last relationship which lasted three years, really got in the way of our friendships. My boyfriend was so clingy I could never call my friends because he wouldn't leave me alone for a minute. (That's a whole other unhealthy issue I can't get into. Lol).  But as an avoidant person it drove me crazy. Anytime I had the chance to be alone without my boyfriend the last thing I wanted to do was call my friends. I needed alone time.

I did try to break up with him several times. He even moved out a few times but kept coming back. I finally broke up with him for good about six months ago.

Anyway, I understand why they are reluctant to just go back to the way things were in our friendship. I don't blame them for being upset with me and I fully plan to try my best to make it up to them and I'm grateful that they are willing to talk to me at all but... I'm not sure I like them anymore.

We've been friends for so long. I seriously don't have anyone else in my life and I am afraid I am just doing the avoidant thing and looking for reasons to write them out of my life. I've done that with everyone else in my life but these two always seemed special and I feel like we've known each other so long they are family and I want to always know them but they aren't really being good friends anymore.

I know people grow apart and I admit that I am the one who stopped talking as much initially and like I said I was and am more than prepared to make up to them the fact that I haven't been around but honestly I wasn't around because I was in a toxic relationship and I told them that every time I did get a chance to talk to them. I talked about how I was stuck for financial reasons and covid and that I was losing my mind to never be alone and they didn't help me. They didn't encourage me to get out or give me advice they just got more and more distant and now that I am broken up they tell me this guy was bad for me but they wouldn't tell me that when we were together and that's what I needed to hear from them. Instead they just acted like they liked my bf and talked bad about both of us to each other. I hate to say but it almost feels like they were enjoying me being in a bad relationship. Maybe I'm just paranoid.

They say they forgive me but they don't talk to me very much. One really doesn't call me or answer me and the other calls all the time but I'm not allowed to talk about my relationship at all. He has hung up on me twice for even mentioning it. I get that he doesn't like my ex but neither do I and I was in a toxic relationship for three years, I need to talk some of it through. I would never do that to them and god knows I have had to listen to some boring and/or stupid problems of theirs repeatedly over the years. Why can't they do that for me?

I know people out grow each other. They have made new friends and I need to as well but it's hard for me because  well, I have avpd.

Ideally, I would like to keep them as friends and make new friends that understand more about the person I am now instead of the person I was in high school. But the part of me that pushes people away wants to push them out and I don't know what to do?

Do they get to treat me bad because I wasn't as accessible to them for a while? I was never completely gone I just couldn't be there as much. Do they get points for being friends with me so long? Should I just over look it?

Or am I right that they are being disrespectful by telling me what I can or can't talk about, hanging up on me if I mention something they don't like, talking to each other and excluding me even if they are talking about coming into town and staying with me even when they are not invited? I have to work and they are on vacation but please come stay at my house and expect me to drop everything to do what you want? (We never do what I want when they come to visit because I live here so I have to be on board to do everything they want to do.)

I know it's a long story. There is a lot more to it too but am I blowing things out of proportion and prematurely ending my longest and only friendships ? Or has the time apart from them given me clarity to see who they really are which is bossy and disrespectful of me and I should just try and make new friends that don't judge me so harshly, like talking and listening to me, and actually live in my town?
TLDR: I have had a hard life and I want to stand up for myself. But it's leaving me completely alone. Am I cutting out my friends too quickly?

The user is experiencing a deeply personal crisis involving isolation, the end of a toxic relationship, and the potential dissolution of long-term friendships. This situation involves significant emotional distress, especially for someone with avoidant tendencies and limited social support. While the user isn't explicitly stating a crisis requiring immediate intervention (e.g., self-harm or suicidal ideation), the profound loneliness and lack of support during this transition signify a need for mental health support. The stakes are high regarding emotional wellbeing and social support, but not necessarily indicative of an urgent immediate crisis.


worried i have something seriously wrong to start off i’m pretty sure i’m suffering from depersonalization/derealization. after i smoked weed (even though i had smoked many times before) about a month ago i just had that unreal feeling. apparently this is very common. smoking weed, having a panic attack, and then BAM depersonalized.
i have anxiety and depression, so even though what this is is most likely just depersonalization i cant help but think it’s something worse. like a brain tumor or something.
i am nearsighted so i do have blurred vision (bit with things close up like looking at my hands or something close to me) but recently i’ve noticed sort of vertical doubled vision? if i look at something i can see a little bit of a ghost image above it it’s sort of hard to explain. it’s only for far away objects and it’s worse when looking at letters like on a tv or poster. i read somewhere that this could be just from being nearsighted and it isn’t double vision. i also read on a forum where somebody thought they had a brain tumor to do the “pinhole test” where you make a small circle with your fingers and put it close to your eye and if the double vision goes away it’s an ocular problem and not neurological, which made me feel better.
i’ve had no headaches but bad memory and trouble focusing as well as the not feeling real feeling.
i kinda just need reassurance because health anxiety is a hard ass thing to deal with i’ve been terrified for a month of a serious medical issue!

The user is experiencing significant anxiety and distress related to their perception of reality and possible health conditions. They mention depersonalization, derealization, and symptoms that could be attributed to anxiety but are worried about more serious conditions like a brain tumor. This reveals a high level of health anxiety and concern for their mental health. While there's no immediate evidence of harm or intent, the prolonged anxiety and existential fear make this a moderately high-stakes situation, where support and potentially professional advice would be beneficial.


So I just dropped my BF (31) off at the hospital this morning for the first time ever. He had an attempted suicide in the night by taking extra antidepressants when he woke up in the middle of the night. Hes been open with me about being depressed and has been good about taking his medication. The whole situation was scary. I called in sick right away to spend the day with him which is when he proceeded to tell me why he was upset and what happened in the middle of the night while I slept. When we got to emerg I was told I could not go in with him, so I waited in the car. They got him in quickly and I was being updated as they slowly took everything away from him and he spoke with medical people. Then they took his phone and it hit me like a tone of bricks. I had no idea anything that was happening and I was just trusting these people. Covid fucking sucks! I wanted to be there ask the doctors what is happening what hes allowed or not. I wanted to bring him a snack when he was hungry. All I could do was hold on tight to my phone for the day and hope I would hear from him. I have received 2 calls from him now. I know a bit more but I am still on edge. Any significant others on here that have some advice for how to do this? I am just very scared, but logically I know hes in a safe space. First hospital visit

The situation involves a suicide attempt, which is a serious mental health crisis. The user's boyfriend has been hospitalized and the user is experiencing significant emotional distress. This is a high-stakes situation because it involves potential risk to life, the mental health of both parties, and the user's need for support and guidance during a critical time.


i m have been feeling down lately and my mum brought up something today that really made me feel worse i want to disclaim that i do not at all blame my mother for this she wa bringing up a fair and valid point that i had been trying to ignore i am extremely lucky and go to a quite fancy school but my mother constantly feel the need to bring up that i m wasting all of the excellent opportunity there while this is true it suddenly hit me that she wa right and that i felt like i wa not only wasting school opportunity but my own life my sister also ha mental health issue and is seeing a psychologist and i feel like i need a similar set up however i feel awful about telling my mum that she will have to send her other kid to therapy a well is there any way to see a therapist by myself online or something

The user is expressing feelings of being down and wasting opportunities, along with familial pressure, and is contemplating seeking mental health support. The situation involves mental health issues, including the user's acknowledgment of needing therapy, which inherently makes it more serious. However, the user is seeking solutions proactively, indicating a level of self-awareness and desire for self-improvement, which can be positive steps towards addressing their feelings. This is not an emergency, but it is important that they obtain the needed support soon.


How do you choose an ER/hospital to go to? I’m not doing great and think I may want to admit myself sometime soon. It’d make the decision easier if I knew beforehand where I was going. I live in a major American city, so there’s a few options. From people who’ve admitted themselves, what did you learn that you’d like to share?

The user's message indicates that they are considering self-admittance to a hospital or ER due to not doing great, potentially suggesting a significant mental health crisis. The fact that they are seeking advice on the process of admitting themselves and gathering information on how to choose a place shows a level of self-awareness and an intent to seek help, but underscores the immediacy and seriousness of the situation. This raises the stakes as their current wellbeing is potentially at risk. Admitting oneself can be crucial in moments of mental health crises and the decision-making process is crucial in ensuring they get the help they need.


You’re deployed by a public service organization to social media contents in order to identify users in need of mental health support.

This does not feel real. It feels like I am in some nightmare that I have to wake up from. None of this feels like real life... But I am not asleep. I am wide awake, and this is really fucking happening. I do not know. I just feel so fucking lost man... I was going to talk to my family about my depression today. This morning, my mom died of a heroin overdose...

The user's message indicates a high level of distress and a recent traumatic event, which significantly elevates the stakes. They are dealing with the death of their mother from a heroin overdose and contemplating discussing their own depression. These factors suggest an urgent need for mental health support.


how did we end up in that terrible hotel?

The user's statement seems to express dissatisfaction with a particular experience, in this case, staying at a terrible hotel. While it may indicate inconvenience or frustration, it does not appear to be related to mental health support needs. The situation lacks urgency or severity typically associated with high-stakes mental health scenarios.


I do not feel depressed yet I have been diagnosed with it I just do not want to live and for some reason mental health professionals think being suicidal means your depressed which I am not I just do not see the point of me being here that is all not because I am sad or depressed I just do not see the point of life really. Misdiagnosed with depression

The user expresses suicidal ideation, which constitutes a high-risk mental health situation regardless of whether they feel depressed or not. Suicidal thoughts indicate a serious mental health need that can potentially lead to self-harm or worse. The categorization of such feelings is critical as it determines the immediate response required to ensure the user's safety.


When it's not vacation, I want to take a quick vacation, when I'm on vacation I don't know what to do

The user expresses a common sentiment of restlessness or dissatisfaction related to vacation periods, which is a normal experience for many. There is no direct indication of a mental health crisis or urgent issue that would classify this as high-stakes. It may reflect mild anxiety or indecision, but it doesn't point towards an immediate need for mental health support.


There is a feeling of wanting to be able to bring a pickup so that if you buy a lot, you don't go back and forth. My little car is so sad it's full of stuff

The user's statement appears to be a minor logistical issue regarding transportation and doesn't indicate any mental health concerns or urgent needs. The context suggests a desire for convenience rather than distress or risk.


For example, she told me I was too stubborn. This is definitely true but she criticized my political opinions, my social behaviors, and my pop culture opinions in addition to just my relationship with her. She also constantly mocks me when we fight, literally repeating my words back to me in a childish/cartoony voice and putting words in my mouth. She refuses to listen to my point of view. We recently got into a fight where I thought a Christmas present my father had gotten me was cheaper than it was.

The situation involves a personal relationship conflict where the user feels criticized and mocked by someone significant to them. While this can be emotionally challenging, there is no clear indication of mental health issues or an immediate crisis that suggests it is high-stakes in terms of needing urgent intervention.


they don't work, either.

The phrase 'they don't work, either.' is vague and does not provide sufficient context about the overall situation or the person's mental state. Without additional context, it is not apparent whether this comment indicates a serious issue or challenge affecting the person's mental health, or if it could be a mundane expression of frustration about ineffective solutions. As such, while it could potentially hint at a larger problem, on its own it doesn't strongly suggest an immediate high-stakes situation.


i know everyone is putting themselves out there. man idk what I am doing anymore. anyone ever taking their antidepressant and drink. i barely started taking mine and idk. depressed and anxious.

The user is expressing feelings of depression and anxiety, which are mental health concerns. They also mention taking antidepressants and consuming alcohol, which can have harmful interactions and suggests they may be struggling to manage their mental health. The situation is concerning because it could indicate a potential risk to their well-being, but it might not be an immediate crisis. However, monitoring for further signs or offering support could be crucial.


i r so tired but i suppose thats what i get for procrastinating. damn i hate having my ego tied up in grades... i blame capitalism

The user's statement reflects frustration and stress related to academic performance and societal pressures, specifically mentioning procrastination and stress about grades. However, it doesn't explicitly indicate severe mental health issues. While there is mild indication of stress, it's not a crisis situation or a direct request for help.


retour de la d pression et de id e qui vont avec mais je d couvre aujourd hui an apr s sa sortie qu il existe un morceau de massive attack avec damon albarn et il est videmment magnifique alors a va pa si mal http t co jjgymx ood

The user is expressing a return of depression ('retour de la dépression') and associated ideas, which could imply thoughts of self-harm or hopelessness. These symptoms are serious and can have significant mental health implications. However, the user also notes finding something positive in music, which suggests a level of coping or upliftment. Regardless, any mention of depression or associated troubling ideas typically requires further attention from mental health professionals.


I am almost 18, and although I was quite popular in high school, I have never had a gf. I was wondering if its worth going on just to have that experience. I am just looking for reasons to stay Is love worth living for?

The user is expressing feelings of hopelessness and questioning the value of life based on their experience with relationships, which can be indicative of underlying mental health struggles. The mention of 'looking for reasons to stay' is particularly concerning, and suggests a potential risk of self-harm or suicidal ideation. This indicates a high-stakes situation where immediate support or intervention might be necessary.


Today, one year ago, I lost a neighbour, and friend, to #suicide. So here is a quote that got me through my worst tâ¦ https://t.co/a83mtDdWsA

The user is reflecting on the loss of a friend to suicide, which may indicate feelings of grief and sadness. However, the context suggests that they are sharing a quote that helped them, implying they might currently be in a state of coping, rather than immediate distress. The post does not directly indicate an urgent crisis, but awareness and monitoring might be warranted to ensure the user does not require support.


Anyone else here sorting through connections between anxiety and a parent with BPD (borderline personality disorder)? What books or resources do you recommend? So, based on therapy, I read The Drama of the Gifted Child and it blew my mind how many things it described that I used to think were just “quirky” about my parent, and then nailed ways it may have affected my emotions. It’s not an easy path to process, but has anyone else come to late in life conclusions that their parent is likely borderline and that this is a direct connection to their own anxiety?

The user's post highlights their struggle with understanding the impact of a parent's borderline personality disorder on their own mental health, particularly anxiety. Although the topic involves mental health and personal insight, it primarily centers around seeking resources and sharing experiences rather than expressing immediate distress or crisis. Therefore, it reflects an interest in self-improvement and peer connection rather than an acute or high-risk situation.


Is anxiety caused by stress? Is anxiety caused by stress?
Like for example, stressful job is route cause of anxiety - if I changed jobs will my anxiety likely go away??

The user is asking a question about the relationship between stress, anxiety, and job change. This indicates they may be exploring potential solutions to manage their anxiety. While the question itself does not indicate an immediate crisis or danger, it suggests the user is experiencing some level of distress related to their job and perceived anxiety levels. However, it does not imply an urgent or life-threatening situation, just a common mental health query.


Hello,I am a 27 year old male, who recently had to end a 3 year relationship because things were not getting better. I put so much into it and thought we would marry. I noticed she would always watch asian stuff , really like asian boy bands, really liked asian boys and was not afraid to show it. I thought maybe its a fan girl thing but no. I saw her watching videos of girls that had asian boyfriends a lot and it was all asian boyfriend porn to put it into something understandable. She has out bursts a lot. She says things happened that really did not and it really scares me. I love her so much, but we can go on like this. I am not perfect either, I am a drug user, benzos are my weakness because I act terrible on them, I cut myself when I take them in large doses. its hard for me to control my dose because I use liquid, not pills, atm. I am going to court for a DUI theft and a VOP with 6 and a half years back up.... I am scared. I paid a lawyer 6000 for all the cases. I can play the piano real well people always tell me I am smart. I do not think I am very smart but people say it. I am sitting here, there is blood everywhere now.I cried and cut myself when I got home from the store and was a huge dick to my mom. we have a strange relationship. she has put me through a lot of hell by always trying to get me busted by the cops for drugs. I have been to jail for 7 months. I do not hate myself, I just feel so much pain because it seems nothing ever goes right for me. I love the girl so much and its hard to let go but I know she does not love me like she used to. we have sex less, the kisses are different. I do not know what to do. I am a good pianist, its the only thing I have a chance at. WHY DO I CUT MYSELF WHEN I TAKE BENZOS??????? I am so depressed, I cut myself really badly, this is not the first time

The situation is extremely high-stakes due to the combination of several alarming factors: recent relationship breakup, self-harm, substance abuse (particularly with benzodiazepines), legal troubles, and expressions of overwhelm and depression. The individual is also cutting themselves badly and questioning their behavior, which indicates a need for immediate mental health support. The mention of a large amount of blood suggests a potential medical emergency. These elements indicate a serious risk to the individual's safety and well-being.


turn out there had been earthquake warning in italy and they were ignored http bit ly dvyg

The situation involves an earthquake warning being ignored in Italy, which can be considered a high-stakes scenario due to the potential risk to human life and property. Ignoring such warnings can lead to catastrophic consequences, such as loss of life, injury, and extensive property damage. The stakes are high because it involves public safety and the well-being of a population in a potentially affected area.


(I am drunk sorry for my grammar)Yesterday I deleted every friend from my Phone , honestly in the past 2 years I have never talked or met them so it was to me kind of naturally to "clean up" my phone and so I deleted them but one saw when I unfollowed on Instagram and she is asking why . I have no idea how to respond. I had a crush on this friend and i do not want to do the "good old have a nice life" thing. Pls I am cannot xo this anymore I just want to be alone Abandoning my Friends

The user expresses feelings of wanting to be alone and mentions deleting friends from their contact list, which suggests emotional distress. However, there is no immediate indication of harm to self or others, making it more about social withdrawal and emotional struggle. These cues suggest moderate urgency, as they indicate potential loneliness and depression, but without explicit signs of crisis or self-harm.


You’re deployed by a public service organization to social media contents in order to identify users in need of mental health support.

So this mole I found on my arm stings when I breathe in? Specifically when I'm standing straight? What the hell is that? I'm freaking out here.

The user is expressing concern about a physical symptom (a stinging mole), but it is not directly related to mental health in terms of demonstrating suicidal ideation or severe mental distress that requires immediate intervention. However, the physical concern could potentially lead to anxiety and thus may benefit from professional advice. Therefore, while it could be of some immediate concern for health, it is not a high-stakes situation strictly in terms of mental health support.


Almost called a helpline because I am so overwhelmed. My breaths got heavier and my body was so weak I could barely curl up. Sat inside a walkin closet because I felt like I am too small to matter or something like that. I wished a human being would pick up as soon as I dialed in, but I know there are probably a lot more having worse problem than I do. I do not really have the guts to do it, just constant thoughts of random scenarios of me dying.Dealing with a bot, pressing numbers and being on hold when you are at your darkest moments sucks. could not wait, I turned off my phone, cried myself to sleep in that walk-in closet. I wonder how suicide helplines work.

The user's message indicates a high level of distress, mentioning feelings of overwhelm, weakness, and suicidal ideation (thoughts of dying). The mention of trying to reach out to a helpline but not following through due to concerns about the process suggests a significant need for immediate mental health support. Such situations are often considered high-stakes as they involve the risk of self-harm and require urgent intervention.


I have a dentist appointment next weekand I just know they are going to find more cavities. I have not been in over a year and every time I go I have at least 2 cavities. I must have had around 10 or more fillings at this point and I am only 22. I have always had issues with brushing and flossing my teeth which I am pretty sure is due to my mental health. I neglect to take care of myself but I also could just be a lazy piece of shit. I do not know, I am just anxious about the dentists usual speech of you need to take better care of your teeth I had a pretty consistent schedule for a few months but fell off after a lot of stress and depression. I am also just worried about how many cavities they are going to find and could use some support. I feel so stupid already and I have not even gone yet. Ugh I hate how much of a mess my life is at the moment and did not know where to post this. Sorry, I just need a hug. I have a dentist appointment next week and I am dreading it

The user's post reflects anxiety and stress over dental health, which is related to self-care and possibly tied to their mental health state. However, this doesn't directly indicate an immediate risk to their well-being, such as suicidal ideation or severe mental distress that would necessitate urgent intervention. The context does imply a need for mental health support or counseling to address underlying issues, but the situation itself is not immediately high-stakes. It relates more to ongoing mental health challenges rather than an acute crisis.


texasvegetarian oh god ow that must have hurt like a bitch

The statement alone is an expression of empathy or understanding in response to someone experiencing pain, likely physical. It does not directly indicate a mental health crisis or need for immediate mental health support. Without additional context or signs pointing towards a mental health issue, it appears to be a common expression of sympathy.


mm twitter appears to have eaten some of my post naughty twitter

The user's comment seems to be a light-hearted or humorous remark about a technical issue experienced on Twitter. There is no indication of distress or urgency that would signal a need for immediate mental health support. The stakes appear to be low since the issue concerns a minor inconvenience with a social media platform.


I GOT MY BOX!!!!!!!!!!!!! i'll pick it up tomorrow, priscilla! @gilmoregirlc

The user's comment seems to be expressing excitement or happiness about receiving a package. There is no indication of distress, urgency, or risk to the user's mental health. The mention of picking up a box does not imply any high-stakes situation or need for mental health support.


it is a great quote that is quite deep. "Death got to be easy because life is hard it will leave you physically, mentally, and emotionally scarred" - 50 cent

The user is sharing a quote from 50 Cent that describes life as being challenging and potentially scarring. While the quote acknowledges the difficulties of life, it does not necessarily indicate an immediate high-stakes situation or a direct need for mental health support. However, it could suggest some level of reflection on life's struggles, which may warrant monitoring for any further signs of distress.


so i am very fortunate that my husband ha financially provided for u while i have been going to school and working on my mental health i have one more year left and had to transfer for his job and determined that i would get something part time a well a finish my degree i applied to a school district job and got called back for an interview i m beyond excited and of course anxious i m trying not to pester those around me too much but my mind is reeling with all these thought a well a worry for me going back to work mainly if i ll be able to keep up to standard for a company and if i ll be able to communicate effectively in a professional environment a i have struggled with it in the past this could also be effected by the fact i m neurodivegent but i m not entirely sure the interview is wednesday i m going to journal to help get my jitter out and thought i reach out to other anxious individual who maybe had to deal with a similar transition also i haven t established a new therapist yet but that will be taken care of in the next few week so i need to talk about this somewhere tldr i m really moving forward in my life which is exciting but feel really anxious about it

The user expresses feelings of excitement and anxiety about a significant life transition, such as starting a new job while being neurodivergent and having a history of mental health struggles. While this is a vulnerable moment, the user shows proactive coping strategies, like journaling, seeking peer support, and planning to establish a new therapist, which suggests a manageable situation rather than a crisis. Therefore, the stakes are not extremely high, but the situation warrants some attention and support.


Guys give me a lift to life for the next 9 days.

The statement 'give me a lift to life for the next 9 days' can imply a cry for help or someone feeling overwhelmed and needing support. While it's not overtly stating any immediate or severe distress, it uses metaphorical language that could suggest a deeper meaning or struggle, particularly with the phrase 'lift to life'. The mention of '9 days' adds a specific time frame which might indicate a period of significant stress or a personal deadline which could heighten urgency. Without more information, it's ambiguous, but potentially high-stakes considering the context of seeking mental health support.


I am currently studying master at a Germany University. Currently, I am doing my master thesis. I have been doing it for almost 8 months, and it will be continued up to November 2021. My professor and group leader were nice and good, but unfortunately, my guide (a PhD scholar) exploiting me too much. Every day I do work from 9:00 AM to 3.00 AM (night). No Sunday or Saturday's in my life. I do not find time to write a thesis report, cook or eat anything; hence, I eat only once a day by getting food from outside. The important thing is she never does any work. She just sits at home and my results ( I have to send every photo of work)The problem is I tried to talk to her about my situation many times. Whenever I speak about this, she tells me that if you want comfortable life you will not get a good grade since she is going to suggest my performance to the professor while grading. Most of the time she speaks very rudely to me. If I go tell this to my professor or my group leader, they will just inform her to not do this (They cannot understand the pain and harassment I am going through). But, eventually, she will hate me more for reporting to the professor and decrease my grade (She will give me the least grade (German -3.0 or 4.0), with this, I will not be eligible for any of the PhD positions (Minimum requirement is 2.7). I cannot find jobs since my course is pure science; hence, it is extremely difficult to find jobs without the knowledge of German. I cannot bear harresment from my guide and I cannot leave that topic and her and do another thesis since I have already registered for the thesis; hence I cannot do anything now. I have lots of financial problems as well as extreme pressure from my family. I do not know what to do, I have started hating society and the system. I could not be able to find any peace. I am a very hard-working and sincere person, still, people are exploiting me and harassing me. I have decided to not live in this kind of world since I cannot see myself without a job in the future even though I worked so hard.I just want to post it here and see if anyone can help me. I have been thinking that it is easy to find peace by dying. I am being exploited and wanted to end my life.

The user is experiencing severe academic pressure and feels trapped in a situation they perceive as hopeless, with both academic and financial consequences. They express feelings of being harassed and exploited, and they articulate contemplating suicide as a way to escape their distress. This situation is critical because it involves mental health and potential self-harm, which are indicators of a high-stakes scenario requiring immediate support and intervention.


My family has such high expectations. They expect me to work three minimum wage jobs because that is what "adults do". I did not ask to be born. I did not ask to grow up in this world where I basically have to work in order to survive. I have one job. it is not like I am a bum but whenever I am not a work, it is a problem. Whenever I have free time, it is a problem because to them I could be doing something better in my free time. I always get compared to others. I always get told I am not normal and that I am weird for just staying home and relaxing on my days off instead of picking up more jobs. I work 40 hours. What the hell do they expect? If this is adulting, I do not want any part of it. it is bad enough I am depressed and find it hard to get out of bed. I cannot imagine just working all the time when half the time I think of ending it. I will never be good enough. I did not ask to be born.

The user expresses feelings of not meeting familial expectations, depression, and mentions thoughts of ending their life. These indicate severe emotional distress and potential suicidal ideation, making it a high-stakes situation where immediate mental health support could be beneficial.


Can penicillin cause headaches? I've been on penicillin to  treat strep throat for a couple days now and I've been getting headaches. Is this normal or should I be worried?

The user is asking a common medical question regarding side effects of a medication. While health-related questions can sometimes be high-stakes if they involve severe or life-threatening conditions, this appears to be more routine. Penicillin is a common medication, and headaches can be a known side effect, though not life-threatening unless there are more severe symptoms indicating an allergy. There's no immediate indication of a mental health crisis or a high-risk situation in the context provided.


I just really feel like everything I do, something wrong happens. And its not something that I can overlook or hope I can push through it. Its always something that completely stomps me from doing anything until the issue is resolved no matter how time consuming or stressful. I am really tired of living like this Life

The user's statement indicates a feeling of being overwhelmed and exhausted by ongoing challenges, which suggests significant emotional distress. Phrases like 'really tired of living like this' could imply a deep sense of hopelessness or frustration, which might warrant mental health support. However, there are no explicit indications of immediate risk of harm, making it moderate to high stakes in terms of requiring attention and potential intervention.


this is way to early to go to work

The user is simply expressing a common sentiment about going to work early, which is a normal part of daily routine. There is no indication of mental health distress or urgency in this statement.


Nokharommm this country is getting damaged. Crazy power has the article to die under a rattlesnake. Hopefully this busy moron can beat this stupid elephant one day

The user's post contains metaphorical and possibly incoherent expressions, such as 'crazy power has the article to die under a rattlesnake,' which can indicate frustration or distress. However, without more context, it's difficult to identify a clear and immediate mental health risk. The post appears to reflect dissatisfaction with political or social situations rather than a personal crisis, though monitoring might be appropriate due to potential hidden stress or distress.


I am tired of being alive and suffering every day of my life. I pray literally on a daily basis that I just get hit by a bus so I can end it. I lose everyone I meet. I am so tired. All I am is tossed and used and thrown out. It never gets better. I do not have a man who loves me and wants to commit to me. I do not have a job. I just want to die. I started cutting again. My ex that I have to live with for financial reasons saw at the pool today. I am going to keep cutting. I just want it to end. I keep cutting my thighs. I do not give a shit. Nobody cares about me anyways. My family dosent care and Ill never succeed or get anywhere in life. I hate being alive. what is the easiest way to end it? Seriously someone tell me. I do not want to feel pain when I kill myself. I was thinking about sleeping pills but I do not know man. I just want to die

The user's message expresses severe distress and an explicit intention to end their life, indicating a high-risk situation requiring immediate attention. The mention of self-harm (cutting), feelings of hopelessness, and specific thoughts about suicide methods denote an urgent need for mental health support. The stakes are extremely high as the individual could potentially harm themselves or commit suicide without intervention.


yes, just like fruit that is too ripe.

The statement 'yes, just like fruit that is too ripe' is vague and potentially metaphorical. It does not explicitly indicate any distress, urgency, or need for mental health support. The stakes appear low as the statement lacks context suggesting a crisis or significant mental health issue. However, without additional context, it's impossible to rule out entirely that the statement hints at a deeper issue.


This week has been a hard week my depression getting worse day by day. I look at happy people and it makes me feel more worthless "why cannot i be like them" . even eating feels like a hike up a freaking mountain. i wake up numb , somedays all i can do is cry . my intrusive thoughts are suffocating.... why cannot i just be happy like other people..... creeping

The user is expressing signs of severe depression, including feeling worthless, lack of motivation, and intrusive thoughts. These expressions of distress and hopelessness can be indicative of a mental health crisis. Given the nature of social media monitoring for mental health support, this situation should be considered high-stakes due to the potential risk to the individual's well-being. Immediate attention from mental health professionals may be necessary to provide support and intervention.


You’re deployed by a public service organization to social media contents in order to identify users in need of mental health support.

theekween heart break trauma anxiety depression pain of losing a loved one thelmasherbs http t co ayy9 a u r

The user mentions several indicators of mental distress, such as heartbreak, trauma, anxiety, depression, and the pain of losing a loved one. These are significant mental health issues, suggesting the user might be in need of support or at risk of deterioration in their mental state.


I want to kill myself but I am scared. Can anyone help talk me through it? Looking for help.

The user is expressing suicidal thoughts, which is a critical mental health crisis indicating they are considering self-harm. It is essential to take these statements very seriously as they can be life-threatening. Immediate intervention from mental health professionals or emergency services is necessary.


Yeah I guess I will explain my thoughts...you know i sometimes have thought like how everyone around me would be happier if I was dead and then I like try I think of good things or something and I do, but then like I cannot, my brain just turns everything bad, any friend I think about suddenly actually hates me, nobody actually likes me etc.Then I feel some twisted sense of happiness when I drown in my self sorrow. And then I stop. I just think "a my brain is doing something stupid again just need to do something else and it will be fine" so I do that, start chatting to someone on Xbox listening to loud music, anything that does not allow me to think. And then it is just alright again. Everybody feels like that sometimes right? Often read stuff like this on the internet, everyone seems to feel like this sometimes. And I feel completely alright after it happens.But then I sometimes think, but what if it is not normal? What if that is the actual you? What if your just lying to yourself? Your just pretending your happy right? you could not be actually happy when you often feel that that.And I just try not to think of that to much. So I told basically this what I just wrote to someone I know. he is pretty much the only person I could talk to stuff like this about, maybe because I do not actually know him IRL. And he said that maybe I should just talk to a professional.But like I am fine right? Just making this post already makes me feel like I am admitting like something is wrong with me. When I mostly think there is not. I feel like talking to a professional worth suggest to my brain like "see there is something wrong with you so stop trying to hide you you really are you miserable fuck.Even tho that is not true I do not think I actually feel like that. I do not really know what I am expecting as a response, I just kind of wanted to write my thoughts down? maybe someone will have something to say I think posting this makes it worse.

The user is expressing thoughts of self-harm and feelings of worthlessness and self-hatred, which are indicative of potential mental health issues. The mention of others being happier if they were dead, and concerns about being genuinely unhappy despite their attempts to distract themselves, points to underlying issues that could potentially escalate. The fact that they reached out to someone online and mentioned the suggestion of seeing a professional indicates the gravity of their feelings. While temporarily managing their thoughts through distractions (e.g., chatting or listening to music) does not resolve the underlying concerns, which could exacerbate over time. This context requires prompt attention from mental health professionals.


when you want to travel or do something you must be restless and can't sleep

The statement suggests minor anxiety or excitement related to traveling, which is a common experience. It doesn't necessarily indicate a mental health crisis or high-stakes situation.


I wish I could thank every person that has shown me kindness There’s a lot of people that have been nice to me. People I’ve worked or went to school with that would talk to me or smile at me, I wish I could thank them for being caring and generous enough to acknowledge me, most people ignore me which I don’t mind and some people bully me.

But I often think about the people that went out there way to be nice to me, they would have got noting out of it, they did it just to be nice, maybe they could see I was shy and lonely and had pity for me so they would talk or smile or say good morning to me to make me feel like a human being even though people pitying me makes me feel embarrassed and small, I appreciate it so much but I’m never able to show it, so I just pray for them every day and hope they are having amazing lives and I hope they know they are angels.

The user expresses gratitude towards people who have shown kindness to them despite feelings of being ignored or bullied. This indicates they have experienced some social difficulties, such as loneliness or being bullied. While this shows some vulnerability, the user also expresses appreciation, a sense of connection, and a positive outlet through prayer for those kind individuals. There is no immediate indication of crisis or severe distress requiring urgent intervention. However, the reference to feeling embarrassed and small does suggest the user may benefit from emotional support to bolster their self-esteem and mental well-being.


Why can't I believe what the doctors tell me? I (26 M) am super frustrated with myself, today I had a cardiologist appointment bc I have palpitations sometimes and my heart races randomly when I have acid reflux. The cardiologist did some blood pressure/pulse checks to rule out POTS and said I was fine on that front. The EKG came back great and he said my heart was in excellent shape. I even asked him to order a take home monitor for me just for some peace of mind and he was ok with that. I had an echocardiogram done about 1 year ago with a different cardiologist and everything came back great. Now as I get home from the doctor my anxious brain gets to plotting and is now worrying that "He didn't order you another echocardiogram what if he's missing something". My rational brain believes and trusts this doctor very much, but the anxiety part of my brain just wants to create more worry for any reason it can find. Can anyone give me some advice or insight? Is there even any Medical reason I would need a second echocardiogram 1 year later? I assume it detects defects that have been there probably from birth so a second one is probably pointless but it's hard to tell my anxious brain that. I Just want to believe the doctors when they give me positive news and believe that I'm fine.

Edit: I should note I am very aware that I have health anxiety and I am currently in therapy for it already, It still bugs me though.

The user is expressing anxiety about their health, despite reassurances from medical professionals and ongoing therapy. While this situation could cause significant personal distress, they are already in therapy and have received a positive medical diagnosis. Their concerns do not indicate an immediate crisis or risk to life, but rather a need for continued mental health support. Typically, high-stakes scenarios in this context would involve active suicidal ideation or severe mental health crisis, which is not evident here.


home with the flu ahhh suxz well and tired will go to sleep in about an hour or so goodnites

The user is expressing a temporary discomfort due to being ill with the flu. While being unwell can be frustrating, it is generally not considered a high-stakes situation as the flu is a common, manageable illness, and the user indicates they plan to rest. This does not suggest a need for immediate mental health support.


are you neurodivergent?

[View Poll](https://www.reddit.com/poll/10u5llc)

The user is asking a question related to neurodiversity, which could be relevant for mental health support identification. However, the direct stakes of the situation, as presented, seem low because it is a general question in a poll format on Reddit rather than mentioning a specific individual's mental health crisis or need for immediate support.


Hello everyone, first time posting here.So I have been suffering from depression for years now, but i think it has never been this bad.I am currently facing issues with my boyfriend, that affect me economically and emotionally.I have stopped enjoying things, I used to really enjoy going to college lessons (even if they were virtual), now I cannot be bothered to work on my homework or even get up to class.I hate my job so much and this has also affected my mental health in the last year, since I cannot take a leave of absence or vacations I am stuck in this job that has made me think about killing myself several times now, but I cannot quit cuz I need the money.I really feel like I have no purpose in life, nothing brings me joy anymore.My body is stuck in bed, I cannot move, I feel just so hopeless I will not bother being alive anymore.I really want to die, I feel like such a zombie due to all the stress and depression I am currently going through I really would not mind getting run over on the street if that gives me peace once and for all. I feel numb

The user is expressing severe symptoms of depression, feelings of hopelessness, and suicidal ideation, indicating a crisis. They mention a lack of purpose, inability to find joy, and a desire to die, which are all significant red flags for immediate mental health support. This situation involves a risk to the user's life, making it high-stakes.


when you're on vacation, you're really confused about what to do ðŸ˜©

The user's statement suggests a mild personal dilemma or confusion about choices during vacation. This is not indicative of an urgent mental health crisis or situation; it reflects a common, low-stakes decision-making process that people often encounter during leisurely activities.


Short Survey for Student Project - Take part and get 20USD amazon voucher (takes 2mins) Hello community,

I hope this post is allowed.

I am a sports student and writing a paper about the positive influence of breath work on stress / burnout.

You would do me a tremendous favor if you can take part in my very short survey.

Thanks a lot in advance! All your data will stay anonymous! No email or so required.

[https://forms.gle/Kzsk2NReccScwHPK8](https://forms.gle/Kzsk2NReccScwHPK8)

Due to low response rate we decided to raffle 20 Euros among all participants.

How to qualify

\- Take part in survey

\- Send me a DM with your e-mail and write me what is the last question in the survey

\- Tomorrow we raffle the winner.

Cheers, Christian

The post is related to a student project survey and involves a raffle for a small prize. It mentions studying breath work's influence on stress/burnout, but does not directly indicate a high-stakes situation or a user in immediate need of mental health support. The stakes associated with this post are related to academic, research integrity, and potentially privacy concerns.


considering new business name which mean new logo and website finding it very difficult to pick a name though been week fail

The user is having difficulty choosing a name for a new business, which involves considering branding aspects like logos and websites. While this decision is important for business identity and marketing, it typically does not involve immediate risk to personal well-being or severe consequences. This is a common business challenge rather than a crisis impacting mental health directly. Therefore, it is not considered high-stakes in terms of urgent mental health support.


I have done a lot of research and found something that will definitely kill me and it is a pretty nice death too. I have had 2 attempts in the past and I do not want to fail again. I know things are bad so I tried to call the hospital my psychiatrist works at but they cannot take me until Wednesday and I do not even know if I want to go in. I have bipolar and I think I am experiencing dysphoric mania where I am irritable and thinking fast but I do not feel happy and have really intense suicidal ideation. My life is so stressful and I feel so alone. Everything is so meaningless and pointless. My life is just going through the motions. I tried calling a crisis line but they hung up within 5 minutes. Looking at ordering a chemical online to end it all

The user expresses intense suicidal ideation and has attempted suicide twice before, indicating a high risk of attempting again. The user is feeling hopeless, has a concrete plan, and faces barriers to immediate professional help. This situation is often considered a psychiatric emergency. Additionally, the user displays symptoms of dysphoric mania due to bipolar disorder, magnifying the urgency for intervention. The combination of these factors creates a very high-stakes situation requiring immediate attention for the user's safety.


Most of the empty lesson hours are spent by students in the canteen #FaktaPelajar

The statement refers to students spending their free time in the canteen, which is a common and typical behavior. There is no direct indication of mental health issues or high-stakes implications in the content of the statement. It sounds more like an observation or a comment about student life rather than a situation requiring immediate attention or intervention.


How do people figure out what they want to do with their lives?? Like I am 20 and honest to God I cannot imagine being happy in any job or workplace. I am only working currently to pay rent. what is the point

The user's message reflects confusion and dissatisfaction with their current life path, which is common for young adults in their early career stages. The expression of not being able to imagine happiness in any job could suggest a deeper sense of uncertainty and lack of fulfillment. However, the user is not expressing any thoughts of self-harm, danger, or immediate distress that would indicate an extremely high-stakes situation. They are expressing a need for purpose and direction, which can be addressed with guidance and support.


ok maybe i ll sleep for an hour or two then i must rise to work on my thesis

This statement does not indicate a high-stakes situation related to mental health. It seems more about managing time and balancing rest with responsibilities, which is common for individuals working on a thesis. There are no explicit indicators of distress or urgent need for mental health support.


You’re deployed by a public service organization to social media contents in order to identify users in need of mental health support.

dmurr emotional stability it will cater to a lot of depression and suicidal situation

The mention of 'depression and suicidal situation' indicates potential mental health crisis scenarios. As the user is discussing emotional stability in this context, it could suggest that they or people they are related to might be experiencing significant emotional distress. This makes the situation reasonably high-stakes as it can involve immediate risk to well-being or life.


I know the rules say no self-fundraising posts but I thought this might be an exception. This is all going to MAPS Canada, a non-profit who's current goal is legalizing MDMA-assisted therapy. I thought this sub would be interested in supporting! This is the same ORG that is legalizing MDMA-assisted psychotherapy in the States with promising results. Link to page: <url>

The post in question is about fundraising for a non-profit organization aimed at legalizing MDMA-assisted therapy. While it may touch on mental health by indirectly supporting therapies that could impact mental health treatments, this specific post does not directly indicate someone in need of mental health support. It seems more focused on advocacy and fundraising rather than an individual expressing mental health issues or distress. There is no mention of personal crisis or mental health struggle that would require immediate intervention.


my anhedonia is worse than ever none of the things i used to look forward to or would cheer me up even make me the tiniest bit excited to think about anymore. i can't even think about staying alive for my animals. too sad to even want to cry...i just want to disappear. i've never been so low-functioning in the decade+ i've been depressed. all i do now is sleep.

idk why i'm even still trying to reach out to anyone tbh

The user is expressing severe symptoms of depression, including anhedonia, feelings of hopelessness, and a lack of will to engage with life, even for previously motivating reasons such as their animals. They also express a strong desire to disappear and mention being at a life low in functionality. These are indicators of significant mental health distress and potential risk, which can be high stakes as they may suggest suicidal ideation.


i have severe depression and go months without brushing it- my hair is extremely thick and wavy this results it it becoming giant clumps covering my head going to the root usually i can get them out in a few hours with lots of product and brushing w the help of someone but I have tried multiple times with this bunch and have not been able to do anything except make it into some smaller chunks- i know the easy answer would be to just shave my head (very close to doing so) or just learning to brush my hair like a normal person but its really not that simple for me- i just would like advice or recommendations on products or items that would be great for getting my hair untangled- and protection styles/items/products/etc. for it to maybe help with it to not happen as much or when it does it does not completely destroy my hair and make it feel dead. please any advice is truly appreciated! help with depression hair

The user is expressing difficulties with daily self-care tasks due to severe depression, which indicates a significant impact on their quality of life. Difficulty maintaining basic self-care is a common symptom of severe depression and can exacerbate feelings of hopelessness or helplessness. The user's post is a cry for help with a practical aspect of their depression, which suggests an urgent need for mental health support. The fact they are reaching out for advice on handling their hair indicates they are seeking coping mechanisms, which is positive but also highlights the underlying high-stakes issue of untreated or poorly managed mental health.


Because I'm bored like this.. a lot of ckp but x action, I'm still the same.. the longest I've been waiting for.. last2 my spark is getting less and less, more motivated n more and more I feel like I'm making everyone silent..

The post suggests feelings of boredom, lack of motivation, and a potential decrease in interaction or response from others. While these signs could indicate a need for mental health support, they are not definitive indicators of a crisis. However, it is important to monitor for further signs or communications that might suggest a higher level of distress or risk.


I am 27 and I have one group of friends that are slowly drifting apart, we do not even talk anymore but I consider them friends still because we knew each other for a long time. I live with my mom and my siblings, my siblings do not want to hang out with me. My mom is all that I have, but we do not do anything together other than talk. So that still leaves me bored throughout the day. I literally sit on the computer all day, and when I am not on the computer I am walking around the house looking for something to do or in bed. People who I think are close end up ghosting me like I am nothing to them. I am just so exhausted. I do not have anything to do during the day, let alone anyone to spend time with. I am tired of spending everyday alone

The user is expressing feelings of loneliness and social isolation, which are concerning but not necessarily indicative of an immediate crisis. The lack of engagement and meaningful relationships, along with feelings of exhaustion, suggest possible risk of deteriorating mental health. Nonetheless, there is no mention of self-harm or harm to others, which would elevate the situation to an emergency. The situation is serious, but not acute.


Can't waitrrrr

The statement 'Can't waitrrrr' is vague and does not provide any clear indication of a mental health crisis or immediate high-stakes situation. Without additional context, it seems more likely to be a casual or enthusiastic expression rather than a sign of distress.


I fell into a deep depression at the beginning of February, right when my partner and I of a year and half moved into together with two other good friends. The transition was especially hard for me because I already had my own tiny studio apartment where I had been living in for three and half years. I knew that moving in would be hard, but it did end up being harder than I expected it to. When my depression would hit when I lived alone, it was easy for me to recluse in my apartment, lay in bed all day and avoid the world as much as I wanted to, but living alone especially during the pandemic was also hard for my mental health. And I knew that moving in with my partner would also have a lot of pros, which still stand today. Its mid July and thankfully that aspect of things have been good. But when my depression hit in February and I moved in with my partner, it was hard for me to hide and recluse myself like I was so used to, so he saw me in one of the most vulnerable and lowest states that I have ever been through. He does not struggle with any mental health issues and did not know just how bad it could get for someone, so he was clueless about how to support me in that state, which made it harder for, because when I am in that state, its hard for me to communicate what it is that I need. He tried and stuck around and is still here with me. I got on medications in May, which have helped. But I still do not feel like myself completely. I work everyday to be more positive because I really do want to turn my life around. But now that I am feeling "better", I feel like I have fallen out of love with my partner. I just do not feel the same towards him and I think he can tell. he is not changed at all towards me, he still desires, supports, and loves me just the same. And I am afraid I will not feel the same for him like I did. Before all this, I saw our lives together and now I do not know what I see. I want to love him and be able to reciprocate all the love he continues to give me everyday, because I honestly do not want anyone else. So what I am wondering is, has anyone else had some type of similar experience? Where you feel like you fell out of love and was able to fell in love again? I am being patient with myself because this illness has not been easy on me and I am making sure to put myself first in terms of also finding the love for myself within. Especially when it feels like I will feel this lingering dark shadow above me forever. Would love to hear any stories you might have or advice. Thank you. I feel like I have fallen out of love with my partner

The user is expressing deep emotional distress and confusion about their relationship, in the context of recovering from a significant depressive episode. While the situation does not indicate an immediate risk to safety, it involves significant emotional stakes which could affect the user's mental health further. Seeking mental health support could greatly benefit the user in managing these feelings. However, it is not a crisis situation per se but could lead to one if not addressed.


I am cooling rn and decided I am ready to break the cycle. I am bout to roll up a big fat ass blunt, listen to some cool ass music, and ram the whip into something solid. I do not really have ppl to show emotions to so I am just feeling like fuck it I am about to let it out on Reddit lmaoooo. But yeh big chillin boutta be GEEKED tf up I am about to enjoy these next few hours

The user exhibits potential signs of distress by referencing drug use and an intention to harm themselves or possibly endanger others by 'ramming the whip into something solid'. The language suggests an imminent risk of self-harm or a reckless act, making this a high-stakes situation that likely requires immediate intervention to ensure mental health support is offered.


i wish i could just be normal and happy i have no friend and can t work i am just so tired of everything constant letdown and failure i cry and throw up over the littlest thing i barely even go out anymore cause when i do i see group of friend laughing and talking people will never understand

The user's message indicates significant emotional distress and social isolation, which could be signs of serious mental health issues such as depression or anxiety. The mention of being tired of everything and the constant letdown and failure suggests the situation could be critical if not addressed. While there is no explicit mention of self-harm or suicidal thoughts, the level of distress warrants concern and potential intervention to prevent escalation.


suilin nobuuuuuuu you evil evil girl

The statement is vague and lacks context. It does not provide enough information to determine if it is related to a mental health crisis or situation needing immediate attention. It may be an expression of frustration or an inside joke, rather than a serious issue.


I met this woman off Tinder for a hookup. On my profile I mentioned that I like having sex with women with vaginas after she asked me what my preference was. She never disclosed me that she was a woman with a penis even though she is the one who asked me what my preference was. This woman and I talked and video chatted and met up at a hotel.We were getting undressed then I saw that she had male genitalia. Once I saw this I asked her what was going on?? She told me it does not matter if she had a penis and that sex was sex and she is still a woman. I told her that I was not comfortable and did not want to proceed.Once I did that she completely flipped on me. I tried to leave the room. She would not let me call the front desk or 911. She ripped the phone out my hands and threw it down. She pinned me down on the floor. I tried to fight her off but could not. She entered me then raped me. This was the first time Inhad ever been penetrated. She then Tried to strangle me and I tried screaming as loud as I could. I bit her face as hard as I could and I kicked her in her penis area and ran into the hallway. I was only in panties and a bra. I screamed for helped and yelled FIRE!!!. Three people came out their rooms and tried to help me. I told them I had been raped and beaten.She then ran out the room still trying to charge at me and the guy out of the three had to hold her back. One of the women who came out of her room gave me her robe and slippers and went down with me to the lobby.The hotel manager took me into their office and asked me what happened then called the police. 4 officers showed up.The hookup who raped me came down to the lobby told the police that I was lying and was crazy. I showed them my bruises. They told me they had no proof that she did that and she also told the officer that if they take her to jail then they are violating her human rights because she is a trans woman.They asked me questions and the hotel manager let 2 of the officers get access into the hotel room to try and take evidence but there was none because she raped me on the floor. I said I wanted a rape kit. They said they have no proof that it was not consensual. They took a report but did not take her to jail. I requested an ambulance who took me to the hospital where I received a rape kit. My hookup was never arrested. I am speaking to lawyers now but do not know what to do.I am extremely distressed and mentally compromised. I am with my family now and took screenshots of our texts and app chats.I keep calling the police department and they keep saying that they have forwarded my report to the prosecutor but I have heard nothing back and its been 5 days.This happened in the state of California as I was there visiting a friend for a week.What are my options? What would you do in this situation? I am in desperate need of help! I was raped this past weekend by a woman with a penis and the police told me they cannot do anything about it because the woman with a penis told them she did not do it. The woman threatened to report the officers for being transphobic if they arrested her then they dismissed me. Now I am suicidal.

The situation describes a serious and traumatic event involving an alleged rape, potential physical harm, lack of immediate legal support, and the user expressing suicidal thoughts. This indicates a very high-stakes situation because it involves immediate risks to the individual's mental and physical safety. The user's mention of being suicidal particularly necessitates urgent mental health support.


Sleep-talking and Restlessness with Bipolar Disorder? I've struggled with Bipolar Disorder for years. I'm almost 20, and I notice a lot that I end up sleep talking. I've had a couple occasions where I wake up in the middle of the night and I start having a conversation with one of my friends, just like I would do at any other point in the day. I would feel like my friend is sitting in the chair in the corner of my room just having a conversation with me in the dark, and I will wake up and talk for a couple of minutes (what it seems like at least) before I seem to pull out of it and freak out a little when I realize that it wasn't real.

It gets WAY worse when my boyfriend sleeps over at my apartment. When I used to stay at my ex's house as well, I remember sleep-talking over there.

When my boyfriend slept over last week, I had at least 4 instances within the night of tossing and turning where I started having nightmares, and then talking through them. There were a couple points in the night where I "woke up" and shook my boyfriend on the shoulder and started talking to him like he was my old best friend Shelby. I began talking to "Shelby" about how our friendship had been on the rocks but we should try and be best friends again. He was mostly sound asleep and wrapped his arms around me and I remember thinking "Oh, that's not Shelby" right before I fell back into a short, but deep sleep.

It happened with another nightmare that same night, I woke up crying and saying "I don't know why you would do this, why did you have to do that? Why did you cheat on me? You know loyalty is so important to me," because in my dream I guess my boyfriend had been unfaithful or something, and I was in the in-between of asleep and awake and I started lecturing my very-faithful boyfriend on why he dream-cheated on me (lol). But after a minute of talking to him (he's a heavy sleeper, so he didn't really fully listen right away to what I was saying), I snap out of it almost every time, even just a little bit and realize that I wasn't actually having a convo with anyone.

It's a really bizarre scenario, and it's happened a few times.

Another one I can specifically think of included sleep walking and sleep talking at my ex's house. I started having a full-on conversation at 3 am after having been sound asleep, and I started talking about how I wanted to watch the movie School of Rock (idk why haha).

It's hard because it's not a full-on sleeptalking I don't think. I have a weird experience where in the moment, I am aware that I am having a conversation, even though I think my body is about 10% aware that the people I am talking to are just from my dreams. It's so strange. I'm sorry if this is confusing, but if anyone has any experience with intense & regular sleep-talking, please do share!!

The user's situation involves experiencing complex sleep disturbances such as sleeptalking and perceived conversations that blur the line between dreams and reality. These experiences are frequently associated with bipolar disorder, which the user states they have struggled with for years. While these disturbances are concerning and may affect the user's mental health and relationships, there is no immediate indication of a life-threatening situation or a crisis where mental health support intervention is critically urgent. However, the persistent nature of the symptoms and their potential impact on mental well-being and daily life does suggest a non-trivial situation. It implies that follow-up with a health professional may be beneficial.


just watched chris moyles quiz night from last night! alan carr is too funny! he's the best

The user's message expresses enjoyment of a TV show and admiration for a comedian, with no indication of distress or need for mental health support.


Hit my head on car trunk and caused my health anxiety to soar Im a 22 year old male and I hit my head Saturday afternoon on my car tailgate right before I went to go fish with some friends. It was the very top of my head but more towards my left side. Don’t really think it caused many problems other than hurting because I was still able to fish and remember when it happened and the events after it happened (didn’t blackout or whatever). Later Saturday night I felt my head and realized that it actually got cut and it’s looks kind of like a small raspberry-type injury about the size of a dime maybe smaller.

Anyways this caused me to become a huge hypochondriac and elevated my anxiety as I began to think about brain bleeds and what not. My pupils never became dilated and I’ve just had a minor headache which could possibly be due to stress/anxiety but the pressure is in my face (eyes and nose area). The place where I hit is still sore and has the common goose-egg. I’ve got a unrelated doctors appointment Friday and wanted to know if y’all thought I would be fine until then. I also wanted to ease my mind about brain bleeds and how common they were with an injury like mine? Haha hopefully this doesn't make me sound crazy, my anxiety has just been running rampant lately. Thank you in advance everyone

The user describes a physical injury that has triggered significant health anxiety. Although the injury is minor, the user's mental state is of concern due to heightened anxiety and hypochondria, fearing possible severe outcomes like brain bleeds. The stakes include their mental health and well-being, rather than immediate physical health risk. The situation is significant but not life-threatening, needing reassurance and potentially mental health support.


my poor little girl ha a baaaad rash on her bum and isnt feeling good

The situation involves a child with a rash, which can be distressing for a parent but is not necessarily an extremely high-stakes situation unless the rash is severe or indicative of a serious underlying condition. Based on the information provided, it appears to be a health concern but not life-threatening without additional context.


i gave her $1,000 for her birthday. i told her to spend it on herself.

The situation involves a financial gift, which could indicate potential financial issues or concerns about relationships, but there's no direct indication of a mental health crisis or high-stakes scenario. Such a situation can occur in normal life contexts, such as wanting to make a loved one feel special. Without additional context indicating distress or financial hardship, this doesn't appear to be high-stakes.


But those are your most valuable skills, they are your surviving skills. And yeah, not everyone has them. Here is how you can translate your survivor skills into your further success.  Time management and Organization

The user's message suggests a positive focus on utilizing survivor skills for personal success, specifically in time management and organization. While it alludes to past challenges, there is no immediate indication of a mental health crisis or urgent support need. The tone is motivational and not suggestive of high-stakes emotional stress.


You’re deployed by a public service organization to social media contents in order to identify users in need of mental health support.

i stopped taking ssri about month ago and have been really depressed and anxious since i don t have adhd but i have an adderall prescription and take 0mg xr about time a week i am trying to find alternative to taking medication for depression so i picked up some 0mg htp supplement is it safe to take the two together if not would it be safe to take the adderall in the morning and htp at night

The user expresses experiencing significant depression and anxiety after discontinuing SSRI medication, which are typically prescribed for mental health conditions such as depression. They are also using Adderall, a medication typically used for ADHD. This situation involves mental health management and the potential for adverse interactions between supplements and medications, which can be critical. However, the primary issue seems to be seeking advice on managing medications and supplements rather than an immediate life-threatening situation. Therefore, while it indicates a need for guidance from a healthcare professional, it may not be considered extremely high-stakes.


I have officially cut off everyone else in my life. I have no one. And no one wants me. I am literally only on this world to take care of people and it is not fair. I want to die but I just cannot end it. I cannot focus on my work. I am so exhausted The only thing keeping me alive is my 2 cats

The user expresses feelings of isolation, hopelessness, and suicidal ideation, along with a lack of focus and exhaustion. These are serious indicators of mental health distress and the mention of not wanting to live suggests a high risk situation. The only reasons they cite for staying alive are their two cats, indicating a fragile situation that could further deteriorate if circumstances change. This is a high-stakes situation that may require immediate support or intervention to ensure the user's safety.


it is getting harder and harder to hang on. The mantra of "I want to die" has been playing over and over in my head for so long that it is almost a subconscious tick. My husband is in a bad place with having to deal with his aging father and manipulative mother so I have to hold it together for him. I have no one else that I am close to so I never talk to anyone. I feel like I am drowning. I have no healthy coping mechanisms and most of the time just try to distract myself from reality. I want so badly to get help but I do not even know how to begin doing that let alone how to pay for it. I cannot do this anymore. I am so scared that one of these days I will not be strong enough to stop from doing something drastic. I am so tired of everything. I am not strong enough for this

The situation described by the user presents strong indications of a mental health crisis. The repeated thoughts of wanting to die, feelings of being overwhelmed and isolated, the lack of coping mechanisms, and concerns about potentially doing something drastic indicate that they are in acute distress. These factors characterize a high-stakes situation, as the risk of self-harm or suicide appears substantial. Immediate attention and support are crucial in this scenario.